yes you can be mad about this! (obviously you're always allowed to feel how you feel). tell him that you're sick of being relegated to a last resort. there's nothing wrong with guy time, but when he keeps cancelling on you and putting you off until a "later" that never comes, he's telling you that he doesn't respect you or value your time. tell him that you're done waiting for him. If you're important to him, he will save some time for you, if he doesn't then tell him it's over. my boyfriend tries to pull this card sometimes and then tries to call me "controlling" for being upset, but that's bullshit. he's free to spend his time as he sees fit, but if he's not respecting you and making time for you (or if he's cancelling on you and putting you off) then you have ZERO requirement to wait around for him until he's "free" to see you.
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i can understand the frustration because you want to see him huh, if he has plans with you then he should have kept them especially if this is becoming more of a habit and happening more frequently, i think you should tell him you need to see him too and see how he reacts, honesty is the best policy so just tell him what he does annoys you, you have every right to be mad at him! but don't not reply to his messages to get revenge, if it is annoying you that much calm down before you send anything you regret, sometimes it is best to wait an hour or 2 to send a decent reply than to send an angry one immediately
Yes you are well within your rights. you are an excellent girlfriend if this happens once, and something has come up out of the blue and you give him the ok to go hang with is mates.
but honestly i think he is taking you for a bit of a ride... and i personally wouldn't put up with being treated like that (well not once i realized i was being taken advantage of)
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Im sorry Kimk :( Konya West must be busy with drake i guess :/
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