Would it be wrong for a 19yo to date a 15yo girl?

[jjfrancis]

in Canada it is legal as long as there isint a five year difference in age. im asking this queston in a moral sense. would it be okay for me, a 19yo man to date a 15yo girl? I've had the girl out for a coffee date and recently i took her out to dinner assumeing she was my age (her facebook age lied) and when i orderd wine for the two of us she declined saying she was under age. so naturally i asked her age, she's 15! blew my mind! things are getting around that third date and im starting to question myself morally. is it alright? she seems much more mature than any 15yo. but its eating me inside :/ help?

[dogbert444]

I don't see anything against it. If laws have been set as you say they have, then it means that it is considered to be OK by your govermnent. I think your only real problem will be with her parents.

[jjfrancis]

haven't even met them (ive only ever picked her up from work) apparently they are split and her mother is alright with her seeing me :/ im having more trouble with myself than her parents :P its been playing on me ever since she told me :(

[dogbert444]

I look at it this way. When my dad met my mum, she was 19. There was quite an age gap. However, they were soulmates and had almost 12 great years together.

At the moment, with 4 years between you, it looks all doom and gloom. In time, that 4 years will be nothing. The two of you might be soulmates. Who knows until you give it a go. If anyone has a problem with it, then they have a problem with your government, and the laws that it's made, as well.
After all said and done, you are only dating. It's a huge step from that to sleeping together.

[jjfrancis]

in the grand scheme of things, the 4 year difference is a drop in the ocean, i know. i just feel like im robbing the cradle a little :/ & thats the thing, it is a big jump from dating to having sex. but it seemed to be going towards that quite quickly and im feeling like its either the next date or the one after and she will be a little more reluctant to let me walk off of her door step haha. its come up in conversation before and it seems like she's interested.

[dogbert444]

Just don't break any laws. The rest is OK!

[jjfrancis]

"oh, its alll perfectly legal" haha :P i triple checked everything and as long as our new government doesn't change anything we are fine :)

[Entity]

For the last time, yes.

[jjfrancis]

common question on GAG lately? sorry if im being repetitive :P

[Entity]

Yes. Everyone is going ebilophile. Must be Winter.

[jjfrancis]

i am stealing that word for my vocabulary! haha tiz the season! :P

[victoriaxcoolya]

my ex was 19, i dont think there is anything wrong with it.

[jjfrancis]

how did your parents feel about the relationship? and, if you don't mind me asking, how did the relationship go and why did it end?