My girlfriend cut her hair and now she looks like a lesbian?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has gon and gotten a pixie cut, she said nothing to me and instead surprised me and expected me to be happy about it. We once had a conversation about this and I told her how I felt, basically that I think short hair is fucking horrible on women and it's like guy's hair, it's common among butch lesbians who are about as far from attractive as you can get. Why the fuck would she cut off her gorgeous hair and expect me to be happy about it? She really likes it but I think it's horrible, I don't see her the same way anymore. I bet if I got a buzz cut and grew a beard she would hate it. What do you do when your partner transforms their look without telling you and you can't be attracted to them anymore?

[Azara]

she cut it bc she wanted to. if it bothers you break up.

what will yup do if you marry someone and their hair thins as they age. some women lose a lot of thickness and have to leave their hair short. will you divorce,. bcc if so you should;d let her know before you mARRY.

I dont like facial hair and it grosses me out I don't know if id break up. id like to think i wouldn't but who knows. i prefer long hair so i understand your feelings to a point but i dont think id break up if he cut his hair.

i dont think yo should stay bc ' hair grows back'. you can't rely on that bc she may not want it to grow back. its her call.

your anger is not justified. her hair bel;songs to her not you. if it others you to where you dont want her then be an adult. take responsibility for your feelings and break up. but feeling like she tricked you by being her is not acceptable.

people change and sometimes we can change with them sometimes we grow apart. you can't expect who you date to be the same. and you can't expect to change them as you want. they are a different person,.

but sounds like you're growing away from her and looked for an excise. probably should break up.

good luck.

[Asker]

It's not just the hair, it's the scenario. You tell your boyfriend you think a skinhead looks disgusting and you can't be attracted to dudes like that, a couple of weeks later he surprises you by coming home bald as fuck! He's all happy expecting you to like it, you know he must be taking the fucking piss because you've had this conversation, he knows you don't like it, you don't tell him you think he looks fucking ridiculous but you can't be all like yay it looks great, you're so sexy, then he's all pissed off with you because you're not enthusiastic. Wouldn't you be thinking to yourself what the actual FUCK? On top of that he lives with you for free and leaves his shit everywhere and doesn't pull his weight. Then you log on to see what other people think and you get all these comments saying it's his body and his choice and you're being a bitch, he deserves better than someone who doesn't love him enough to accept his skinhead. Unbelievable. Idgaf but people on here are ridiculous.

[Southern_Shorty]

I may not fully understand the entire situation, but I had an ex who hates short hair as well. He didn't like me wearing it anyway but curly. If I wore it straight or even pulled it up off my neck, he freaked. He also disagreed with me getting my eyebrows waxed. I never once told him anything he did that bothered me. I figured we all have quirks.

I broke up with him and then chopped my hair off. Okay, not all the way, but it was shorter than my shoulders. I still looked girly. It felt good! Almost like I was set free.

Point of the story? I felt like he was trying to control me.. Even on the smallest things. He didn't want me to dye my hair, so I didn't, but I don't get why he got so worked up when I try to look pretty for him.

If she was just being a complete butthead about what you said, ask her why she did it deliberately. I would for sure let her know why I was upset. I would like to know why she felt like it was a good idea to get it done. Maybe she communicated with female friends and went with their input.

[Asker]

I let her do her thing, it's not even a question of letting but you know what I mean she lives her life, has her work and friends and stuff and I don't interfere with any of that. I don't like her haircut, I don't like that she did it when she knew I wouldn't like it then got pissed off when I didn't like it (the being pissed off is mainly what I'm pissed off about) and I don't like the mess she makes in my apartment.

[Southern_Shorty]

Set her down and tell her. It's your apartment, so guidelines should be established. Pushing past expectations and being completely inconsiderate is not okay. I would have problems with someone being disrespectful to my stuff.

[Asker]

I don't think you should have to tell someone not to be a slob in the first place to be honest. This website has helped me conclude it's over. Fantastic!

[Southern_Shorty]

Maybe not, but some people are like that. When I go to get togethers at a friend's, I always hell clean up. Others have no problem eating food, drinking drinks, but they can't pick up their trash and put it in the can. They must not know how to wash dishes either of flush a toilet. No, you shouldn't have to post rules to the wall, but some people are lazy, ride, and have horrible manners.

[Southern_Shorty]

Excuse my typos. 1am here.

[Asker]

Meh, fuck em.

[RachelBrigs]

I don't like beards or long hair but if a guy I was with did that I wouldn't just lose my attraction to him and it wouldn't change my feelings for him in any way at all. Hell he could get fat but if I love him I love him still.

That said, if he got fat I would encourage him to get in shape. If he grew out his hair/got a beard and I thought it was horrible on him I would tell him I liked him better without it, but if he liked himself more with it/felt better I would let it go and get usedto it since its his body and it isn't hurting anyone.

[Asker]

I don't think you understand and you're being idealistic but thanks for the opinion.

[RachelBrigs]

I do understand. I understand that you don't find her haircut attractive. But when I like a guy, I like him even when he has a bad hair cut, or gets out of shape. I am still attracted to him, even if I like him better a different way. If a haircut is detrimental to your relationship with her, it isn't a strong relationship, and you probably shouldn't be in it anyway

[Asker]

A strong relationship takes time, if you fuck it up before there's a level of bonding that you're mentioning, like getting fat, you can't expect someone to stick around when you do shit like that.

[RachelBrigs]

Hmm I guess I'm different, by the time you're in an official relationship with someone you should have a bond built up.
Leave her if you want, honestly I think you should, I wouldn't want to be her in this situation

[Asker]

You're definitely idealistic, but you're young.

[RachelBrigs]

Is it really so far fetched that I'm just different? I'm not speaking idealistically, guys I've liked have changed in not so beautiful ways, and it didn't change my feelings.
I had something with a guy (never a label on it, that's a long story) and when I met him he was very fit, but he stopped working out and developed a bit of chub especially on his stomach. Before that, I found chub on the stomach ugly. I started finding it cute. He also got a stupid haircut that looked horrible, still found him cute. He started dipping and smoking, which is revolting... still loved him and still wanted to fuck his brains out.

[Asker]

I think you might form a bond quite quickly, which is an age thing. Also (not being an asshole just speaking frankly) believing you're different to other people is also an age thing. Having depth is good though, try not to lose it or get bitter as you get older. lol

[RachelBrigs]

I don't think I'm different in general, but I know you and I are different, in this regard, seeing as we see the situation differently. That's basically a fact. You're using my age against me so you don't seem like an ass for wanting to leave her. No way I would want to stay with a guy who I like even if he changes his appearance, unless I'm immature and "bond too quickly" whatever etc.

I don't bond quickly, I simply have a different view point than you. Stop trying to make it seem as if that's attributed to a defect of character in me. I'm not over here calling you shallow, I'm just saying the relationship isn't that strong anyway.

[Asker]

You and I are certainly different. I only really care about what I think, the idea that not liking short hair is controlling was annoying but that's about it. I'm not interested in using your age to not seem like an asshole to a bunch of strangers on the internet for dumping my girlfriend who's become a bitch pain in the ass, the more you type the younger you seem.

[RachelBrigs]

It isn't about you not seeming like an ass to others but to yourself. Being condescending to me makes you feel better about how you feel. It is a defense mechanism and it is probably subconscious.
You're the one who attacked my character from the get go, then you say I'm immature. Just funny.

Dump your girlfriend, and move on.

[Asker]

Buying into that psychobabble or using it to feel better about where you're coming from because it makes you feel other people don't know exactly what they're doing seems more of a defense mechanism to me. I've got asshole tendencies and I'm pretty happy with those, I'm old enough to be comfortable and honest with myself.
I wasn't really attacking you, if you feel attacked... it's probably an age thing. lmao

[RachelBrigs]

I don't feel attacked, but I know you are trying to make me feel that my opinion doesn't count. Actually, you're pretty much saying it doesn't. But, had I said "bruhhh leave her I totally understand that's such an ugly haircut she lost her femininity" you wouldve just upvoted me and said thanks... so I'm only too young to give an opinion when its the one you don't wanna hear

[Asker]

You're the one who said I attacked your character, but now you say you don't feel attacked, okay then. I duno what you're on about, I upvoted everyone whether I agreed with them or not.

[RachelBrigs]

You can attack someone without them feeling attacked. Keyword, feeling.
😒

Allow me to rephrase, you would have expressed agreement and moved on.. you would not have said "actually you're a little young to give an accurate opinion."
The problem isn't my age, its that we disagreed.

[Asker]

So why bring it up? Exactly.
The age comment was to do with your sentimentality, not the opinion one way or the other.

[RachelBrigs]

My point was that you were attacking me for a reason, I could go back into it but you're better off rereading the comments, I don't like repeating myself multiple times.
Originally, it did seem you made the age comment for that reason, but when I explained that it wasn't a sentiment, but real life experience that led me to my opinion, you maintained that I only had that opinion because I was young.

Really, you are arguing in pretty dumb illogical circles, and making yourself look like the teenager. Anyway, just kindly break it off, and good luck, take care, bye. I will not read your reply

[Asker]

Fucking kids.

[Karōshi]

^^This hahaha media.giphy.com/media/O5NyCibf93upy/giphy.gif

[nakedalligator]

I dated a girl who did this once, and I had broken up with her shortly after. Though are relationship was already rocky at that point, and she may have even been trying to agitate me, she actually did a complete crew cut though and was a bit of a nut.

I believe attraction is an important part of a relationship so really you can only weigh your options of how much it bothers you. I know I hate the look of girls with short hair, or at least I can't be attracted to it so it's a bit of a deal breaker. It's difficult if you're already in a relationship and you do like their other qualities, but there's not really anything you can do about it, either chose to accept it, or leave. it's not like she can get it back to how it was, and if she cut it short once, she's likely to do it again.

[Asker]

Aaah fuck man, I think you're right.

[Knuckles77]

So sorry dude. I agree with all you said. It sucks big time this happend. Not sure what to tell you to do. Hopefully the lack of sex in the near future will inspire her to grow her hair back because if you're anything like me the desire for sex with her is probaly pretty much gone right?

[Asker]

Yeah, plus she's been acting like I'm the one in the wrong which makes me think she's perverse and I can't see it going any further, she's been living with me for free and all that shit so I guess I'll look like an asshole for kicking her out but hopefully she's saved some money and hasn't been stupid with it.

[Knuckles77]

Fuck her. You may look like an asshole, but I am an asshole. It's very simple to me, chicks who live with me cut their hair the way I want so they are appealing to look at and fuck or they can get the fuck out. I'm not running a goddamn rescue mission. Look like a dyke and live with me for free? Then get the fuck out. I don't blame you. No you're not an asshole.

[Asker]

Thanks man.

[Knuckles77]

You bet. Sorry that happened. To me the bottom line is if she's you're girlfriend she should love you. She should understand she's living there for free. Because she loves you and lives there for free, and you don't like dyke haircuts she should have the goddamn courtesy to keep her hair in a way you find appealing. It's a small thing to ask, all things considered no? You support her do you not? Well then one good turn deserves another. She's fucking selfish and you're only seeing the tip of the ice berg. As I see it if she loved you and cared about you the least she can do is keep her hair in a way you like. Especially since you support and pay for her ass. It's not a lot to ask right? Fuck her. I'm glad you bounced her on her fucking ass. Since I'm an asshole I'd take it one step further and fuck her best friend or sister too, on principal, but you do as you please. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Who needs a girl you support and can't even be bothered to look appealing for you?

[Asker]

I think looking at it like that is fair enough actually as I do a load of big stuff for her it' a little consideration for me and she can't do it, it's not a little thing I should let go it's a little thing she should do. I'll tell her on Thursday and kick her out Friday.

[EmiliaRose2355]

I totally get where you're coming from. This is pretty much like me saying to my boyfriend 'look, I really do not like/am not attracted to guys with a buzz cut/mohekan and a ridiculous Santa beard, so, please refrain from getting your hair/beard styled like that? Thanks' I also find short hair on girls hideous. She could be the most feminine girl in the world, but even at that, short hair does not look good. I'm traditional in the sense that I don't like short hair on girls and long hair on guys.

Either way, don't listen to what some of these girls are saying on here. You raised your concern to your girlfriend and she ignored it and didn't respect your thoughts. I don't blame you not being attracted to girls with short hair. Men are wired to find females with long flowing hair attractive, and that's that. She should have considered your opinion before doing this.

[Asker]

Someone who gets it, thank the lord! lmao

[EmiliaRose2355]

I've figured most people are fools on this site.. They don't seem to get very much 😂

[Asker]

Why do you hang out here? At the moment this is entertaining but I'll delete this account soon.

[EmiliaRose2355]

Just to ask the odd coupla things. There's always a few people who are... kinda sensible/have productive things to say. Everyone else is an idiot though really

[Asker]

That's fair enough.

[Melpomene]

Has she eaten any pussy lately? Fingered a girl? No?
I'd say she's not a lesbian. I spend 80% of my time bald as the day I was born and I still like men.

Relax. She likes the haircut and hair grows back.

[Asker]

I don't like it, she knew before doing it I wouldn't like it but still expects me to be happy about it, still expects me to be attracted to her and she's pissed off that I'm neither of those things. It's like someone telling you they're on the way home and they're starving, so you cook the thing you know they can't stand, then get pissed off when they're disappointed and don't want to eat it, it's like that but worse.

[Melpomene]

I dunno about you, but if I was starving I wouldn't be in any position to complain about a free meal.

[Asker]

But then you do anyway, that's unreasonable and stupid, then you're pissed off like the cook's in the wrong. It's bullshit.

[Asker]

Stop being a stupid bitch with a fucking man's haircut who gives shit advice on the internet because she's lonely! Probably because no dudes want to touch her as she looks like a dyke.

[Melpomene]

I'm actually engaged son. Disagreeing with your opinion = loneliness.
I happen to be with a man who isn't caught up over a haircut.

[Asker]

No, giving blatantly shit advice does, if you gave useful advice I could understand you being here. You have a fiancee (hard to believe but I'll humor you) who has no standards.

[Melpomene]

Saying what you don't wanna hear =/= shit advice.

[Asker]

Telling me to stop being an entitled little fuck when you can't really justify that = shit advice and probably also defensiveness about your shit choice of haircut. Lets hope this fiancee of yours sticks around or you'll have to either grow your hair, drink from the furry cup, be single for a long ass time, or find another guy who doesn't mind masculine women.

[Melpomene]

Suuuuree... will do.

Enjoy being an insecure, entitled, controlling hoon without a modicum of self awareness. If your soon to be ex is lookin' for someone with the maturity of an adult, tell her to hit me up, since apparently she's a dyke now. :>

[Asker]

Looking like a dyke and being one are different unless you're retarded or conveniently twist that shit up because you're soooooo fucking mature you'll try and win some bullshit "disagreement" that you started. Really you need to hang on to that guy of yours, in your eyes he must be great, mainly because he's probably the only one dumb enough to get with an idiot like you.

[Melpomene]

If you've got several rational people telling you you're overreacting then the problem isn't your girlfriend man. It's you.

[Asker]

I've got several stupid lonely bitches talking shit.

[Steveurkel]

I am going through the same thing you are and these forum posts all seem to be from women who are putting themselves in this woman's position. They wouldn't want there boyfriend to leave them for it.. also I notice most seem to say they "dont think they would leave because of it" but haven't zsaid they definitely wouldn't.. I also warned my girlfriend that i would not be attracted.. she started talking to a new friend who has these haircuts who talked her into it.. if I'm a bad person for this it is what it is but relationships need attraction to succeed I feel your pain

[DodgersGM]

Is your attraction to her really gone now? Like, seriously? It all hinged on her hair style?

I think you're entitled to your opinion, and that it's okay for you to tell her west you think. But you've gotta accept that it's her body and her choice.

[DodgersGM]

*tell her what you think

[Asker]

Long hair is a really feminine thing, short hair is the opposite. They can do other shit that's feminine but that's not visual or visual in a big way like the hair, she looks totally different now, totally visually unappealing. It's probably easy for the women to go down the lines of well if you were only with her for her looks... thing, but I wouldn't expect that from a guy. It's the combination of not being visually attractive anymore along with the doing something she knew I wouldn't be happy with, then being pissed off when I wasn't happy with it, I didn't tell her I was unhappy, but I couldn't lie. So she knows I wouldn't be keen then gets pissed when that's the case. I mean wtf? To be honest there's other stuff as well, she lives with me for free and fucks up my apartment. I think I've come to a conclusion, but I resent the idea among some people on here that I'm controlling because otherwise I let her do her thing.

[DodgersGM]

I don't know think you're trying to control her. It's not like you told her what she could and couldn't do, right? I was just surprised to hear (in your words) that you couldn't be attracted to her anymore.

And look, I'm actually in agreement with you about the pixie cut thing. Generally speaking, I don't like it. A select few women can pull it off, but yeah, not my favorite. That said, if I was with someone and she got a haircut I didn't love, I wouldn't stop loving her.

Maybe you've got resentment built up toward her, and the haircut is giving you an opportunity to release some of that?

[Asker]

No I wouldn't tell her what she could/couldn't do because, apart from being wrong, I don't see it as my place to do that and she'd probably leave anyway. lmao. Visually it's really not my thing, I might see past it if it wasn't for her attitude about it but that's made it impossible. We're not at the love stage yet, at least not from my end, thank god actually after all this.
You're right about the resentment, I hung on because I really did have high hopes for us despite some of the bullshit because you're supposed to see past that. Now I realize it's over, but you also made me realize I can't end it citing the haircut, mainly because she's now involved with a bunch of my friends and she'll use that to turn them against me, fucking women man.

[DodgersGM]

Haha, yeah, don't cite the haircut. That's smart.

To be honest, it really sounds like the haircut was just a weird tipping point for you. Doesn't seem like things were going right between y'all.

Whatever happens, good luck. :)

[Asker]

Thanks man.

[lexythelou22]

Did you catch her fucking a woman after getting this new hair cut? Was she three fingers in with her new lesbian lover? Did she say," Man, I sure wish you had a vagina!" to you? If not, then she doesn't have a lesbian hair cut, she has a hair cut. You can dislike her new hair cut, but it's pretty fucked up that you see her completely differently now. You must have wanted to bury your dick in her hair if that's really the case. Also, she doesn't have to tell you when she's changing something, it's not really your business. If you really hate it that bad, tell her. And also tell her that she has to give you a formal notice before she changes anything at all so that she can dump your bitch ass.

[Asker]

Actually it'll be me throwing her out next week, but not before my "bitch ass" creampies her one last time. Anyway you can fuck off because you're just a kid and you're not entitled to an opinion for at least another four years.

[lexythelou22]

Ah, if only that system of not being able to have opinions was also spread to the brainless ego maniacs such as yourself, then the world would be just a bit brighter.

[Asker]

Yeah yeah kiddo :) lmao

[Poppykate]

A few years ago I cut my hair short. Just above my shoulders. My mother died of cancer, and I wanted to donate my hair to a charity who makes wigs for people dealing with cancer. I didn't ask my then boyfriend at the time. I just did it. He was shock, but still found me very beautiful. ( plus with a year it was almost back down near my waist again). My point is, I don't think it is the hair that is the problem, but the girl!. The hair is just an excuse, a way out, to break up with her. Time to take the exit ramp!.

[Xelebrum]

Depends on how they changed their look and to what level they did so. If she went out and got a bunch of tattoos, I would honestly lose my attraction for her. Especially if she got them on her face.

In your case though, it's not a big deal. It's hair, it'll grow back.

[Asker]

I really don't fancy her now though, plus she's pissed off that I'm not over the moon about it but she knows how I feel and did it anyway like I'm gonna magically feel differently. I don't know what she expects. Fuck!

[peachblossomluck]

So she knows you hate it and did it anyway? Was she really ready for a change, tired of taking care of her long hair, or trying to piss you off? She probably wasn't trying to piss you off. She's probably just wanting to try a new trend. Be encouraged that a lot of women with short haircuts end up pretty much just missing their long hair and working on growing it out again like me:) Leave her alone about it. She may regret it and want to grow it out?

[Asker]

I'm past caring tbh, she can grow it out some place else.

[peachblossomluck]

Ok, good luck☆

[BxLxUxExJxAxY]

As weird as this sounds, break it off a bit... Not like break up with her, but create a little bit of distance, just enough that she realizes something is wrong. When she confronts you on it then politely bring it up by saying something like "You were absolutely gorgeous with your old hair, what made you decide on changing it?" A compliment yet a hint at that you are not a fan of what her hair looks like not. If things go smoothly she will talk about her feelings and your feelings on the matter and will probably agree to not cut it again, I mean she can't glue it back on you know. Hope this helps.

[Anonymous]

You have issues. When my mom cut her hair short, my dad told her she looked beautiful. If your girlfriends hairstyle changes how you feel about her, I doubt you even care about her or like her at all. by the way, you think women with short hair look like men?:

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pophaircuts.com/.../...irstyles-for-Thick-Hair.jpg

They don't look like guys to me...

[Asker]

They do to me.

[RationalMale]

those are gorgeous women who only manage to look pretty with short hair.

and attraction is important. why date someone if you have no attraction for them? boner test is pretty final, lol.

[Asker]

@RationalMale yeah those girls would be hot with a proper women's haircut but to me they're ugly with short hair.

[Opinion Owner]

The length of your hair doesn't change the beauty of a face. If you think they look like men, you need your eyes checked bud

[Asker]

Hair frames the face so yes it does, there's a reason people pay a lot of money for a decent haircut. But whatever, stupid girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Hair doesn't change your facial features, no matter how much money you pay, stupid man.

[Asker]

Yeah, if you're fat and you wear black it's slimming, you're still a fat shit but you look slimmer. It's all about how it LOOKS. Fucking hell people on here are retarded and it's amazing.

[Opinion Owner]

Well then we clearly disagree. I think short hair LOOKS gorgeous. I feel sorry for your girlfriend. Apparently, you only care about looks.

[Asker]

Ah ffs read what I said to Azara I can't be bothered.

[Danitarg3]

If your relationship is already rockey then maybe it's a sign... but if it's just her hair that's a turn off, then don't break up over something that can grow back.
I love beards. And when my boyfriend shaves I get so sad. But it grows back, and then I'm happy :)

[Asker]

I've made my decision and we're breaking up, it's not just the hair but the hair on a girl is a bigger deal than a guy's facial hair in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

I agree with you, pixie cuts are fucking awful, but don't dump her for it! if you really like her, you can wait till it grows back

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[Asker]

That's attrocious! hahaha. I'm not dumping her for that, there's other reasons as well but it's still gonna be over.

[Araya]

It's her damn hair. She can get it cut however she wants to. That said, if you're not attracted, you're not attracted, but she doesn't have to consult YOU to go get a damn haircut.

What is this, the 1920s?

Here's something that you can do: wait for the hair to grow back.

[Asker]

Where the fuck did I say she has to consult me? Nowhere, that's where. These internet bitches fear being controlled by tyrannical bfs but it's typically females in that they get worked up over shit that hasn't happened. Fucking idiots.

[Araya]

"What do you do when your partner transforms their look without telling you and you can't be attracted to them anymore?"

Clearly, this is mirroring your situation: she got a hair cut WITHOUT telling you... which has no obligation to do. She doesn't have to tell you--meaning that she doesn't have to consult you.

It's a clear linear process that led me to that conclusion. You seem to be illogical so I feel more badly for your girlfriend now. Maybe you should do her a favor and leave.

[Asker]

You should have used some ellipses so we know you've taken an isolated piece of text and used it to suit your bullshit agenda, contextualizing it to make me an asshole. Doing shit like that you should really be a journalist or a politician, careers where shitheads are prevalent. The point is she expects me to be happy about something she knows I don't like... which if you read the question as a whole you should get. You're fucking unbelievable calling me illogical. Me leave? That's a laugh, it's her who'll be leaving, at my behest, without any money she'll be fucked. Good luck to her.

[Araya]

Lol. Shithead. Projecting much? Especially based off of what you stated in the end of your last comment... haha

The quote wasn't isolated. The tone conveyed in it was apparent throughout your senseless bigoted ranting. No one has to try and make you seem like an asshole: you're doing a good job of it yourself. You don't deserve the title though: you're more juvenile in my opinion. Not because of your preference to long hair, but your seemingly inability to be rational about it.

No matter who leaves, my point is she'd be better of WITHOUT you. Something I hope she learns sooner rather than later. She DOES want a man instead of a little boy, I'm sure.

Also, do please tell her that I'm sure she looks very attractive with her haircut, nevermind your preference. There are many men who do not hold such views and many who I am sure are much better looking, intelligent, and hold much more endearing qualities that you currently exhibit.

Have a good day. ^_^

[Asker]

She wants me and I don't want her anymore, she'll be worse off by far. I don't care about being a shithead if I'm having a good time, at least my life isn't fucking miserable like yours. As for the rest I can't be fucking bothered, you're just another internet bitch. Now get off my board before you shit on it. weknowmemes.com/.../arguing-with-retards.jpg

[Nerdvana]

Love her anyways, her hair will grow back. The insecurity she will feel if you don't make her feel good about it won't

[Asker]

She knew how I felt about, if she feels insecure she can only blame herself.

[Nerdvana]

A little controlling dont you think? Its her hair. Sounds like she cut her hair to spite you because of you may be trying to control her. What do you think?

[Asker]

No, not really, she lives her life pretty much as I live mine and we do our thing. I wouldn't turn into a fat shit, grow a beard and start dressing like a dickhead out of respect for her and me too actually, I know she wouldn't find that attractive because she's stated those things as unattractive, me gaining weight, facial hair and dressing like a hipster would be disrespectful and I wouldn't do it.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

You have serious issues. How she wants to wear her hair is her choice!!! If you aren't attracted to her anymore then she is better off without your sorry ass!

[Asker]

Oh god another one. You don't know what you're on about, my "sorry ass" creampies the shit out of her most nights, except recently. Just because you're a fucking loser with a complex you come here and have a go at people who're doing better than you are. I signed up here for some advice and I wasn't really expecting a bunch of bitter, judgmental, loser bitches who make a habit out of living vicariously through a web forum because life isn't the disney story they expected in their idealistic stupid little minds, but I live and learn. I plan to break up with her, I'll tell her on Thursday it's over, then she's got Friday to sort something out and she should be able to find somewhere to live over the weekend as most people are free to help her, that's how considerate I am. But before Thursday comes around, I'll bang her really rough, just for you :)

[ScarletteFox_Red]

I didn't read much of that. I don't speak asshole. But good luck to ya though

[Asker]

You read all of it.

[Counterclocking]

I know how you feel. All you can do is break up with her and find another girlfriend. Like for me, I’d break up with her if I was you and find another girl. Like for me if I was dating a girl and got a pixie cut or shaved her head, I’d break up with her in a second. I don’t want a girl/woman that looks like a fucking dude.

[RationalMale]

lol tell her you're going to gain 30 pounds of blubber and it will be so cute.

in all seriousness, tell her it really lowers how attractive you find her and ask her to agree to keep her hair long from now on.

[Dubhlann]

memesvault.com/.../Double-Facepalm-Gif-09.gif

*sigh*

[Asker]

That's really really very funny.

[RasmusAiken]

It's just hair. She'll change it 10,000 times. I suggest you get a buzz cut and grow a beard. . . . then try to be as understanding as she is.

[Asker]

How do you know she's understanding, you know fuck all and it shows.

[Anonymous]

It would suck but I would dump that girl so bad she wouldn't know what hit her

[Asker]

She'll be gone by next weekend.

[Dred1614]

I'd tell her that her dazzling good looks are gone.

[Noxifer626]

Well, if someone's appearance is so important to you, she certainly deserves someone better.

[Asker]

You white knight little faggot, go get a girlfriend if you can.

[Noxifer626]

Are you a neanderthal out from a time machine or something like that?
Or are you just that big of a moron?

[Asker]

Are you a little twerp who has a misplaced sense of social justice? You're not entitled to an opinion yet, come back in a few years boy.

[Noxifer626]

You're the one who needs to lear a little bit of respect for other people, son.
Come back when you're a bit more mature.

[Asker]

Respect is earned kid, and you can't son your elders. Besides only children give a shit about looking mature, once you're old enough you stop caring. Now fuck off to bed.

[Noxifer626]

At least I don't go around yelling sexist and homophobic slurs and then expect people to agree with me.

[Asker]

I wouldn't expect politically correct, dour little dorks to agree. Nobody grown and sensible really gives a fuck what they agree or disagree with anyway.

[Noxifer626]

I reinforce my original claim that your girlfriend is going to be much better off without you.
You'd probably have killed her if she smiled at another man.

[Asker]

You reinforce your original claim? LMAO. Well shit! She might be better off, but I doubt it, she'll have to find somewhere to live, she'll have no money, she's a pain in the ass and that'll cause conflict with whoever she cohabits with, I think she'll be quite miserable actually. But at least she'll be free of me eh? LOL.

[Noxifer626]

Dude, living in a dumpster working as a crackwhore is a better fate than being within 20 feet of your sorry ass.

[Asker]

The reality is I'll get another girlfriend before you even lose your fucking virginity! hahahahahaha

[Noxifer626]

And then she will make some change in her lifestyle without asking for your written permission and you'll dump her because you are a heartless, selfish, narcissistic and possibly sociopathic bastard.
And you will live your whole life going from failed relationship to failed relationship because you don't have the psychological stability to accept that other people don't have to do what you tell them to.
PS: I don't give a shit about losing my virginity, so get better insults, you unoriginal prick.

[Asker]

You don't give a shit? Which is why you ranted. hahaha. Going from failed relationship to failed relationship is what people do until they find someone they want to stay with, unless they think life is a disney movie and they'll settle down with their highschool sweetheart and croak together. You're adorable in a naive way, hilarious.

[Noxifer626]

I never said anything of that. You're making things up.
A "relationship that didn't work" is different from a "failed relationship".

[Asker]

If you want to argue semantics you're on to a loser but never mind. A relationship that didn't work... failed. Ridiculously hilarious.
*Eats popcorn and waits for clown to take another fall.

[Noxifer626]

Not really. The distinction I personally make is:
A relationship that didn't work didn't work because of some fact that was too big how to ignore. For example, living very far away and not being able to meet.
A failed one is a failed one because one of the parts of the relationship had some sort of extremely stupid and demanding expectation. For example, a girl who dumped her boyfriend for not working out every day.

[Asker]

To be honest that's just so stupid that I think I'm losing IQ points reading it. Both examples failed, they both didn't work. You can waffle as much as you like though.

[Noxifer626]

In the first example, the circumstances were inappropiate. There was nobody to blame.
On the second, that girl is an asshole. And you are too.

[Asker]

Both are still failures, both still didn't work. Harking back to your original point about "failed relationship to failed relationship" there is no distinction between that and a relationship that "didn't work" and you should choose your words more carefully if you wanna be a dick about it. But whatever. hahahaha

[Noxifer626]

It's a personal made distinction. I never said this should be universal terms.
The fact still remains that you are a superficial asshole.

[Asker]

Language starts to become meaningless when little morons start making personal distinctions, like it or not you and your peer group, your generation, is responsible for the drop in standards, your children will lower them further. It was better when people were kept under the thumb and beaten at school. There's nothing superficial about preference for long flowing locks and a tidy apartment, you really are a stupid little white knight.

[Noxifer626]

You are a fucking caveman. Go back to your cave.

[Anonymous]

Looks like she'll learn a lesson about how meaningless romantic relationships really are...

[Asker]

She'll learn a lesson about not being perverse over the shit she does and leaving crap all over the house, at the weekend she'll have to move out and bunk with friends, then they'll find out how much of a pain in the ass she is.

[Opinion Owner]

Why the hell did you move this chick in if you basically hate her so much?

[Asker]

She wasn't always like this, she started off as sweet and considerate then turned into this irritating little sprite.

[Indigocloud]

How does one look like a lesbian? Plus it's not even your hair

[Asker]

How does one look like a lesbian? You're fucking kidding me right?

freethinker.co.uk/.../Kira-Laura.jpg

[Indigocloud]

The only thing that would make her a lesbian is if she's attracted to females. Is she supposed to get your permission before she does everything? Is the way she looks the only reason you're attracted to her?

[Asker]

The keywords are "look like". As for the rest you're just talking shit and it's been covered elsewhere. stupidbadmemes.files.wordpress.com/.../...ight.jpg

[Indigocloud]

I'm sorry but you're an ass and I'm willing to bet that picture was made by a misogynist.

[Asker]

Nah just someone with good observational humor.

[Jared____]

So she's your girlfriend

[Asker]

That doesn't mean she can do whatever the fuck she wants.

[Melpomene]

Actually, yeah it does. She's your girlfriend. Not your slave. She's to full reign over whatever she wants to do with her body.

[Asker]

And expect me to be happy about it? No way! you need a reality check.

[Lindsaylove5]

Yes, she actually can do "whatever the fuck she wants." She's a full grown adult, and she was not placed on this earth to serve you, and make decisions based on what makes you happy.

[Asker]

She can do whatever the fuck she wants and live in a cardboard box if she can't find somewhere else to live after I kick her out.

[jp1210]

Ugh... you sound like a shallow ass hole. She is her own person and should not need your permission to get a fucking hair cut. If you don't like it you know.. just chat with her about it for future refference but you don't have to be a douche. It's only hair! It grows back!!! Get the fuck over it! Don't make her feel so bad about it... you probably hurt her feelings... I feel sorry for her being with an ass hole like you.

[Asker]

asshole is one word, just like fuckface. Go shave your head and see if any guys find that shit attractive.

[Sojex]

Transform your own look and see what happens

[Asker]

That's what I've been thinking of doing but I don't know if I can even be bothered to stick around for that, what's the point when someone does something like that? If it's petty for me to leave because of it then it's petty of her to do it in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Her face is still the same though

[Asker]

and it's perfect, but I don't like her personality anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess the hair cut was the final blow

[MessyThoughts]

hahahahahaha oh no.

[Anonymous]

You're an idiot. It's HAIR.

[Asker]

Now she looks like a fucking dude, it's like having a disrespectful, messy guy living with me. I'm breaking up with her, according to some fucking people who live their lives on web forums she'll find someone better. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha