When I hurt my ankle in a soccer game, my ex called me a liar and said I wasn't hurt. He wouldn't help me to the bathroom, to bedroom, across the room... in fact, he watched me crawl across the floor while drinking his coffee. I had to go to the bathroom in the morning, but he was still sleeping, so I had to hop there, creating a lot of noise. Apparently, it woke him up because he said I was being annoying and rolled back over. I sat on the floor for a second because I was tired from hopping and needed to rest before getting in the bed. He said, and his exact words were, "You know, my dog grabbed ahold of a mouse once and snapped it's neck. Even if was still able to move around by itself." He helped me to my car and said I can't come back to his house until I'm done 'lying'.
Yeah. Definitely the worst. He's an ex for a reason. Can't believe I stayed with that guy for a year, what a waste of my time.
My boyfriend hasn't done anything bad to me at all, if anything I'm the only one that tends to freak out. :(
Now with what one of my ex's did to me, that's a different story, lol. I was 15 at the time and dated the dude for a while at the time. Then all of a sudden he started avoiding me, and not talking to me. I was confused because I didn't do anything bad or treated him badly. One day I decided to go check his MySpace profile (yes this was when MySpace was huge). Apparently he set his MySpace statues to single. If I hadn't of checked his profile, I wouldn't have known he had broken up with me when I did. That's the only ex I ever thought was extremely pathetic.
There are some bad things he's done that I can't discuss on here in case his brother sees them, they're things we'd rather keep between the two of us. Aside from those, I think the worst thing he did was call me cold-hearted a few months into dating. Now, he'd tell me he had no idea what he was saying and that there's no way I could be considered cold hearted but meh, I guess the damage was done. With my anxiety and poor self-image and low confidence, that really hurt and it's not something I've quite been able to forget or get over yet, even though relatively it's not really that bad.
I was pregnant with our daughter and some hoe offered him sex (hoe because she knew me and that we had two kids) he told me he didn't tell me because I was very ill & stressed during pregnancy... I only found out 3 years later pregnant again and at WORK... SO HE LIED... He had many chances to tell me during the 3 years. It would've been nothing then. But he LIED and kept a secret.
Lies, flaking out, stuffing me in the closet, trying to control who my friends are, stringing me along, using me as a repairman, screwing up her own PC and then trying to shift the blame to me, bit my ear once while we were making out without my permission (blamed it on her out-of-nowhere "vampire fetish"), had other boyfriends (and girlfriends, apparently) behind my back, made sexual gestures toward my mom's dog, tried to give my mom's dog an unsafe form of Benadryl without permission, talked me into sex and then humiliated me when I couldn't perform to her standards, played various mind games, etc.
And the girl immediately after her proved to be just as manipulative and evil. Haven't had a girlfriend since, though not for lack of trying.
My first wife (we were in the process of divorce at the time) kidnapped our child and kept him from me for two months. This was after she cheated on me and got us evicted from our apartment. Fucked up, I know.
Since then, I divorced her, obtained custody of my son and remarried. My 10 year aniversary is this coming June.
My ex remains every bit as fucked up as she ever was. She just doesn't bring that shit into my life any more.
She's bipolar, but has been unmedicated for years until last fall. She has had many, many "boyfriends" none lasting more than a few months. She rents an apartment with a few, quite slovenly college-aged roommates. She has admitted to our son on numerous occasions that the only reason she has not committed suicide is because he exists.
She's 47 years old. She was adopted as a toddler, both adoptive parents are dead. She maintains no relationship with her siblings from her adoptive family. She has had contact with her birth mother. Not sure she maintains that relationship either.
The guys she lives with are college aged but not enrolled. Not sure what they do aside from smoking weed and playing video games, and never cleaning up after themselves.
The men she has hooked up with (breifly) may be boyfriends from her perspective, but I doubt they felt the same way. She is clingy and attaches herself even when it is not reciprocated.
She received the bipolar diagnosis back around 2000 - 2001 from her psychiatrist if I remember correctly.
Aw... I feel bad for her. She has had a terrible life since her birth. Her adoptive parents are dead; her adoptive siblings don't care about her. She has a biological mother, but no biological father?
I would just call those guys young adults, not college-aged. Anybody of any age can go to college/university. Although we typically call first-time students who are older than 25 years of age "non-traditional students", this is under the assumption that "traditional students" are 18-24 years old.
I have read that women who engage in frequent casual sex typically have mental issues. Your ex-wife seems to be one of those women. A sane woman usually is more selective and rational in choosing a partner.
Getting diagnosed with a mental disorder may make her situation worse. First, she has to live with the disorder on a daily basis. Second, employers may be prejudicial against people with disabilities.
My ex tried to kill my baby (she was an accident ) by punching my stomach He wanted to get rid of her He then started some King around me when I was pregnant and when I asked him to stop he hit me He got so stressed about the baby that he ended up running away
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