How do you eliminate sexual tension between married coworkers that is so thick you could cut it with a knife?

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So I have an issue at work that I need some help dealing with.

There is this guy a few years older (married with kids) who has always on and off lightly flirted with me. I ignore him because I'm married as well. We work in the same department so I need to maintain a professional relationship with him.

Over the past couple of months he has begun flirting much more intensely with me. I have told him to knock it off and even brought up his wife. I of course bring up my husband in conversation and always say "we" when referring to my personal life as to not send any mixed messages.
So what's the problem aside from a pain in the ass? For whatever reason I have now become immensely attracted to him. I honestly don't even think I like this man on an emotional level but I want him sexually. The sexual tension between us now is so thick I can barely look at him with feeling weak in the knees. I can actually feel his presence when he is near by but out of sight. I can feel when he is coming around a corner or out of a closed door room. It's crazy. I've never experienced this before and I need to figure out how to stop it.

I am not going to act on these feelings but I can not figure out how to make it stop. I litterally say to myself "ok today you will avoid him at all costs and feel nothing". But then BAM I'm bumping into him like everywhere and getting all wobbly and heated. Just seeing him instantly makes me melt. I am frustrated because I am finding this situation distracting on both personal and professional levels. I am a fairly dominant person so maybe the thrill of someone being persistent with me turns me on? I'm still trying to figure out my trigger so I can shut it down or try to bring it into the bedroom with my husband. Part of me also wonders if this is all just in my head or between my legs.
How do you eliminate sexual tension between married coworkers that is so thick you could cut it with a knife?
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