Me & my boyfriend been together 3 years. I've always taken care of him. I made all the money, took us on trips, bought nice cars, paid the rent + all bills, etc. I admit I was a bikini dancer & made super great money. Well now I'm almost 6 mths prego. I stopped working & have been going to school & I'm hoping to get this job at the hospital soon. I passed the test so I'm waiting for the interview now. I couldn't work because I'm commuting for school. So I'm at my family's during the week & go back home (2 hrs away) on the weekends + I have a class on sundays to get my license back. I can't drive until I get my license back which in 2 mths. it makes me so sad that he won't get a job... our rent is a cheap & he's selling drugs to pay it but its not making enough $. He's been super late every time. He complains about everything & makes me feel like it's my fault & tells me I need to get a job. he's barely on his 3rd month of paying rent because I found out I was prego at 2 1/2 mths & still had some $ left over to pay bills. So he's only paid 2 mths so far & he's complaining! He yells at me if I give him advice on getting a job or tell him to not spend $ on unnecessary things. he FLIPS out. He threw our coffee table & pushed my face & choked me. I just don't know what to do anymore :(. It just hurts me that I've done so much for him & all I'm asking for is help til I get hired at the hospital or until I have the baby... that's all I'm asking for. Y can't he just man up & make me feel like he WANTS to take care of me until our daughter is here? It's like I'm a burden after all I've done for him :( He says he loves me & wants to be with me but he acts high & mighty because he's "paying" the bills now? As if I wasn't the one doing it for 3 years. It doesn't even make sense because he's not making enough $. He'll sell a $40 sac which is NOT A LOT OF MONEY $ then acts like he deserves to go to the bar & come home at 3 or 4am like he's working sooo hard. :(
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