He doesn't want to switch careers or find a better paying job. He says that everything will fall into place and that I don't live in the moment. He's super smart he knows multiple coding languages and how to solve a lot of hardware problems, but he doesn't like that niche anymore.
I love him and the connection is real but we fight almost everyday all because I don't see him as a man anymore... I just see a baby that I constantly have to take care of.
To be honest, he doesn't know how to cook or clean. His house is a disgusting mess. He lives with his grandma.. well I live with my parents too, but at least I clean and cook.
When he's not working (which is often) he just plays video games and sleeps.
It's such a turn off. I don't want to break up but I don't see this relationship going anywhere if he won't get a stable job and move together.
Please help. I don't want to be nagging anymore I want to encourage him to change and be helpful.
Oh and everytime he wants something to eat I make him and I even wake up at 5 or 6 to make him lunch for work.
We had intimacy problems as well. Everytime I wanted it (which was more often than him) he refused me and made me feel like a slut for wanting to have sex. He doesn't last more than 2 minutes anyway. But I think this is because we do it only at my house and my parents are at home.
... this is so sad