My best friend kissed my ex. How should I feel?

[mjrcat_]

So my best friend of 20 years kissed my ex 2 weeks ago. I don't know how to feel about it. My ex and I dated for almost 2 years almost 6 years ago. My best friend, my ex and I remained friends. We really don't know how or why we are still friends but we are. We just grew up together and became childhood friends. We always hung out and went over to each other's houses. We all moved on to different relationships with other people and often times went to each other for comfort and support when our relationships went bad. My ex kinda became our gay best friend Lol Anyway, this is how it happened. I invited them both to a party at my house. My ex picked up my bff that night from her house. I guess things happened when they left my hous that night. My bff said she didn't know what happened and everything just lead to more heated things. She told me they just made out, but I don't trust her. The worst part, I think is that she told me she didn't feel guilty at all for doing it. I'm super nice but I think this kinda hurts me and I don't know how to react. I have no feelings for my ex whatsoever. I am extremely happy in my current relationship and wouldn't trade my boyfriend for anyone. Even thought I'm happy, I still feel kinda weird about this. How should I feel? It feels like they betrayed me in a way but yet again, I really wouldn't care if they started dating. But then again, it's weird as fuck for them to hook up. I would never do that to my best friend. Ever. Currently, I haven't really spoken to both. I'm ignoring them...

[angelady]

First of all, no one can tell you how you should feel. Your feelings are valid no matter what others might think they, themselves, would feel. If you are uncomfortable about your feelings, pray about it. Search your heart. Are your expectations of your friends unreasonable? Are they actually betraying you because they found something in each other? Do you see a continued relationship with each or both of them as a positive thing in your life or is it time to let go? What value do you receive or contribute from an on going relationship. You you decide to continue your friendship with them, I think after some soul searching of your own, you should have lunch with them an talk it out. --- Or, let time pass and just see how their relationship develops before you do anything. Obviously, they are searching to fulfill a void in their own lives and if your life is full, pray they find what they are looking for and just be happy for them if they do.

[Anonymous]

My sister dated and slept with my other sisters man. It doesn't end there she ended up getting pregnant by the guy. Either way it's all disgusting and horrible. I would never do such a thing the point is you trusted her and she betrayed you. Even if you moved on and are with someone else that was still your ex. She did wrong I would never trust her.

[alybells]

I know that attaching to your best friend is hard so talk to her in private ask her why would she hurt you? and if you feel se lying or has malice then think long and hard if you really want to be her friend not for the sake or attachment but for the sake of your self worth

[Valac]

Indifferent.
Your lives aren't connected anymore, you both moved on. Let them live their lives :v

[sarahcat18]

You guys broke up a long time ago. You broke up for a reason. He's not attached to you anymore, so really, the two of them should be able to kiss if they want to

[Anonymous]

My sister married my ex boyfriend. I was an adult about it, acted like I was happy for them. Eventually I was happy for them, now we get along great. So don't dwell