My boyfriend and I can't find a place to have sex, what do we do?

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We've been together for a long time, we're 19. We both live with our parents, they're always home. It's freezing outside. Basically, we have no place to... do more. What's the solution? I've been told to go to a hotel, but I'd simpy hate that.

AthleticMom · Accepted Answer

The hotel is THE place to relax, enjoy behind a locked door! Easy clean up shower, toilet, what could be better?
Any other place is just a quickie and often contortionist challenged, e. g. in car running heater somewhere any gang with knives could break in & share the fun

Not that I condone this, but many have friends out on their own who may share the apartment if out for the entire night... better is to get a job house/apartment sitting.

BC pills + condoms MUST always be in place... always

Cmasterson · Accepted Answer

Hotels yes seem odd but try air bn' b's i'm not sure your situation with spending a weekend work or not at an air b n b i'm sure you two would appreciate it but yes can get costly, unfortunately there's not glamorous place to have sex. The thing with living with your parents you have to be respectful so you can try to sneak it but it depends how strict they're.

Maypai · Accepted Answer

Both of your parents are ALWAYS home? There are no time spaces where they're gone for at least an hour? Don't they have jobs and other responsablites to take care of?

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

Known issue.

Unfortunately there is nothing else to be said than finding a place, that is desolated. At night there are probably lesser people outside.
Hotels are too expensive for a one time intercourse.
You could find a public restroom with locks and have intercourse quietly in there also.

undefined12 · Accepted Answer

I'd go with renting a hotel or something, probably your best place to be alone and relaxed

Blonde401 · Answer

Cheap hotel, car, field somewhere. Get creative. And if you can't then you can't and just deal with it. We've all been there. Or you're 19, why can't you have sex at either of your houses?

datgirl · Answer

A deserted building, a restroom, a friend's place, a hotel, in the car, or just do it in some isolated place outside better days are coming and even if it's slightly chilly you two will be able to keep each other warm with body heat.

TiffyPuff · Answer

Churches are usually open and empty, just don't do it on the altar. Like, there's usually a place you can hideaway inside.

deraz24 · Answer

Either of you have cars or friends that'll let you crash

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Learn to be quiet when having sex. If you're allowed in his room, just have sex there and don't scream.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Mind blown! When a hotel is the best private option you do that! Mind blown!

Anonymous · Answer

You don't need sex at your age right now... plus you should probably wait

Anonymous · Answer

Car! Awkward but feels awesome to experience once. Especially knowing that people are driving near you!

Aitziber · Answer

Car.

Anonymous · Answer

you have no other choice than to go to a hotel

Beerus_sama · Answer

where are you from if I could ask?

ddavid · Answer

why not a hotel?

dudegreat · Answer

Hotel room is the best bet. That's what I did.

LostLunatic · Answer

Make a survival shelter outside.

Kaju4l · Answer

Air B&B

Anonymous · Answer

Rent a hotel room.

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