When it’s time to go you just have to do it. I’ve been in that position, with the guy for 5 years and our lives were so merged it felt like too big of a loss to let him go. I realized there will always be an excuse though, whether it’s finances, marriage, kids, we use these situations and create unsurpassable obstacles in our minds when in reality none of that matters. You can’t be a proper girlfriend, wife, parent, when you are unhappy and your mental health suffers. Life is just too damn short to to suffer in a relationship with someone you have grown apart from. Yes you have deep ties with this guy but it’s nothing that can’t be sorted and eventually separated.
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Have you tried relationship counseling? There could be something on his mind or something that is troubling him that he is too afraid to talk about. Perhaps there’s something he needs and is not getting.
Have a serious talk with him. Tell him you can’t go on like this and give him an ultimatum to seek professional help or you’ll leave him and mean it. I went through a stage like this where I had absolutely no desire for sex at all for about 6 months. My wife was distraught but she believed me a few years later when her brother experienced the same problem and confessed to us that he just can’t do anything with his fiancé. Encourage him to get help and hopefully he’ll overcome this
Sex isn't everything. The fact that you're considering leaving just because of lack of sex says more about you than him. It is possible to love someone without sex. you're just solidifying my reasoning for staying single. All women want is sex.
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could be cheating on you, could be bisexual. you could have sex too often in the past. he could have low testosterone.
You need to think about breaking up with him.
Looks like you need to find some side dick!
try intertwining yourself around him
So who do sex with u?
Communicate with him
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