My boyfriend isn’t as thirsty for sex anymore?

[Anonymous]

So before me and my new boyfriend had sex for the firs time he treated me so nice and was always respectful. He’d never get sexual with me unless I gave him the green light. He treated me and still treats me like a princess. But I’m noticing some differences that kind of bother me. Before we had sex I could tell he wanted it REALLY badly. He wanted to have sex so bad it was like he was ready at any time. Like he would come visit me on my lunch break at work and he was literally willing to do it in the car ! It’s been a few days since we last f*cked due to busy schedules. So now when he comes to visit me on my lunch break he just wants to talk , cuddle me in the car , and give neck & forehead kisses. I suggested doing it in the car and he wasn’t too up for it. But remember before we ever had sex he was all for it ! So this made me insecure and I said “ u don’t wanna f*ck me” & He replied “ofc I do “. Another time we were cuddling and I started rubbing up against him down there and he just kept cuddling me. I could tell He was enjoying me rubbing up against him but he still just kept cuddling me. I just notice how he’s not so thirsty for it anymore. If I had rubbed up against him like that before we had sex he’d have jumped at the opportunity. So I’m thinking this means he doesn’t like having sex with me. Did I do something wrong? What does this mean?

[FilmGuy93]

Of course you did something wrong; you don't make him feel like you actually want to have sex with him. Your behavior makes it look like you think his sexual needs are an inconvenience. Anyone would lose interest in having sex with someone who didn't make them feel like it was wanted.

[Asker]

How am I making him feel like I don’t want it if I literally just tried to f*ck him in the car

[spartan55]

Yes, this is 100% correct.

[FilmGuy93]

The problem is that you aren't pursuing him.

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm, maybe he is not happy with the sex you two are having? Tell him your concerns and tell him that you want to do something for him. Tell him that tonight, he can control the action tonight. Tell him to give you some instructions. It's just a guess, it could be something else.

[Asker]

But then it sure seemed like he was happy with it cause he came in me and he kept f*cking me back to back. I don't know I’m so confused 😐

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm, tell him you want to try something new tonight and if he has any suggestions. Maybe wear some lingerie.

[boggboss]

So what your saying is you would prefer if he only wanted sex from u

[Asker]

No I’m just wondering why he changed after sex

[Asker]

He got what he wanted and doesn’t need it anymore?

[boggboss]

How do u know it was because of aex or that It has anything to do with you that u are insecure that your boyfriend wanted to spend time with u and talk over fuck u is crazy to me

[boggboss]

If he got what he wanted and dont need it anymore why would he still be with u lol

[Asker]

I’m sure if we were in a room together we would obviously eventually have sex. What I’m saying is he’s just not as thirsty as he used to be. How can he go from jumping at the thought of it to putting it off for later?

[boggboss]

Easily how can u even need ti ask that so u want his cock 24/7 how many guys have u been with sorry cos your sounding like he is your first

[Asker]

He’s the 3rd guy I’ve been with. But how easily? Why easily? Do men get bored that fast or something? Explain

[boggboss]

It got nothing to do with being bored lol again are u not bored with him because u don't want his cock 24/7 sometimes guys are just not in the mood and before sex built up anticipation can make u want it constantly but thats not a realistic telling of how horny a guy is

[boggboss]

The issue here us y are allowing your insecurities to believe that the issue is you when u have no clue how men are even asking if he would need viagra as if it would be a fix shows how crazy u are thinking

[Asker]

So I’m just being insecure. Ik he still wants to f*ck he’s just more chill and calm about it now

[boggboss]

Yes that's exactly it

[boggboss]

If anything tho u should be talking to him about you issues

[Asker]

I’ve already brought this up to him. I told him that he doesn’t wanna f me and he gets annoyed and tells me to stop talking like that. I just thought he was lying

[boggboss]

Why are u with him if u think he is lying u really need to sort your mind out

[Asker]

And then he said I don’t listen to anything he says. Well men be lying

[boggboss]

Lol yes because women don't lie are we really playing childish games that ubthink he would be lying to you about this shows me you are not ready to be In a relationship if u don't even have a basic level of trust

[Asker]

Omg what? Name one woman that has ever told a lie. I’ll wait ….

[boggboss]

U must be trolling women are not immune from lying I'm not sure if your trolling or what

[Asker]

Lol I’m just messing with u. But men do be lying so u can’t blame me for being insecure

[boggboss]

I can because it shows you are trying to have a relationship whilst still being damaged from the past which will never work

[boggboss]

Like yes many men lie but how can u have a working relationship if u think your partner is lying too u 😑

[EpicSnail]

Maybe your sex drives are different. I think women tend to want to have A LOT of sex with the same person, whereas guys tend to want to have a little sex with A LOT of people.

[Anonymous]

Bro at some level we get bored from same pussy so we chase new hunt...

[Asker]

We literally just started having sex so he’s bored already? We have only done it 5 times 😩 everything is new

[Opinion Owner]

Lol after first time fuck i block girls feel blessed he stay with you

[Asker]

I mean he still sweet & text me good morning every day and makes time to see me when he can but he’s not trying to fuck as bad as he use to. Does he need viagra?

[Opinion Owner]

You're not good in sex
You can't make him hard for you

[Asker]

😢 I thought so

[Opinion Owner]

Did you give him blowjob?

[Asker]

He said he loves my p*ssy but I don't know if he’s lying. But no I haven’t done that yet

[Opinion Owner]

Aw Darling give him blowjob reguraly then automatically he will fuck you...