She says she needs time to miss me?

[Anonymous]

My ex-fiancee broke up with me 10 weeks ago. When she returned the ring she said she wants it back someday and is afraid she won't get it back. The breakup was caused partially to some petty arguments and partially by the fact she says something is wrong with her but doesn't know what it is. We spoke about a week ago and she said she loves me and needs time to miss me. Any ideas/suggestions?

[lalaberry]

I have two very close friends and I love both of them and they had the same problem. they constantly fought over silly things because they both had.. for lack of a better word "unique" and slightly "crazy" with a touch of "stubborn" personalities. they loved each other but she is a little flighty and just wanted space. she told him that he needed to leave her alone and it would be possible she would miss him but he kept chasing her and scared her away. so I say give her the space and time she needs. It could be the best thing for the both of you. best of luck

[areik]

sounds like she wants some space. but think about it, if you guys get married you are supposed to be together FOREVER. If she already gets sick of you, then how are you guys gonna last a whole lifetime? She can't just run off after you guys are married. maybe you two are just not meant to be.

[gunner28]

Needs time to miss you, if she doesn't miss you in 10 weeks then that's not a good sign. Until then party it up and have a good time.

[themastaplan]

Agreed, if 10 weeks has gone by and she hasn't missed you, id return the ring...weather you get back with her or not, that ring will haunt you....if you get back get a new ring...if you dont, then you have ur money back...but def go out and have a good time...also cut contact - you can't be there for her every time...otherwise she'll always assume you'll be there and not know what life is like w/o you, but 10 weeks...easier said than done: move on