I have nothing to offer in a relationship but my companionship and being nice?

[Unit1]

It has always been like this. If i imagine myself getting into a relationship with a lady then i ask myself: What can i put into the relationship and what do i offer? I admit and it is no secret but i have not much and i am often on a financial border because of my low income.

I do not fake my personality or in particular my niceness. But then what do the other guys have that i don't? Some have a car or have better living circumstances than i do but then again i am a migrant and i am also on my own.

I am not going to say if i have the brains or the humor because these things are highly subjective.

i am just a young man and that's it... What else can be expected from me?
and no, i am not gambling on CS:GO and i do not play WOW. I don't smoke also.

[MarkRet]

The only thing the other guys have is self-confidence. They go out and do things, getting a feeling of accomplishment, which makes them even more self-confident. That's what girls take notice of.

[Unit1]

My friend there is still the difference between being confident and just cocky. Many guys are the latter.

[lizziepooh03]

You have enough. The key is getting yourself in the door. That is the same key that guys with more than enough need to go through.

[Unit1]

Explain?

[lizziepooh03]

Once a woman/girl likes you, she likes you and there is no changing that opinion, generally speaking. You can see that for yourself when a woman stays with a man that beats her. So even though he beats her and he is bad a dude and she should not be with him, she still sees him as a "good" guy and stays with him.

That is not good but that is the female nature. So apply that to your situation. All you need is for a girl to like you and then your foot is in the door. Once she lets you in the door, she sees you in that door and will even make up a reality that fits that you should be in that door, whether you should or not.

So the key is, get yourself in the door. The rest, she will take care of. That is my advice.

[Unit1]

Nice. So i take it girls either like me or not and there is only so little i can do about it? Cool. And i thought i must meet a certain requirement in order to be dateable. But yes, i see low guys getting the girls and i don't see why i shouldn't be able just as easy. It's just, that girls do not like me at least here.

I am always open for relationships… until it's too late when i don't need a woman but i don't know when and if it will come to this. It would however hurt me to see women coming to me only AFTER i became successful and resourceful. Do you understand what i am saying?

Alright. I think it's clear to me to not try to control what i cannot control (attraction) and not make it a big deal if women do not like me. And to not change myself into something other than me.
Much cheers kind lady 😀☺

[Unit1]

You WOMAN :D ♥

Sorry ^^ I had to say this!
Loving women makes me so silly and lightheaded :)

[alice55]

Be a gentleman? Even if you have no money you can be a gentleman and have good manners. This is something most girls really like.

[Anonymous]

As long as you're a gentleman, you'll be fine.