Your girlfriend sleeping over at her guy friends house?

[Anonymous]

Without a good excuse what do you think of this behaviour?

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What if it is not a regular occurance

[Impactaura]

Well, see, I had a girlfriend who hing out with her guy 'friend' a lot and I'm not the jealous or controlling type. I figured they have been friends since before I met her so they won't do anything. Plus, for whatever reason, I knew he was intimidated by me and her and her friends kept teasing him about it. Well, one day, at a get-together with friends and family, I was letting everyone know food was ready but didn't see her. Looked around and found her on the side of the house away from everyone... on her knees blowing her 'friend'. He damn near lost his shit when I turned that corner. Tempted to kick his ass but the way I saw it, she made that choice to do what she did and by then not worth fighting for. So I casually went back in, got my food and joined the others. They came back over, not saying a word. Later, I was getting ready to head home n heading to my truck n she started to follow me there saying "we need to talk". No we don't, don't talk to me and don't come near me, and if your 'friend' wants to keeo his teeth, tell him the same thing. So, to your question, because of the above, It would raise a big red flag, no excuse would cover that situation.

[Drifter83UK]

people say the want liberty and freedom, but in the end majority here are hypocrites...
Why shouldn't partners be able to stay with friends on rare occasions.
If it's a question of cheating, the majority of you don't trust your partner's to begin with.
Secondly cheating can be done without friends...

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend did that. Lost my shit as at the end of the day unless it's family/valid reason he shouldn't be sleeping with anyone other than me

[Drifter83UK]

Doesn't the question refer to sleeping at not with?

[Opinion Owner]

@Drifter83UK didn't say he slept with. Slept at her house. But same rules apply as anything could still happen

[Zendrya]

my boyfriend couldn't give a shit and I don't care if the tables were turned

[Apope16]

What the fuck? There needs to be a clear explanation or dump her. Outrageous.

[prince1102]

Depends entirely on her relationship with this guy friend. I can almost always tell if it's someone she'd date, sleep with, or someone that has a lot to offer as just a friend.

Almost every 'guy' friend a girlfriend I've ever had, that guy wants more than being just friends.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm thinking if she hasn't cheated already, she's eventually going to. I'd drop her for a newer model.

[pim217]

only question is... do you trust her. if you do who cares. if you dont than youve got bigger problems than her being around this one dude

[ShortCircuit]

It's wildly inappropriate and probably unforgivable.

[Malikai96]

This would come off to me as a red flag, but I would have to react based on how much I trust my S/O.

[serious]

There can be no good reason or excuse for this behavior.

[Anonymous]

Oh look at all the jealous boys. Hee hee hee.

I sleep where I want, and offer no excuses.

[ruthiexx04]

I think she should have time to spend with her guy friend.

[ruthiexx04]

if its not a regular occurance that means she hasn't hung out with her guy friend in a lot of time maybe

[SteppingOnRoses]

you are too innocent yet

[Impactaura]

Such innocence, don't worry, you will see things differently in a few years down the road.

[EmptyVoid]

I'd think it's time to break up.

[coding]

she's cheating on you bro :(

[Atreyu]

wtf? kick that bitch to the curb

[QueenofCups]

If my boyfriend did that, I'd be pissed.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I think you know the answer to this.

[Sha1911]

Lol you know what we think dude

[kevin_98]

come on man... really...

[kevin_98]

but why him. why out of anyone is she staying at his house? that's what you gotta ask yourself and maybe her, cause that looks bad lol 😂

[Haemoglobin]

Absolutely no way.