Is your bf/gf your first priority? or other things first?

[Anonymous]

or is it other things such as career? gym/other hobbies? etc whats the order? from most important to least

Career, bf/gf then gym/other hobbies

Bf/gf, career then gym/other hobbies

Career, gym/other hobbies then bf/gf

Other (list your order)

[creepypanda]

Uh, as much as it seems like the "right" answer would be putting my partner above all else, from someone who is younger, I'd probably not put him above, let's say, college or my long-term career goals. I do stuff like write (both as a hobby and for commission) and I'd put him above my hobby, but not my work in some cases. I really think the circumstances matter, though. Did they just ask me to come over? Is there something happening like a banquet they really want me to come to? How much does it matter to them? How much does what I'm doing matter to me? I think perspective is key.

[samhradh_leannan]

My boyfriend, my career, and my family are all very important priorities for me. I focus more on whichever one warrants the most focus at a given time. I don't have one single priority that always comes first.

[samhradh_leannan]

If I've learned anything so far in my life it's that if you only prioritize one thing, eventually that thing will be all you have. It's important to be able to balance multiple priorities if you want to have a balanced life.

[witherwing]

Mine is: My boyfriend, my personal space and time, my friends and family, my hobbies, my career. He comes first, but my personal space is a close second. Every other things come after those two.

[Ads123]

given i'm in my first proper relationship and my career ia defined by exam results i'm waiting for i think girlfriend takes priority

[madhatters4]

my daughter comes first. my wife is a very close second

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO

[acooke-13]

After the experiences I have had, I would now prioritise career/hobbies first, as I would love to go travelling but an ex boyfriend stopped me and I missed the opportunity. I want to live my life first

[acooke-13]

What is?

[SmithMr007]

you are

[acooke-13]

So is your tiny package :/ xxxxx

[SmithMr007]

It is much greater then your personality

[acooke-13]

Like you'd know

[paulyy_07]

I think he's salty because his girlfriend doesn't prioritise him :///

[acooke-13]

If he can get one? He called a girl a slut bcos she wore a skirt and a crop top yet he's got a pair of boxers on in his picture? Logic

[Anonymous]

my well being, my kids well being (you probs think I shouldn't put myself first but you can't support little people well if your own MH isn't up to scratch) my environment, career, life and extra activities then the man he's last

[crazyB616]

my boyfriend always comes first there's nothing or no one i would put before him he is my one and only

[Streamhopper]

My partner always comes first; family, friends, coworkers, acquaintances, employment, hobbies, everything else however it falls out.

[EpicDweeb]

Beliefs, morals, bf/gf&family, job, then everything else.

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

I choose the first one but only because they're just a bf/gf and not a partner.

[Oram52]

My partner comes first before everything. I would not date anyone for whom I'm not a first priority either.

[fauchelevent]

At the moment, I think my career is first, then him, then other things.

[Emmdk]

{Family, friends, boyfriend at the same time}, work, hobbies

[rjroy3]

In my relationships my girlfriend will be a priority, but not my first priority in all cases.

[Radical11]

God, Family, Career, then S/O. If I marry her, then it would be God, S/O, Family, the Career.

[SmithMr007]

If you follow God you will not have a SO unless you marry... hypocrite

[Radical11]

Dude, I just graduated from college. I'm looking for job rn. I still live in the same house as my parents. Does it sound like I'm ready to buy a ring and pop the question to her?

[YourFutureEx]

@SmithMr007 nonsense

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If i had a girlfriend she would be top priority in my life.

[StormRiderszz]

All of them actually!. I will try my best to keep up with everything!

[Anonymous]

Career, then partner/family/friends, then everything else.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol fuck off troll. Youd have no partner to put first with a personality like that.

[WeirdoWerdo]

Surprised how the girls have voted... Maybe I shouldn't fucking priorities my girlfriend...

[Emmdk]

Hey hey don't punish her for what other people do

[WeirdoWerdo]

Punish? If I'm not worth being prioritized why should she be worth it?

[Emmdk]

She never said you're not worth prioritizing. Other girls did.

[WeirdoWerdo]

If she is like them I'm just gonna be like treat other people how you want to be treated

[SmithMr007]

Thank feminism and materialism..

[Anonymous]

it depends on how committed you are to the relationships. If it's just dating it's not a big deal

[Anonymous]

I find it odd that I'm the only one with kids that would put them first

[Happyfella]

I think this was geared toward non kiddo couples. But congrats on loving your kids.

[emerald77]

Career comes first. Everything else is equal.

[rach_adams]

relationships (bf, fam, friends), hobbies, career.

[nanserimonus]

Husband, then hobbies and lastly career.

[nanserimonus]

Of course, my future children will take the first place in the future.