Who is more important to you? Your girlfriend/boyfriend or your friends?

[Anonymous]

for example: if your partner and your friends had issues who would you side with (considering the issue is bad on both sides)

Or if you had to save one or the other from getting run over by a train

My girlfriend/boyfriend

My friends

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic dilemma of love vs. friendship! As a relationship coach who has seen it all, I can tell you it's all about balance. Both are important, but your romantic partner should ideally be your best friend too. 🙌 It's not always about taking sides but finding a middle ground. In a crisis, you might react instinctively, but day-to-day, prioritize healthy communication and mutual respect in both relationships. Keep the train metaphor for dramatic movies, though. 🚂💕

[serious]

I have always been single and never had friends also. However, hypothetically speaking if I had friends and a girlfriend the level of importance I would give would really depend on how my girlfriend would be,

For eg, if my girlfriend is such that she is physically gorgeous and has all the wonderful personality traits then for me she will be more important than my friends. Hence she has to deserve that kind of importance from me as I will not automatically give that importance to her merely based on my relationship with her.

Answered hypothetically.

[Kaneki05]

Goes by how long I've known them. Though a girlfriend get's a quicker scale. For example I would pick my girlfriend over my friend if she was 3 years and he was 5.

Though it also depends on the issue saving their life yup this is how it would work. Meanwhile a more less serious issue would be probably me siding with my girlfriend, and if he don't get that he's probably a bad friend anyway or he's right and I see that soon enough.

[Kaneki05]

Also my basically brother. He's been with his girlfriend for some years they have kids, if he saved me instead of her I would no longer be his friend. Wrong choice, so yes I am totally fine if my friend didn't pick me for the obviously reasons he shouldn't. Yet known know much longer.