If you had a bf/or/gf, then your in a relationship right? but if I understand the question correctly, a lot of people do show and should show priority for their girlfriend or boyfriend, because she or he should be the one who has most of your attention, and you want to keep them happy more than friends, see them more than friends, if this is not the case, then it won't last, good couples spend a lot of time together getting to know each other, if more time is wanted with their friends without you then, it won't last, x
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Friends , Girlfriend might cheat in you and your friends will be there for you . Ur girlfriend leaves you friends will be there for you . You break up with your GF, you still can friends . So I choose friends
They are both equally important to me so one does not take priority over another. Obviously, I am going to spend more time with my boyfriend since I will be getting some. Hehe. My friends have been around a lot longer and have been there through the ups and downs and we are still friends and will continue to be friends so I am not going to ditch them for my guy and I will not break plans with one to be with another, unless me and my boyfriend have some really kinky sex planned and it's the only time we can do it.
I think it's more like you should give priority to your bf/gf, but not as an excuse to give less attention to your friends. There was a study that proved that for every serious relationship one has, they lose two close friends. Kinda sad... who's going to be there for you when you two break up? Not the friend who was ditched all the time.
No because boyfriend is still my friend too, just with extra activities. Making him a priority when he's still my friend also, there is none. He's just gonna have to deal with not being a priority over everyone else as far as friends and family. I just feel like if I or him had to pay attention to each other that much it's annoying.
My boyfriend is the most important person of my life, but I do balance my time out for my friends. (On the other hand, med school goes beyond anything and anyone).
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In the beginning, friends come first. But after I've been with the guy for a while, I will allow him to take more precedent in my life. But no guy walks in and instantly becomes number one in my life. I'm not one of those girls.
Yes. If you're in a relationship then THEY come first,then friends. Friends will understand. However it doesn't mean you need to spend 24/7 with them. Just balance it all and it will work out.
admittedly, yes. sometimes. it really depends on the occasion.
Yes to an extent and opposite gender friends go bye bye
I always see my girlfriend and we set everything up with a plan so that I'll have priority with her and with friends. Planning is everything.
I'd always think that friends is more important but does the opposite..for now, I always set time for my friends..
Yes. but I don't have any friends right now anyway
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