Me and my ex broke up in 2015 and since then for most of the time I was blocked by her on Facebook. Even if I was unblocked a few times, I didn't notice as I kinda moved away from social media for a while. But recently, I have seen this weird behaviour by her where she keeps unblocking and blocking me. And I came to know about this because we have many mutual friends and her comments on their feeds keep appearing and disappearing. This ex girlfriend I am talking about was the only girl I've ever been with and I was her first love and boyfriend too. We were together for 6 years and everything though not smooth as a hot knife on butter was perfect. Our relationship didn't end on good terms as I moved out of my city and she was kinda talking to some other guy behind my back (they might have been even in a relationship). My life after the breakup was much like Ed Sheeran's - Happier Song and so was this scenario. It's been two years and now I am noticing this rather erratic behavior of hers which I can't seem to understand. What does she mean by this act of blocking and unblocking help me out !
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Likely she is curious about your life and wants to see what goes on. For some, this becomes a obsession. Kind of like stalking. They become addicted to it even though they may know that there is nothing there romantically between you 2 anymore.
If this bothers you or makes you also act more obsessive then it is best to block her.11
she is immature and still has feelings for you thus she is trying to get your attention by this hot and cold behavior.12
just ignore her. its her problem then and not yours12
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Lmao. Block her too12
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Well, honestly I'm kinda in the same boat but never dated this guy, I've known him for two years and knew he had a girlfriend but he made moves on me and flirted with me complimenting me everyday, while he asked question's getting to know me I kept my mind oblivious and said vague answers back keeping us in a friendship relationship but soon later I might have expected more due to the fact he told me he liked me a lot, as he kept it going. Only later to make it look and sound as I was the one after him, when in all reality he was the one chasing me. After what he did, I went through this same phase. Its possible, maybe she needs closure, maybe she's expecting for you to come back but seeing you haven't noticed or cared or sent a message is making her both really sad and mad especially after how everything happened and changed between you both. She's probably feeling really really sad, confused, and second overthinking herself because both of you had such a good long relationship she's probably thinking "Was I really nothing to him? Does he ever think about me? How's he doing?" Etc and all the good memories you both have. She's probably waiting for you to make the first message move for her to get closure or make things right between you both.
She was the one to break up in our case. And she did it because she liked someone else. And when you are committed , you just don't do that. You don't allow your self to find perfection in other. Afterall that is what commitment means. Just blocked her. If she left it on her terms then she better talk back to me on mine.