Difference between puppy love vs first love?

[Anonymous]

[dante3531]

None. Puppy love and first love and love at first sight is all a great big mixture of physical attraction and enfatuation. None of them having anything to do with true love because they cause you to ignore faults, where true love sees and accepts faults. They make you think that your lover can do no wrong; true love knows that your lover can do wrong and still forgives them. True love makes you speak up when you don't like something. True love means you don't hang out with your friends, because your lover is sick and you feel compelled to comfort and take care of them. True love is joint bank accounts. It's leaving your phone unlocked, so they can look through it and time they want. It's being the first to say you're sorry even when you know you're not wrong. True love is a matter of mind, of will power and determination. It's a conscious decision, not an involuntary reaction. It is the most powerful, most destructive force in the world. It can start wars and end them. It can level empires. And it has no substitutes. Any other type of "love" is just a chemical reaction in your brain, driving you to mate, to complete your biological duty to your species. It does not last. That is the only difference between loves.

It is surprising how closely the love between spouses resembles the more universal brotherly love, sometimes, but it shouldn't be, since your significant other should always end up becoming your best friend.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Puppy love (infatuation) is the first kind of romantic love we feel as teenagers. It is part of an immature relationship without the long term commitments that comes with mature relationships. The feelings that are commonly felt are very intense feelings of desire, passion and excitement. The focus of puppy love is on feelings – which can change quickly without explanation.

True love is not a feeling, because feelings change. Feelings come and go. True love is a conscious, thoughtful decision and commitment. It means that you decide to love someone and you stick by it. Love grows overtime.

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Real love takes time to develop and grow and doesn’t happen overnight, nor does it grow over two weeks or two months. “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”

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[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for selecting my opinion as Most Helpful Opinion.

[HermitNYC]

I am not sure there is a difference. I always sensed that people who called it puppy love were just dismissing adolescents as foolish and not to be taken seriously. Making fun of people who were not old enough to be treated with respect, because social standards don't allow kids to "talk back" to adults. It's too rude.

[dom123098]

Well puppy love never hurt me.

[dom123098]

Oh sorry by puppy love I thought you literally meant puppies. I may or may not be an idiot.

[dante3531]

That just made my morning, thank you. And no I don't think loving puppies has ever hurt anyone.

[neoxyz]

what do you call puppy love?