What do you think about your partner having an opposite sex best friend? (Page 6)

Question

While it's great when you're single it's a problem when you're in a relationship, so Does a long term opposite sex friendship pose à threat to your relationship with your significant other? Do you get insecure and jealous and set boundaries between them or you just try to act cool?

Anonymous · Answer

A relationship its about trust in each other... if he or she has a best friend of the opposite sex you shouldn't care

moofmilker · Answer

I wouldn't care. I have close friends of both sexes and I wouldn't give that up for some girl

ImGabriel · Answer

This is a great question! I don't really have an answer. If your married I would say it's weird.

mitchd171 · Answer

I'm ok with it... she can even hookup with him every once in a while haha

Odst162acount2 · Answer

I don't care, as long as they're not doing anything sexual

Amr000gt · Answer

Well it doesn't matter because he or she chose you as a partner

Highlander984 · Answer

I don't mind. I do appreciate them establishing a connection with me.

guydudemanmale · Answer

Opposite sex best friend usually means I would fuck you if I get the chance

Ceasar_Rex · Answer

I have women friends who aren't attracted to me, nor me them.

DforD · Answer

Im really jealous person, so i would mind that a lot

sam055 · Answer

Some time ok but if you give priority to friend over it spouse than it's a problem.

MistaLuva · Answer

My dear we can shear a smile with everyone but not our body.

jaydtre · Answer

I’d be a hypocrite if I had a problem with it because my best friend is a girl.

Barrydekmar · Answer

I can't change somebody's life even if she's my wife we all have our own minds yes I can talk to her but it's still up to her

Treno · Answer

Its circumstantial. If there is trust than it shouldn't matter who they have as friends. But without trust. Whats the point

Peter-Parker · Answer

Meh. If they are happy then what difference does it make if they have same or opposite gender friends

tom1704 · Answer

My ex has sex with her best friend. But I was her boyfriend at this time. You can guess, who is single now ^^

himorher · Answer

I am fine with it... If you and your partner are loyal with each other, this shouldn't be any concern...

gordodustin27 · Answer

It would depend on the friend. If have to spend time with both of them and feel out the vibe for sure.

hisblaizeness · Answer

So long as you trust her and she trust you, what's the big deal? Don't let your insecurities defeat you. Comes down to trust, yourself and her

Anonymous · Answer

Im bisexual so I guess when Im in a relationship I should have no other friends at all.

Scrooby · Answer

Trust is very important in these situations. I can understand anyones frustration but getting insecure about it will only lead to problems.

stanton · Answer

s girl that is a friend is a girl we haven't had sex eith,... yet!, st least that's the way most guys think. Jim

victoriangent · Answer

I find no reason as long as no physical or emotional attachment.. I have been married with female penpal and friends.. as long as spouse ok with it

redhead1390 · Answer

The only time i would have a problem is if they had recently been dating or was a couple. Other than that nom

redsoxz9 · Answer

I've always been fine with it but understand it would take an extraordinary woman to accept it going the other way.

Muxort · Answer

I paid the price with a girl that had many opposit sex friends. So now I have to admit that it will be harder to accept that.

AdamJ82 · Answer

Don't let a meme define who you choose to be friends with. Also your SO should be more confident in their relationship and stop grabbing for thin air.

ghostfreak · Answer

It does trigger insecurities lol.. but its true to think that the opposite sex best friend could have affection for them

CptCold · Answer

You need to trust your partner 100%, so it is no big deal

san20k · Answer

I didn't think anything... bcoz i don't have girl friend

AC8961 · Answer

If I had a girlfriend it would not sit well with me. I have trust issues.

roohan007 · Answer

There is always one party that has more than feelings than the other. ALWAYS!!

costinha68 · Answer

I wouldn't interfere with their relationship if he didn't interfere with mine

SelfUnlocked · Answer

Most of my friends are boys and I wouldn't mind as long as they are just friends

Samg1995 · Answer

My best friend is from the opposite sex, so i hope it's okay with my partner

Anonymous · Answer

if she cuts any plans we have for him. its over, also she best be spending more time with me, its not a bad thing but its stepping on really thin ice

Eddie420 · Answer

I don’t think that would not be good for the mareg cuz men will always be jealous

mayanoreaga · Answer

If they spend more time together then forget me there's a problem

Ashwiniiloveyou · Answer

It's okay. But most of the times Boys are not same as they would be with you especially PLAYBOYS.

shaque2545 · Answer

Any woman would not tolerate their chaps bestie being a female. Unless a lesbian of course.

mahaguggl · Answer

Seems like you have to live with that. It reminds me on my ex and is thus just terrible.

Farfalle · Answer

Kinda fuck my head up even if i dont want it to affect me

JinnRose · Answer

Your SO should be your best friend. If not, then why are they your SO?

youssefxo · Answer

My best friend is a girl who is also my girlfriend best friend lol

mahen0502 · Answer

Hey my not will do like this because she is passed away wrong question

nateman88 · Answer

It is not a problem with me after all she could of been with anyone and she chooses to be with me.

hello_hi · Answer

I'm cool with it honestly. But I do get a little jealous

Anonymous · Answer

It's vetted being cool about it than making a fuss and turning it into an issue

Anonymous · Answer

I don't mind unless it starts to disturb our relationship..

Anonymous · Answer

Not a good idea, it can create trust issues and insecurities !!

MonsieurMartim · Answer

No problem. Had it and my partner as well...

TheomiltTheFox · Answer

This is what I would call "paranoia". :/

Lauleneke · Answer

Been married to my wife for 10 years I trust her

backspinGA · Answer

I don't care. Just don't cheat.

foreveralone22 · Answer

I would feel jealous and threatened

_bunny_ · Answer

I know he wouldn't cheat so I'm good

Frepklep · Answer

The question is, who do u wanna make happy?

dandiecandie · Answer

I agree with Tony A. GASKINS jr.

AdamPrizrak · Answer

No it's not ok. Neither for me or her.

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