I'll never be targeted by gold diggers because if I ever date someone, I'm purposefully going to dress and act like I'm slightly above living in the lower class. Like having 10% of the fashion of a homeless person on skid row has.
Then if works out for like 5+ years with 2 of those years living together, I'll unveil the ballerness and we'll move to a pimp property.
That's if we don't break up because I was so committed I said I couldn't afford to do many things and we "struggled financially", even though I actually could of paid for all it.
I swear on my life that'll I'll do this.
Biggest troll ever. Release a video of it if it works out on YouTube.
They are freaking everywhere!
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So yeah, I agree SORT OF.
Lazy and greedy females dig them monnies.
Meanwhile the male horndogs are dumb enough to fall into their tricks because they think with their dicks and crave some young, fresh puss.
I mean I don't blame either but I want no business with either of them. Especially the... ugh... GOL DIGoRS!
My mother always encouraged me to date and marry a wealthy male companion. But I always wanted to find someone that I would love and I would only marry for love in my heart. I would not want to spend my life with someone I didn’t love just for wealth or financial aid... It’s in many cultures to seek a male partner that makes more money it’s a financial security I guess. But to me a man is not a secure financial plan. I also make my own money and always will regardless of how much/little my man will make
Are you married yet?
At over 30, your value as a wife is dropping quickly.
Perhaps you should have taken your mother's advice when you had the chance.
FYI, whether you like it or not, the biggest financial decision a person makes is who one marries.
I disagree
I really don't seek out wealth in a partner and I never will.
Either these studies are biased on stereotypes that happen rarely in real life or I'm different from most women, not just on this, in general
There are studies that show how most people usually end up with someone around their own social status and attractiveness
I can make my own money.
Obviously I want my partner to be financially stable. Be able to afford some luxuries. But nothing I can't pay for myself.
Never, ever, will I sacrifice the pleasure of being with a man I find physically and emotionally attractive for money. That would be ridiculous and I feel bad for women that have too.
I want a guy with a good personality. I think if I choose the right guy - even if he is broke - God will provide for me financially. If I choose the wrong guy - everything will go bad!
The broke guy is the wrong guy.
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Lets add a little philosophical understanding to this...
WTF is money? Nothing more than paper printed by the Fed Reserve, then *LOANED OUT* to us plebs on compund interest. Yes, our government demands we pay them/banks back MORE than what was ever "pumped" into the economy...
The biggest tragedy of all is that I like the idea of having a woman that needs me to provide certain things for her. Like safety, a home, a community to thrive in. But we're all just slaves to this system. I've seen how money (or lack of) can tear good couples apart.
I don't have an opinion on this because everyone is different BUT if any woman even slightly thinks her man has to make at least more than her or even just be financially stable then please do your part to stop "Women in Computer Science" "Women in Machine Learning" and the latest buzzword "Women in Cryptocurrenty". NO one asked women to stay away from Bitcoin or Blockchain. It was never marketed to only men, they choose to stay away and now blame us.
If you want a rich or even slightly financially stable partner, let him make money. We can't be financially stable if you take away all our jobs and don't even offer nursing or teaching or social science jobs in return.
It's obvious. Women either lie or they don't understand themselves. "I'd prefer a nice guy to a jerk", "I'd prefer a broke, kind guy to a rich asshole". Yet there are so many nice guys who are poor and alone, and so many rich assholes who aren't. To hear these women talk it should be the other way around, but it isn't. Not that I'm even complaining, that I'm bitter ot I think it's a bad thing, I just find it funny how much absolute bullshit they talk.
And of course men mainly look for beauty. Sure other things come into it when it comes to dating but the main thing we find attractive in a girl is how hot she looks, and we don't tend to care about how much money they make or what they do for work.
Most women don't care about money, actually. Honestly. I'd rather have a kind, intelligent, honest, loyal, funny partner who is dirt poor rather than a controlling, boring, lying, cheating, rude partner who's a trillionaire.
And the fact that men seek beauty is something of a stereotype. Of course, some men do, but not all.
"Most women don't care about money"
Actually, most women do care very much about money. Little girls don't usually care, though.
@WalterRadio Most older men are polite enough to refrain from calling a teenager a "little girl." Also, how many women have you had experience with who "care very much about money"? The women I've known do not care about money, and if they do, they certainly don't show it.
"how many women have you had experience with who "care very much about money"?
All of them. There is a transition from little girl think to woman think starting around 17 for a few, but most transition around 23. Some don't get there until 30.
You don't have a job. You don't have to pay for your food. You don't have to pay for your phone. You don't have to pay for the roof over your head. You don't have to pay for your car. You don't have to pay for your school. You don't have to pay for your kids' medical expenses. But when you do, you will care very much about money.
@WalterRadio I mean "care about money" as in not marrying someone just for money. Of course money matters. The women I know aren't all about money. They don't love people only for how much money they have. They aren't "gold diggers". I think we're arguing about different things. All I meant was that most women aren't what you call gold diggers.
Oh, but they care.
But they may not realize it until it is too late. Millions of women marry "for love" then in 20 years figure out how difficult their life has been compared to others who realized that marriage is nothing more than a business partnership. Business is about money.
@WalterRadio You sure you're human? A person should marry for love. Geez, dude, who are you?
Your ignorance and inexperience is showing.
Try reading the statutes on marriage. Marriage is a BUSINESS. It is about MONEY.
If you don't believe marriage is about money, go visit a divorce court.
@WalterRadio People divorce each other for cheating, lack of respect, lack of love, etc. Not lack of money. I can't believe that you're 45 and STILL don't know this. Talk about inexperience and ignorance.
I can't teach you if you refuse to listen.
READ the LAW on marriage. It is about MONEY.
Go to a divorce court. IT IS ABOUT MONEY.
@UnaKaizen Thank you.
@UnaKaizen Thank you. :)
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It isn't about being "aware", it is about caring about it.
"you will be extraordinary as an official adult"
Giving false praise is ultimately harmful.
@WalterRadio Okay, why are you even arguing anymore? Either you're a troll or you really just don't know how society works. Seriously. C'mon, man.
Just wait. You'll learn.
@WalterRadio Sorry, I'm not a mirror. Go find one, and then you'll be MUCH better off.
@Markfish Geez, how sexist can someone be? What makes you think that? Every single woman I know has never been a prostitute, is not currently, and does not plan to be in the future. That includes myself.
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I don't think she is 14, just someone pretending to be.
@WalterRadio What makes you think that? And, if you had to choose, would you guess I was older or younger than 14?
@Markfish I'll say this yet again. I've been meaning (in this entire argument) that most women are not, as you put it, "gold diggers". Not that most women don't care about jobs or if their spouse is broke or not, but that most women aren't "gold diggers".
Here, let me resend the first paragraph of my response. "Most women don't care about money, actually. Honestly. I'd rather have a kind, intelligent, honest, loyal, funny partner who is dirt poor rather than a controlling, boring, lying, cheating, rude partner who's a trillionaire."
i have heard women tell me Soooo many times that they don't know what they want when telling me about their relationships... and i know they mean in that instance, but sometimes i wonder how many of them are actually completely out of tune with the forces at play in their subconscious... i have no delusions that any subsect of people is completely homogeneous in action or desire, unless the factor is the defining trait... as in all women are women... all chefs are chefs... etc...
lol, I like how many women are disagreeing even thought it's totally true. But they say it in other ways but means the same thing (they'll never directly admit it). Like "I want a man that's motivated (or not lazy)", meaning that makes money. Or "I want him to take care of me", meaning money.
I disagree. I can make my own money, but I cannot be a good partner for myself. Therefore I prefer someone I'm attracted to and who has a good personality.
Women want stability, care and security. Wealth *can* bring that because it can make a lot of things easier but it's definitely not our first concern.
i think we can say more men seek beauty and more women seek wealth but it's sexist to suggest that there is one thing all men want or all women want.
I've studied in anthropology that female primates tend to choose males who seem able to help with providing for their babies... now, im not sure about how it is with humans
Yes a lot of girls do and it's pathetic , put that rich guy in a janitor suit is she still going to want him?
Maybe for marriage they seek out wealth, but when women are young they usually sleep around with guys based on looks and popularity.
Disagree. Men seek beauty yes, women seek secure future for their future children. not necessarily wealth.
I don't need a man with money I have more then I can spend of my own.
I'd say most women want stability. Wealth provides it but its not the only means of attaining it.
Eh, it's a pretty big overgeneralization but I'd say overall, maybe just a little bit.
The only thing women care bot is how tall a guy is
That says that women are literally prostitutes/whores.
No I think it’s the oppoilsite. Men want to be rich and women want to be beautiful
You misunderstand the comment. It is what they want in their partner.
The reason why men want to be rich is because they can attract a beautiful woman, and women want to be beautiful to catch a wealthy man.
Thr question was phrased poorly. You can’t szpect everyone to read beyond the question
Agreed
Men are pretty shallow. They only care about looks
That's why you often see ugly men with good-looking girls but not vice versa. Women on the contrary are less shallow. They aren't gold-diggers. They care about personality most
@Meninist why?
Of course people will say no since it makes them look bad. But deep down, yes. It's the truth.
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Well, babies aren't cheap, you know.
This is the instincts of humans.
High status woman seeks high status man.
Not all for both poles.
Gold diggers exist for this reason
Sometimes it's vice versa.
All stereotypes are true to some extent.
Women want big cocks.
Women are generally more materialistic than men.
Works for me.
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