How often do you text your partner?

[Anonymous]

In a long distance relationship or regular relationship, how often do you text/call each other? How much is too much?

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Everyday.

If people are in a LDR it's vital to communicate everyday. The base of a LDR is online communication, so texting or talking everyday will keep each other's interest. It'll keep the relationship " alive" It's so easy to lose interest in someone that's so far away if there's not enough quality communication.

Communication only becomes an issue when people become clingy in the sense they get anxiety or become angry & frustrated if the other person doesn't respond to their texts/calls right away

It's lack of communication that destroys relationships , not too much communication.

[Asker]

That's actually what I'm going through right now in my relationship. It's becoming an issue with me since I'm always the one who responds fairly quickly and he usually takes a long while. Sometimes he's too busy and he can't but other times he's just playing his video games. We've been having many arguements because of it

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Are you in a LDR?

[Asker]

Yeah it'll be 2 years next month. I've only seen him once before and I'll be seeing him again in 2 weeks

[Fitness-Fanatic]

At least you both have met up in person. Not many people in LDR's have the means to. The most challenging part of a LDR is maintaining each others interest. The quality of texts and calls is more important than how often. For example;it would be pointless texting regularly if a person doesn't have much to say, or if they were just superficial with you. If he won't make much time for you , even after knowing how much his lack of effort affects you , that in itself clarifies your position in his life

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Thanks for the MHO 💗

[witherwing]

At least once a day, but usually a steadily during the day with little things. We used to be in a long distance relationship and the amount was pretty much the same.

Too much is when either gets annoyed by it. Some people don't like texting at all, so it might be too much to text a few times a day. Some people really like texting and even a flood of texts isn't too much.

[aicarg]

I'll send texts, pics, voice msgs a few times a day when I get the time to message him in letting him know I'm thinking of him. But I'm not one who likes to communicate through text. If I have the free time to chat with him, I prefer calling and hearing his voice. Hearing his laugh on the other end of the phone beats reading "haha" or "lmao".

[ThreeSevensSalvo]

If I have something to say I'll text or if it's important. Otherwise I mostly disregard texts unless my partner has something substantive to say.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Me and my boyfriend text sporadically throughout the day.

[Julia420]

Used to be everyday for about 3 hours when we first started. 4 months into the relationship and we only text/call every second day or so. I don’t think there can ever be “too much” as long as both of you are enjoying the conversation and no one is getting bored of the other

[eyeroller]

It’s a matter of texting whenever I have the ability to. The secret is to not expect an instant reply, we both reply when we are able.

The longer the distance, there’s a higher need for communication.

I think you have to consider how many times you see that person, do you FaceTime, etc

[Anonymous]

Hm here is the case.
I am a girl, and if I do what my heart says I would text him a lot all day.

But, some men got advised me this:
Don't reply texts from him right in a minute you received them. Let them sit like 3-10 mins or more then u can reply. Why? Because the more they noticed you excited about his text, the less they curious about you because they finds you attracted to them easily.

[Wafflesareamazballs]

Texting everyday is good if it’s long distance just don’t overdo it. Phone calls are good too even if they’re only 2-3 minutes long just getting to hear your voice and see how you’re doing is nice every once in a while.

[mooky06]

I would probably text him everyday. Calling? Here and there. To me, there isn’t a thing as “too much” communication.

[pink1980]

I don’t text or call everyday. For some reason my texts don’t go through. We talk and see each other everyday.

[Pink2000]

Everyday all day and we used to live on the same street. We call each other every night and we go to sleep on the phone together.

[Anonymous]

I'm in a long distant, half way across the world, we text like every second unless we have work or sleep, and we try and call as much as possible.

[memeqweenn]

if I'm in a relationship, I usually text them constantly.

[pookybear123]

Once a day, we live together so would rather have a catch up chat in person.

[Ræizel]

Last time we video call was Friday. And yesterday we only had a chat. I miss him though

[MaddyMax]

I text my boyfriend everyday, but not 24/7.

[OkraT]

It depends how many times he decides to reply.

[sarahrocks]

From experience everyday all day is too much

[sodaflipper]

Probably every few hours. I’m not a huge talker

[Slim57]

All day usually unless we're both busy

[inama123]

Ha everyday

[Anonymous]

I don’t talk to anyone.

[LeeKenz]

Everyday