Are you happy single or wish you were in a relationship?

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bethshepherd · Accepted Answer

People who are needy or desperate to get into a relationship are often doing it - or wanting to for selfish short sighted silly reasons which they have not really thought through properly. If you are looking for a partner to complete your life, to put the cherry on the top of the cake, great, if you have a lot to offer in return, great it will work out. But if you are clingy, needy, very lonely and wanting someone for selfish reasons you will either fail or lose the person when they work this out. The best person for a relationship is someone who is happy single too, and is not needy.

Justagirl106 · Accepted Answer

I was totally happy being single until I started dating this one guy. We dated for 3 years, and over that time I realized that having that special relationship with him was something that I didn't even know I was missing out on beforehand. Now without that kind of relationship in my life, I don't feel lonely, but I do feel like I'm missing out. It definitely made me realize that I think everyone deserves to be loved.

debi2622 · Accepted Answer

My goal in life is to always be happy. And I have been. I met my boyfriend and he always asked me if I was happy with him. I told him no, that I was already happy before him, but that he makes me happier. If he and I broke up, would just go back to being happy. But then I never dwell on being single or see it as a negative. I believe all things happen as they are supposed to and in their own time.

azzntittiz · Accepted Answer

I am not depressed about being single but I would like to find a dream man soon, because I want babies. I am at that stage where I am not even sure how I feel about it because there are thing I need from a man and I can't just milk his sperm and then throw him in the trash, unless they make it legal.

KenM9215 · Accepted Answer

I've definitely had the last 5 years of my life single, and while I don't mind it and can continue to carry on, I would like to acquire a relationship here in the near future. I'll play my part sure, but I'm also in the mind set that if it happens it happens, if it doesn't.. well that sucks for me lol.

BlueberryFrick · Accepted Answer

I've broken free of a relationship with a manipulative ex (not that I was amazing either) a few months back and there's another girl I've got eyes on. I've learned some lessons, but I'm not ready for a new relationship just yet. I'm still not over my ex and I've got some mental healing to do.

Logorithim · Answer

I'm in a relationship, but I don't like being single.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I’m currently single and it’s not exactly happy being single but it has its perks.

I’m more focused on fixing my inner peace and life than ready to bring some unsolved issues that I may I have left.

I don’t have many but I want to the next girl to be my last

lomimore · Answer

Am happy single, found that the hard way that relationships these way are stressful rather than having a good time with your partner.
Don't get me wrong i do not say all relationships are hard and streesful but being single right now is more peaceful and happy than the previous relations i had

Riggers · Answer

Im happy single, seems like most girls my age have the personality of rat shit, I dont think I've ever seen a genuinely more horrific, disgusting, vain, awful generation throughout history. Yet to meet a girl in person within +/-3 years my age who isn't just genuinely horrific as a human being.

Britny · Answer

It is OK to be single but it dose get lonely when you see your friends with their love and you are the only one with out some one to love and be loved back. But I rather be single than get hurt again by a guy I think I am in love with. But it would be nice to love and be loved by someone again.

Legendary_Shark · Answer

Single but not lonely, but not happy either, a bit unsatisfied with present life but only because of goals and dreams, has nothing to do with being single or being in a relationship... being in a relationship or Being single doesn't make much difference in happiness & life in general I guess, just my view though...

Soulimane · Answer

man as woman... Can hv happy life even without a partner, but it s an incomplete happiness... Simply coz each one without the other is incomplete human being!.. So to hv a complete happiness we must find the other half of our humanity... BUT... must know that stay single is better then a partner who turn our life to a nightmare...

mikeymetalhead · Answer

at first i didn't mind being single, monthes later tho, i hate it, it ain't even a sex thing, i just hate sleeping alone everynigjt in this big ass bed, hate knowing i could drop off the face of the earth tomaro and no one would care, hate having no one but the internet to talk to, yknow

Anonymous · Answer

Single and I don’t want to be. I’d like to know what a real relationship is like but I’m also getting the impression that I just don’t click with anyone on that level, or that I’m too old or whatever. Just a whole bunch wrong that makes it seem like I’ll never experience human intimacy.

Kilamanjargo · Answer

People who say they enjoy being single are lying to themselves to make themselves feel better for not being able to be in a relationship. In reality everyone wants a relationship but everyone is so damn entitled and judgmental to actually enjoy their boyfriends or girlfriend. Someone who says they like being single will frown at the sight of a happy relationship

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't been in a relationship in awhile and although I was planning on just having fun meaningless flings until I'm ready for a serious one, I'm really desperate for a committed one. Not desperate for a boyfriend, just a committed, relationship worthwhile!!

rahul_24 · Answer

Atm kinda happy being single because of perks of being single. But I do also get lonely like talking at nights after works, cuddling, spending time during weekends etc. So I miss that very much. Kinda happy but kinda sad I guess. Waiting for that perfect one, not being needy just very curious as per who is she haha

Anonymous · Answer

I wish I was in a relationship, but not just with anyone. With the person I know I could grow to love, but can't have for so many reasons.

fuzzyllama · Answer

A bit of both really. Having come out of a long term relationship, I enjoy the single life, however I do miss being with a special someone I guess everything happens for a reason. Right now I'm just going with the flow, what happens, happens.

Raz_at · Answer

I don’t wish I’m single because I’m in a relationship now and it feels so good to talk to someone who knows you very well and you can never be too sad because they’re always make you happy and do everything for you

djmzes · Answer

It depends on what your values are

VincentLaw · Answer

I don't want a relationship. I do, however, want to be in a relationship with a particular girl. I'm perfectly happy being single in most cases, but when I meet someone they make me want one for their sake

InformMe87 · Answer

I think both have their advantages; however, being in a relationship is much healthier (if it’s the right match).

roody · Answer

I want to be in a relationship now, I wasn't ready to be in one before but I learned that I am able to be alone and gained more confidence. Now I'm looking for someone.

Skinny_Ralph · Answer

Single. Women cost money. And in the long term cost men too much money in divorces.
If you took the odds of failed marriages, and applied it to something like the odds of a failing parachute, you would never go sky diving.
So why even take a chance in catching feelings with some who is most likely going to take you for everything is what I say.
Sure it does get a little lonesome, but that's what dogs are for!!

Badgurl98 · Answer

There are times I wanna be in a relationship and there are other times where I'm happy single hahah, it depends on my mood😭

HopelessRomantic2119 · Answer

I feel like I'm a more efficient person when I'm single. There's something about being in love/a relationship that makes me complacent. That tells me that I need to be single, for now.

Peanut127 · Answer

I feel happier in a relationship if I'm treated right. But I'm asexual and last ex couldn't handle it so I'm learning single life, at the moment, is OK till I can find another

Justacatlady · Answer

I'm married and TBH I wish I were single. Relationships are extremely hard and take a lot of work. I love my SO, but know for a fact that it would be simpler to be single

WildzBro · Answer

Tbh, I wish I was in a relationship, but the pressure to get in one atm puts a lot of stress on my mind 😂. This is why I tell EVERYone that I'm not looking for someone atm.

ash03 · Answer

I was in a relationship and I was very happy with her... But suddenly she broke up with Me... I don't know the real reason why she did this but I know one thing is that I was happy.
I wish I could get someone more caring than she was, she changed my perspective of seeing girls, and also now I don't trust anyone.

Leimarie · Answer

I’m currently single and I can honestly say that I’m happy either way. I don’t feel as though I need someone else to make me happy, but it can be nice to be in a relationship.

JDavid25 · Answer

I'm satisfied bein single atm.. I mean sure I wouldn't mind a girl I find attractive bein around me.. But I know at this moment a relationship may not be the thing I need at the moment..

EllieFayre · Answer

Right now, I'm so happy to be single because I know that I'm not ready yet in entering a relationship.

anisindra · Answer

I’ve been single for 5 years. I just can't fall in love with someone so easily I don't know why. Sometimes i feel the pain of loneliness. I wish i could have a serious relationship. But i'm not looking for a boyfriend, i need a future husband.

SC4321 · Answer

Not happy in the slightest being single. Was so much happier when I was in a relationship, but it's been almost 2 years since then.

GingerGuy · Answer

I'd like a relationship but a good one, I'm happier single than in one that isn't right for me or good.

thatcutie · Answer

I am single till now, but I am not sure of being in a relationship because I only want to be that special one of my special one

Monnie312 · Answer

I'm not unhappy being single but having someone to hug up to at the end of the day or share things with that touched me, that would be nice too

qxeenrrose · Answer

I don’t wish to be in a relationship anytime soon. My only priority is to be happy and You don’t need to someone to do that.

AlexEfron · Answer

Happy single.
I do feel lonely at times but that void doesn't need to be filled by a girlfriend. I just want some company that's all. A little bit of everyone's time, a bit of care, a bit of appreciation and bit by bit I have the whole piece 😂😂

Leo3572 · Answer

In general - I'm happy to be single.
Right now in this moment - I wish I had a girlfriend who lies in my arms and cuddles me. I could need this at the moment.
Luckily this need will be forgotten after I took my rest.

NightOwl399 · Answer

Compared to my last relationship, I must say I am happier being single. You get to do whatever you want, whenever you want and eat where ever you want. Either I wasn't mean to be in a relationship, or I haven't found the right girl yet.

torwulf · Answer

I wouldn't mind having a partner. But my current life situation doesn't allow for a serious relationship. I'm happy enough single, after all, it gives me the freedom to have as many flings and one night stands as i could possibly want.

NessyTheMonster · Answer

I've been single my whole life, been to one date. I would love to be in a relationship, I feel really lonely sometimes.

lailaknaff2 · Answer

Im marries and super happy. I think that if I was single.. Id probably die. But I just love my hubby to much

JulieXO · Answer

I was happily single for over a year, but I'm starting to long for a relationship again.

datasheet · Answer

When I'm single I crave for someone and in relationships I destroy them because I fear my emotions could be hurt if I get them out soo yeah...

keenybmr · Answer

I don't mind being in a relationship but I lose nothing if im not in one. Rather be single than with someone who stresses me out

SarahVanRensburg · Answer

I’m doing alright being single but would like to be in a relationship

acooke-13 · Answer

I'm happy as I am now, but in a relationship or single I'm always happy!

daydreammarie · Answer

Yes and no. I like being single but then there are times that I would like to have a boyfriend.

Lilyanony · Answer

I wish to be in a relationship, but I'm just not ready for it

SlothySlob · Answer

I wish I was in a relationship, but then I'd miss what I had. For now I just make due with what I have at my disposal.

Mutability · Answer

I'm single and i'm happy. I wouldn't mind being in a relationship though but its not something that i'm constantly wishing for. I have other priorities.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I have moments where I wish to be single mostly for life reasons as I never managed to enjoy my life when I was single and then have been in relationships back to back for the past 7 years.

Orangeblossom92 · Answer

I wish i was in a relationship i need that special connection with someone special

Volvagia · Answer

i don't think I've ever loved anything more than being single

Lynzerilee · Answer

I'd love to feel what is to be in a relationship.

Lizzzzzzzzzzzzz · Answer

I omly want to date if the guy and the timing are right.

thicker69 · Answer

I meet a wonderful woman. we pick out and bought a ring. We were
to be married in spring together for 4 years I was happest ever been she had a stroke and passed😢 been alone for over two years! Being alone is horrible. Share your life make memories

MonaLee · Answer

Happy single but could be the same happy with a similar soul ;)

Balcazaurus · Answer

I'm okay with being single, but you can only spend your time alone for so long (and by that, I mean my whole life). Ja ja

dancing_in_nebulas · Answer

I really want to be in a relationship. Meeting guys is no issue, just haven't clicked yet lol

TinaSP · Answer

We need to be happy with ourselves. I love to enjoy my own company when single and thats how we know we can handle to commit.

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