WHY are red flags important to pay attention to in romantic relationships?

[aestheticsofty]

In your opinion...

They are important (why)

Not important (why)

A total of 12 votes were cast: 5 girls and 7 guys. See detailed results

[AynonOMouse]

It depends. Some people think things are red flags when nothing is wrong and then they make a big deal out of something until they actually make it a problem themselves.

[SmoMan71]

Why is this a question? Do you not understand what the term “red flag” means?

https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/red+flag

[aestheticsofty]

Yeah, I know? I asked for people to explain it in their own opinions and words. Everyone has different perspectives

[SmoMan71]

It means, by definition that it’s a sign of a big problem. Still not understanding what you don’t get about that.

[aestheticsofty]

Okay, idiot

[SmoMan71]

I’m an idiot because you don’t understand what words mean? How do justify that one?

[ciitruskiwi]

I'm pretty sure most people would say it's important. Red flags = big problems. I'd be very concerned if someone didn't think red flags were important.

[aestheticsofty]

Why? In your own perspective

[Astraea]

I'd pay attention to them but would stay out of curiosity (and in some where they were horrible, to fuck with them for a while).

[LegateLanius]

Are they worth your time or are you getting in over your head?

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

Well because you don't wanna be bamboozled so you pay attention.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

I don't know but can someone send me their dictionary of red flags? I'm not gonna collect them personally lol

[Djaay]

Its not the red flag you must pay attention to as much as it's the one who sewed it together. Then again, it takes two...

[SantyG98]

There's an advice for everyone. Just pay attention.

[Girolamo]

I hope you can find the person that helps you to follow Christ.

[Tdieseler]

Thats how you know if its worth investing in.