Who wears the pants in your relationship?

[Melania1]

My boyfriend

My girlfriend

None

[Zefram]

I chose my boyfriend because there's no "me" option but I don't actually have a boyfriend, I am the boyfriend. I mean, we typically make decisions and shit together and usually consult each other on major changes and stuff but really at the end of the day, I'm more or less the more dominant personality of the two of us. I went into this relationship thinking so much about how I've seen other guys like my dad and even my formerly womanizing best friend suddenly turn pussy and just submit to the girlfriends to the point where some of them need fucking permission just to go out to the bar at night.
I let her know right away man, I am a fucking grown ass man, I will never ask for permission to go out and I wouldn't ask it of her either. At the same time though, I do think it's just common courtesy to let her know when I decide to head out so she doesn't have to wonder where I am and call me. When I moved in with her (because her apartment was bigger so it made more sense) I got tried pretty quick and we had a fight over her basically dominating me and offering me to move in without considering she'd have to make concessions and make room for me. That fight almost ended the relationship but luckily I was able to call her out on it in the first place and she was willing to change and I put my foot down on bringing some of my shit in and putting it in some rooms.
My gf's also sorta used to dating kinda domineering guys so it's unusual for her to look to me for direction and she'll even ask my opinion on decisions in her life that have no bearing on mine whatsoever (such as changing banks, she asked me if I thought she should change when she got tired of her service). Which in itself is another thing. I have yet to intertwine my finances with my girlfriend (a mistake my father keeps fucking making for some god damn reason). I'll maybe think about intertwining finances after I propose. 'Til then, my money is my money and her money is her money. She actually makes more than I do anyway but in a few years that might change (I started a company recently) so, protect the assets.

[Anonymous]

Both should. Both should be able to take care of kids if needed, be able to work jobs, or even join the military if there's a call for it. Both need to share cleaning responsibilities as well as cooking. Wanna bet this sort of system with the right communication doesn't make a dream relationship? But what am I talking about? This is for people in relationships and I am just part of... I don't know... like the 75% that are not in one or got sick of the concept of it?

[Madkeyra00]

Guys think they were the pants but when the woman is angry they are unhappy as well.

[Melania1]

Same thing other way around hun

[Madkeyra00]

True

[Anonymous]

I wear the pants, my boyfriend is Scottish, he wears the Kilt :P

[Melania1]

Skirts, dummy

[Opinion Owner]

Kilt is a type of skirt dummy ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO :)

[CherryRoseChampange]

My boyfriend and I both share the pants. I have one leg and he the other, but it's pretty rigged. His leg is way bigger than mine lol

[Anonymous]

Shouldn’t the pole say “the boyfriend” and “the girlfriend” either way I think the men not because I’m sexist and this is going to sound really sexist but most of the time when you let a girl/women take the pants they start to manipulate and they start f*cking with your head and then they start saying things like no I don’t want to have sex or I’m too tired or I’m not in the mood, weeks go by you still haven’t had sex and then you find her f*cking the neighbor or the milk man and that’s why men should wear the pants and yes I do know that men cheat more but with resent studies it shows that women have started to cheat more and besides men can have equality and he wouldn’t care heck the people that let women have all the rights they have to say were men because women couldn’t vote back then so it was a choice men did not because we are sexist but because we believe in equality which nowadays women don’t seem to get the actual meaning seeing how they want to be over men and above the law

[exhaustedfromlife]

Everything you just said is sexist. I don't know who told you those things but it's not true, men can be just as manipulative but nice try at trying to give a mature opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it is sexist and well I tried 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

[exhaustedfromlife]

If you knew it was sexist, why did you say it?

[Opinion Owner]

Sexist or not you asked for an opinion doesn’t mean I’m sexist it’s just a crude version of what I really think and sorry I didn’t mean to be rude also I wrote it when I was drunk yes underage drinking I know but I was at a family reunion they allowed me to drink but when a men manipulates a women people want that guy to be castrated when a women manipulates a men they say the men is an idiot and a pussy so I wouldn’t let my girlfriend wear the pants IN MY OPINION

[exhaustedfromlife]

I understand it's your opinion but if you have the fear of your girlfriend doing that, maybe you shouldn't be with her. That's just common sense.

[Opinion Owner]

Well that’s the main reason I haven’t dated after my ex, apart from that fear, but that it wasn’t that long ago and I’ll give myself 6 months to just have fun single, but we broke up 3 months ago either way yeah you might say if you are afraid that will happen then don’t be with her but that’s the thing, men can be so hypnotized by the puss that they would rather forget about all the bad things about the girl like she does hardcore drugs for example and just not care about that and go for a f*cking even thou she is a bad influence and then there also feeling involved which most of the time feelings will make you do a bad decision and besides don’t tell me you never have told your friends how much of an asswipe your boyfriend is but your still with him, you know why? because of feeling you are forgetting all the bad things about him because of feelings and his spontaneous behavior (if he’s a bad boy if he isn’t he might not be spontaneous)

[Opinion Owner]

And also have you ever bought a product hat seemed really good and when you got it it kinda sucked well you girls have so many things that sell you as attractive and I’m saying selling not because you guys are objects but because you put on make up to look good and maybe catch a guy’s eye kind of like selling but your selling yourself and I know make up isn’t to pleasure guys I’m just saying the selling is so good that when the product comes men forget about what was promised and just deal with the product hoping that the selling didn’t lie I don’t think this made a lot of sense if you want me to explain more I will

[exhaustedfromlife]

I tell my friends how amazing my boyfriend is. You made a statement about how women cheat because of one person, guess what my ex cheated on me but I don't think all men cheat because he doesn't represent all of the male population. The fact that your projecting your insecure issues and problems on tons of other people who have done nothing to you because of one person who fucked you over says a lot about them. My boyfriend isn't a bad guy, he's quite amazing actually, stop going by stereotypes, it'll help you in the future.

[exhaustedfromlife]

I have bought a product that sucked and you know what I did? I got rid of it or stopped using it because what's the point of keeping it if it's no good? That's the concept some people need when they're in a bad relationship, don't keep it of it's not good, get rid of it.

[Opinion Owner]

1. I said there’s a resent study that shows women started to cheat more not that all women have started to cheat more
2. I’m just doing what feminist are doing they say all men are rapist ok I’ll just say all women cheat I’ve started to do that to show the hardcore feminist that it’s bad when they put a whole bunch of people in a group and again it’s not what I actually believe I know that not all women are gold diggers, whores, or cheaters it would be like saying that all cats are fat when in fact some aren’t

3. I understand you shouldn’t put everyone in a group if one screwed you over but I’m just protecting myself basically putting myself first so I don’t get hurt again

Also when you said “who fucked you over says a lot about them did you mean “me?” Or actually “them”

[exhaustedfromlife]

I'm talking about people who generalize and the fact that you are stooping to the level of so called feminists is just ridiculous. Yes, I was referring to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I mean it is sad that I’m sticking to their level but i mean I’m just giving them their own medicine and yeah it is I’m not going to lie but I have nothing better to do heck I’ve been arguing with you for maybe 4 hours 😂

[exhaustedfromlife]

Then find something to do then.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I will 🙃

[Tdieseler]

Physically? both. But i think i know what you mean... and i do that... i don't let any girl im involved with, drive my relationship, due to their quite irritating habit of finding every reason to destroy it.
I wear "the pants"... but she is always... ALWAYS listened to and considered because she is a human being. but if her idea could sabotage us... i have override power.

[madhatters4]

i don't think either my wife or i wear the pants overall. we share responsibilities. we tend to each do certain things that we are better at doing to make things work in the relationship

[chunkycheeks]

In every relationship I've always worn the pants.. My fiance though is very difficult and he likes to take charge and sometimes ill put my foot down but I typically let him

[passinby]

When you are single free spirit, you wear the pants. When married, she and the government wears the pants.

[ninjafemme]

In my strange messed up relationship I feel like I wear the pants but I don't want to Im just naturally rebellious and bitchy... and he can get emotional about weird things... but at the end of the day he wears the pants because I'm way too girly.

[fauchelevent]

Uh, generally I think we share decisions more or less equally but if I absolutely had to choose out of the two of us, he's more commanding and stubborn so it'd be him.

[ChurchOfIron]

So, the only options are "the opposite gender" or "none"?

[NicoletteKomotov]

Neither of us wear pants when we don't have to. Literally. Skirts, dresses and heels for us!

[Hisexy]

Skirts and high heels so comfy

[BipBipLeddus]

I'm not sure how to pick an answer. There is no "Me" option.

I'm just suck in a polygamous bisexual relationship.

[xTom98]

Im a hopeless Single 😩😩
but considering that I mostly depend on my dicisions It would most likely be me 😄

[SkittleMayn]

I don't have a girlfriend, but if I did, I'd assume we would both be wearing pants.

[Seanhub]

None shall wear underwear in this relationship. It is forbidden.

[exhaustedfromlife]

Nobody, a relationship is about two people being responsible for it, not one. If someone has to wear the pants in a relationship, then maybe they shouldn't be in a relationship at all.

[Slave-man]

İf you are a dominant woman who want to humiliate and swear at me, write me. I worship women. They are superior.

[Melania1]

Ur not a realman

[Slave-man]

👍👍 You are so beautiful. Especially in your cover photo. Your ass is so sexy. I would like to serve you and being slave of you. You look like a princess. I would do everything for your happiness.

[Melania1]

Would u let me cut your balls of

[Slave-man]

No, not that much. Never.

[Slave-man]

But I would let you to spit your precious phlegm into my mouth and face. :)

[TuMeManques]

We are both very stubborn and strong willed so we each get a pant leg.

[RobLovesDemi]

demi does lol MOST of the time but seriously though relationships should be based on 50/50 give and take both listening to each others wants and needs

[pooper89]

I didn’t vote because I didn’t see an answer choice but I’m the one who wears em

[hindril]

I didn't vote because I'm single. But, you should listen to "The Man's Song" off Bob and Tom. Lol

[hindril]

Spell correct sucks. "The Man Song"

[RussianHacker]

The women in my life wouldn't blink without my permission.

[HereIbe]

We do our best to wear pants as little as possible in our relationship, likewise for underwear. Maybe T-shirt if it gets too cool, but otherwise...

[AlphaMaleTruth]

Women don’t wear pants they wear dresses. Lesbians maybe

[Roula78]

None we both wear dress. But my Husband mostly take charge which I like but we discuss things.

[Hisexy]

Nice love wearing a dress

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh... you're missing the "I do" option. Where is it

[Iron_Man]

Always wear the pants in the family I'm not a bitch

[AshyKnight]

She is usually the one to make the decisions and make sure I do everything right (Or that's how it would be if I had a girlfriend aha)

[FrenchyRomain]

we take decisions together for most of the matters so i don't really know

[curiousheikh]

I think girls who are emotionally dominant are good for me, but I hope both of us aren't wearing pants at home because they're very uncomfortable

[usaf2018]

I wear the pants. The way you set this up makes the person wearing the pants choose none

[TheFiddler]

The more important question is who has the pockets?
Open flesh wound? Oh you mean my extra pockets.

[Slim57]

I did in my last one. Guess that's why I'm single now.

[LaurenGrace]

My marriage is more like a pantamime horse lol

[englisc]

I wear the pants, she wears the dresses.

[SleepingSnorlax]

We share the pants
It seems much easier that way

[DakotaNorth]

I like dresses and I have no partner.

[Rick912]

Neither, we go around naked all of the time. lol

[ravedave]

We share pant legs lmao

[IrisBanks]

It's better without pants at all we both can't fit

[AoiKaito]

Skirts are comfortable to wear...

[lemmingj]

A good relationship shouldn't have pants at all.

[Anonymous]

Who wears the pants is circumstantial

[Anonymous]

I don’t have a relationship

[HeyThere94]

My girlfriend does, she's the dom

[TsubasaCorrupted]

It's an equal partnership in all matters.

[Brutal_Honesty]

this poll is confusing

[CuriousMufuxka]

When I get home from work.. The pants come off.

[laughinglad999]

l dont have a girl still waiting

[Buckzor]

My hand

[BornFree]

I do!!

[rapfan107]

Me don't get it f up😎

[Linda56]

Heh... We both wear that. :p

[LOGESHKUMAR]

I never had that incident..

[Smf1989]

I'm a hopeless Single

[jacquesvol]

Both.

[johnmichael62ga]

That would be me

[MidnightCowboy]

Well not me lol

[moonpie89]

None of us

[s2firestar]

I do.

[Grimreeper720]

Why not both?