Do Cheaters Feel Guilt Afterwards?

[Wowgirl10q]

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In my prenuptial agreement one stipulation I had was if he had a child outside the marriage with anouther woman I got everything no questions asked. I don't think they are guilt ridden souls personally.

[CherryRoseChampange]

I'm there ones who do and ones who don't. It depends on how and why they cheated sometimes. It's all kind of situational, but I still say it doesn't excuse it. Cheating is hurtful, but i think if it's genuine guilt and progress made to fix something the relationship then they should be allowed to do that sometimes.

I personally hate how someone says they'll work it out with a cheater then they hold it over their heads fir eternity despite the cheaters efforts to heal the relationship. You can't allow healing if you keep ripping scabs off.

[CherryRoseChampange]

*sure there are

[Anonymous]

My husband probably does feel a tiny bit guilty after 4 affairs, but not guilty enough to do anything different. Screw cheaters, they ruin entire families and break children's hearts when they break the family apart.

[Wowgirl10q]

Should have married in Texas if you can prove your spouse cheated you get 90% of asset's in divorce

[TheNotorious]

Hahaha 90% of asset’s you think it’s fun to steal someones hard worked money?

[TheNotorious]

I will make sure i ain’t marrying any bitch in my life

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, don't marry a bitch. You ought to marry a person that you value enough to not call her a bitch

[Anonymous]

Monogamy is cheating. It cheats our natural polygamous nature designed specifically to ehance the human race by maximising the diversity if the gene pool.
I don't cheat, ergo no guilt.
Those who feel they 'own' their partners are the real cheaters. That is slavery.

[Malita55]

Wow what an absolutely fucked up way of thinking

[Opinion Owner]

@Malita55
It's not hard to stop the crowdthink.
Give it a shot sometime.

[TonyMetal86]

Thank god, i never cheat to know how it feels like, no girl on earth can make me. cheat if i was married, i'll be 100% loyal to my future wife...

People trust me blindly for something and do not intend to break this image...

[Wowgirl10q]

I don't cheat I don't jump from relationships to relationship though

[TonyMetal86]

Good to hear miss owl girl, doing the right thing makes you feel strong, proud and good 😊

If you were married and someone seduce you with power and money just to cheat on your husband, what would you do?

A loyal girl, will tell him, shove your money in your a*s and no need for powers... to see me naked or make sex to me, i have to be dead 1st... i only belong to my husband 🙂

[Wowgirl10q]

I was married to a guy with money and power but I wouldn't sleep with anyone for any reason but love

[Wowgirl10q]

I didn't cheat

[TonyMetal86]

Good to hear that you never cheated, are you still married?

[Wowgirl10q]

No got married young married 5 year's been divorced 2ish

[TonyMetal86]

Sad to hear this, cause i believe that marriage shall remain forever except if there was cheating

[Genie23]

Some do. That's why they suddenly start giving more attention to their partner, bring them gifts or become more giving in the bedroom.

[Kashanadil]

Seems you have experienced this case

[Genie23]

Nope, My friends told me the suspicious behavaiour of their partners and eventually they found out their partner was having an affair.
my ex has cheated on me but he didn't feel the guilt until I broke up.

[Kashanadil]

Thanks for sharing your story

[poopedmypantsagain]

I am not a cheater and would never do that to a women... but many low life guys are after only one thing.. sex and when they sweet talk the women by saying anything they want to hear.. they get the sex them move on.. and cheaters do not feel guilty maybe when they get caught they do I do not know.. but many think of women same as a big game hunter thinks of prey... they want as many trophies on their wall as they can get... in this case it is in their big... Ego's

[davidst123]

if they only care about sleeping with random, I guess not. if they really care about someone, they cheat on that person for sure they are gonna feel guilty about it. when you have strong feels about someone and you do something bad to hurt that person, you will feel really guilty.

[Aenetoo]

Don't know. I come from a small town. About 1800 people. My boss came in to work one morning. I knew something was wrong. She was red and blotchy. Looked sick. She told me her husband had cheated. She said she was about to throw up, and had to go home. She gave him one week to prove himself. That was months ago. 19 years is hard to walk away from.

[Clo917]

Based off my moms reaction when she found out we knew she was cheating on my dad, no. It’s all fake to try and gather sympathy, but they’re just sorry they got caught.

[EricFranks]

I feel like it crosses a mine here and there but after they start to do a lot, I feel like they quit caring until it happens to them.
*vice versa

so your answer to your question is no.
I hope this was helpful. :D

[ATuairiscean]

You would really have to ask cheaters, I know I would but I don't cheat - The cheaters I know seem to show little guilt more worried about getting caught than anything - I do agree with your idea of having pre nups

[vinay24]

Only few realize and apologize because most people think they are right in their on way

[ichighost]

In my experience, no. Met up with somebody I was close to before and she cheated on her husband and didn't feel bad about it. I'd rather end a relationship before doing such a thing

[Lyndsielee666]

I was in an abusive relationship and went looking for love elsewhere. I dont feel guilty at all. 🤷‍♀️

[xTom98]

why not break it up before you went looking? If the relationship was abusive anyways, there's legit no reason to keep it going 🤦

[Lyndsielee666]

Because he beat me whenever I tries to leave yo.

[Lyndsielee666]

Tried*

[xTom98]

there's cops for that tho 🤷
Im sorry to hear about that however, hope you got over it well.

[Lyndsielee666]

Lmfao if you had any idea about the city that I lived in youd know the cops dont care, they dont even show up when they're called. My friends little brother got stabbed and was dead in a gutter for hours before the police showed up. Calling would have done nothing.

[xTom98]

oh wow, I didn't know that you lived in a area with problems like that... I just thought of cops beeing like the ones we have in germany, or at least close to that.

[Lyndsielee666]

I fucking wish 😂 it seems like the cops show up quickly if it's a minor problem but if its actually a violent offense they're nowhere. bad.

[Wowgirl10q]

@xTom98 our cops are very different then European sadly

[Wowgirl10q]

I agree

[xTom98]

I hope so, its not fair in my opinion. If they wanna sleep arround they should tell their SO.

[Malita55]

No because if they cared enough about the person theyd cheat on to feel guilt, they wouldn't cheat in the first place

[BrittBratt2416]

No, cause they wouldn't have done it in the first place. They didn't have guilt while it was occurring so why have guilt afterwards?

[HitGirl_4680]

Cheaters are usually liars so no I don’t presume they feel any remorse what so ever as they usually try and lie their way through it.

[QueenofCups]

I'm sure some do, but most don't, especially if they do it more than once.

[worldscolide]

If you are talking about women or men that do it over and over, no i doubt they have a conscience let alone guilt over it.

[LegateLanius]

Only when they are caught and it's all fake. If it was that important to them, they wouldn't have done it in the first place.

[Stockton]

Well I would have to say that some do and some don't. It doesn't matter to me because they still cheated.

[Ankitasingh466]

Ya definitely. After the game is over I tell my boyfriend that I cheated and won. When we play carrom I block the coin from going in the pocket.

[Lance1965]

A small percentage of them might feel some guilt but most don't from my personal experience and from what I have heard from other people who have been through it.