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To me it’s both, but really personality takes over the appearance part. It makes up for what that person may lack appearance wise and that’s fine.
Both are important to me. Dating is about finding "the right one". To me that just means finding someone who is perfect for you in both aspects.
I go more by personality. Looks are important too though.
Personality. Both are important, but once you get through their appearance and start getting to know that person, personality is what will make you stay.
Personality. Having good is part but has an ugly personality. That is a massive ego and cheat.
A good look is a part
Too complicated of a question to 'pick' one or the other.
Needs to be both because apparence I love a sexy thick woman but personality can ruin the whole motive.
Tough choice but I think personality will edge out appearance even if the margin might be small.
Both are important, but an unattractive appearance means I never get to know her personality. It's the first and most important bar to get over
Personality can easily be more attractive,(wether or not it is depends on who), and is always more important.
I can stay with a great girl who doesn't look great.
I cannot stay with a good looking bitch.
Appearance is how you gain attention. Personality is how you keep it.
Both. Cuz yeahhh an awesome personality is the best thing in the world but like managing to have both is even more attractive ctive
That's blatantly obvious, but this was a poll question.
Personality can influence how you appear to others.
Both and because I'm a relationship kind of girl, I value personality for the long run
Here we go again, everyone is going to say personality when in really most people care about looks.
After the second broken heart looks become almost meaningless😅
Appearance first.
That’s what would have gotten my attention in the first place. But a bad personality can take it all away.
Appearance first, then personality takes over and becomes the main attraction. But both is the ideal.
Both. Plenty of people look good and also have a good personality such as myself.
That's cool if you are hot, but a person with a personality man the possibilities make them much more attractive by far!!
Personality is more important for sure, but I want a girl who has both.
Appearance is going to attract you and make you want to open the door.
Personality deems if you stay or slam said door shut.
No matter how great a man's personality is, I'm too heterosexual to be attracted to him. So I think it's appearance
You come for appearance, you stay for personality.
But as you get older you realize how much appearances fade.
BOTH ! Appearance ATTRACTS and Personality KEEPS ! you need BOTH ! why do people think you can choose either one
Appearance of course because someone could have a great personality like Roseanne Barr or Danny Devito but nobody wants to fuck them
appearance, cause that's the only thing you see at first.
Appearance is what initially gets me. But its a guys personality that will keep me around
You can teach a woman to talk and cook, but you can't teach her to grow tits.
Depends for what, relationship or netflix an chill?
Personality. Looks always fade, but a good heart endures.
Since most women have crappy personalities I would go with appearance to just stasify my sexual desires and use them
Better a nice girl with no ass and o ass than a twat which has both but always complains about everything and shit.
*No ass
Appearance. If you dont find the person attractive you probably won't be interested in their personality.
My little head says appearance. My big head says personality. When both are in agreement, then I know I found a keeper.
Both:)! I have to like what I see and enjoy who I’m talking to.
“Is it too much to ask for both?”
- Tony Stark
I will date anyone aslong as there not extremely ugly to the point I can’t look at them without wanting to puke
If I wanted to virtue signal I'd say personality but realistically looks are what draws you in in the first place
If you are beautiful with no personality i wouldn't give you the time of day. If you dont look good with good personality great. In the long run personality gets you farther.
both, not first, no second
without both im not talking to you
How can you know her personality if you’re not talking to her?
@omgjassy if i dont like her appearance i think im not interested so that means im not going to even talk to you? And if she is attractive to me but i dont like her personality its also turn off. People who dont care about appearance are stupid. well cmon, how can you date person if u dont like how they look or how can you date if u dont like his/her personality? So i chose both.
Well apparently you pick appearance first
@omgjassy yea. What is point if u dont find person attractive? They can be kind and with good heart but if they are not attractive to you what is point.
And there is no actually "appearance first". Like i said. If ur attractive and u have personality that i dont like its not going to work
Exactly if you’re attractive so if you aren’t you will never know their personality. Because you won’t talk to them.
@omgjassy but not everyone find same thing attractive. My friend sent me a lot photos of girls he like and i dont find them attractive :/.
And when i sent him girl i like he said she is ugly and looks like thot but i find her cute af. And why should i care if someone has good personality if i dont find that person attractive. No sense, we can be friends but not in relationship
I know
most of the people who voted "personality" are lying to themselves
Appearance for the initial attraction, personality for the bond.
I gotta say my trademark phrase here, I want a girl to live with not to look at
the appearance was attractive and important to me when I had to appear in public
I know it's cliche but personality. Cool, she's cute but do I even connect with her?
I think the first thing that catches anyone's eye is appearance. Then after personality.
Really tough question. I'm not going to come talk to you if you look run down, but I'm not going to stay without personality.
Personality, there's a lot of attractive people but most are really outputting to me of how they act most of the time
Looks attract the person, but personality keeps the person.
Appearance attracts me and personality would keep me
A person with an "average" appearance but with a beautiful personality is always more attractive
First attraction/sex and that's it? Appearance.
Anything else (flirting, getting involved, dating, getting married, friends with benefits, etc) personality all the way.
Anyone who says personality is an abhorrent liar.
Please with this question. Both matter
Personality! It means everything in my book.
@Pamina
@latinabutterfly96
I know how to program computer software in 4 different computer languages. And I also have the ability to answer an extremely simple 2-option poll. LMAO
False dichotomy? LOL
Just pick one! Left or right. If you say, both, you're more than likely going to be recruited by NASA to build rockets.
I vote C : They are of equal importance.
Both are important. Neither one works well alone.
Personality is more important
Combination of the two
Spot on
I want a good personality anyday