I don't mind signing. I feel indifferent towards it. From what I understand it just means you negotiate prior the marriage what you will do with assets & what will happen after divorce in a legal binding way? Or do I have a different understanding.
Well no one should be getting married until they know It's the right person , so i Think a prenup is an insult to be honest , if i was asked to sign one i would really reconsider the marriage. Getting married makes your partner and yourself equal to one , your choosing to walk the path of life together no matter who has more money or what you both are a team, so my money is her money vice versa , you should be there for each other no matter what. So again being asked to sign a prenup would make me not really want to marry someone considering they already dont trust me
It has nothing to do with not trusting your partner. Do you think the millions and millions of couples who get divorced went into their marriage thinking they will lose their partner? No. Almost all couples marry thinking it will last forever. Shit happens. All the time. I am guessing that at least a pre nup will assist in making decisions easier IF divorce happens.
I just think it adds fire to a relationship to be honest. Basically says I love you and want to marry you but im not a hundred percent sure so will you sign this prenup just in case so you dont get anything if we divorce. So my opinion is whats the point of even getting married
Signing a document does nog mean you do not want to marry or that you do not want to give anything to your spouse. It is actually the opposite. You are deciding how to divide assets and such. As opposed to ugly fights and nasty arguments like with my boyfriend's parents going through a divorce where they never signed anything and now it is a royal shit show. Like I said, couples who got divorced never thought they would when they got married. Signing a pre nup has nothing to do with not wanting your marriage to work. Divorce is a God awful thing with a lot of pain and heartache and I see it all the time with my partner. No one wants to go through it Or let me rephrase, no normal rational human being enters a marriage wanting to go through that kinda pain.
I can see that being a disaster and it's sad to see people. go. through a divorce cuz it is a horrible thing , i guess i am just old school me personally wouldn't even waste my time having my partner sign one i believe if a marriage is broken you fix it , not throw it away if it can't be fixed then i would just deal with the consequences of going through the divorce , i would probably just let her have most the things cuz its just assets to me , doesn't mean shit but i guess if you have assets that mean a lot to you then i guess get a prenup , just something i wouldn't present honestly , considering if i marry someone i want someone that is going. to be 50 / 50 with me whats mine is hers and vice versa
Yes I would definitely want that. My boyfriend is against doing it though (in his opinion, a couple that is planning a divorce even before marrying shouldn't do it in the first place). Let's see what the future brings 😅
I understand why some people would be offended at the suggestion. However, it simply acknowledges the possibility that, despite the best of intentions, the relationship may not survive long term.
I'm not into these deals. Relationship is not a business in my world.
If we love each other and there is trust, respect, understanding and unity in between. I'd marry her. If not, why should i marry and then be scared so much of the future divorce so i take the precaution like this? it's ridiculous to me.
I have a girlfriend for seven years now. We want to marry one day soon, there is enough trust that such agreements wouldn't be needed. besides, i love her enough that whatever i have and i earn is hers anyway. Why would i hesitate to give all i have for the one who is the most important human being in the universe to me? what's mine is hers and what's hers is mine. Love is not business. It's partnership and togetherness.
Yes i believe a Prenuptial agreement should be written up before marriage , now days you don't know about marriages i believe what is hers is hers and what is his is his and so on yes i would agree to one and i believe in 50/50 in marriage/ relationship.
Tbh it’s the right and fair thing to do. Both parties get to keep what is rightfully theirs and what they worked hard for.
Not being biased but I think it’s so fucked up how whoever makes the most bread has to pay spouse support to the other person just cause they didn’t work out.
As a man, there's little point. Divorce courts wholly ignore prenuptial agreements regularly in the US, in favor of women. If I was a woman bringing more assets into a marriage than my fella, I'd definitely have a prenup.
No I was married to a man that maybe to others should have made me sign. But I'm not a malicious person and he knew that so we did not. And we are divorced now and good friends nobody got greedy or cruel thank God
You do what you did before which is exactly how it should be done. If he is wealthy and loves you, then he already sees the good in you just like your ex-husband and won't need to have you sign a pre-nup.
Thank you yes we're actually good friends and I'm blessed in that aspect I hate how people always down talk their ex's I feel it's like degrading yourself
That's how I would have felt. Look, if a man asks you to sign, don't sign. NO man, if he genuinely loves his woman, would require a pre-nup. Females have evolved us to be their protectors so, at an instinctive level, we very much want to protect the woman we love and that includes doing whatever is necessary for that - including taking care of her even in the unfathomable possibility of divorce.
I'm glad a few good men are left he was your age most younger men I don't know forgot they are men. I'm very old fashion in my views deffinetly not a feminist. I don't want equal rights I'm fine with 60/40 or something.
That said, over the 200,000+ year history of our species, females have been very selective in choosing who they mate with compared to us (*). As a result over the 1000s of generations, we males have a strong protective instinct to females.
Furthermore, love is something of a form of insanity that, in a male, overrides his natural desire to fuck early, often, and with as many females as possible (*) A male in real true deep romantic love will spare nothing to protect his female no matter what.
(*) From an evolutionary perspective, females are the architects of the human species because they are so selective in mating due to the rarity of eggs and limited fertility time. By comparison, sperm is cheap so males are naturally promiscuous. Males are thus responsible for the genetic diversity of our species and that protects it from genetic weakness.
y'all crazy. No prenup no ring. If a woman really loves you she doesn't need a legal way to take your property that she's not rightfully entitled to. As wife she's entitled to it, if she decideds to cheat and leave you for someone else she doesn't deserve one penny that she hasn't worked for herself. Anyone with a brain would agree about this but then why would you get married with no prenup? You think you owe cheaters half your stuff? Wtf?
@bamesjond0069 Of coyrse you're going to need a pre-nup. Your incapacity to fully understand love will only lead you to divorce anyway - if you're lucky enough to even get married.
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