Would you snitch on your best friend if he/she cheated?

[wingspan83]

I personally wouldn't

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

I would tell my best friend that it is messed up to what they are doing and sit down with them and really find out why they are going that Route, So really depends on why they are doing it , even though i am against it I would try to be there for my best friend no matter what and tell them what they are doing is wrong and that they will eventually get caught if they dont end it or talk to their partner and confess. Even though part of me would want to snitch it's really none of my business, i been down this Route before with friends cheating and when I got myself involved i ended up being the asshole for getting involved , i know Its messed up but your best to just be a friend and help them by guiding them the right way. We all do stupid shit at times and all we can do is learn off of are mistakes

[Kaneki05]

Depends. So i dunno.

I would never go behind my bestfriend tho so i would tell him that i will tell if he don't.

But it all depends on the situation of why he cheated and if he want's to stay with he and just forget it ever happend or if he don't really show any remorse so yea all depends.

I am loyal to a fault so i would be fair and never go behind his back, but if he did something wrong i am gonna call him out on that shit.

Also if he was bestfriend i guess i would know his girlfriend who he cheated on so it depends on that as well and what she is like.

[Andii12]

Yes I’d snitch. I could never sit back and let my best friend do that to their SO. The guilt and shame I would feel about knowing and not saying anything would be too much. If I was being cheated on I’d hope that someone told me too

[SarahVanRensburg]

If she wouldn't tell her boyfriend then I will. Why? Because if I knew she cheated and I never said anything then I'm just as bad as her.

[InTimoreDei]

THANK YOU. All these girls saying "not my problem". And as you said, yes, it is actually their problem if they allow such a thing go on. Makes them just as much a culprit as the cheater themselves.

[pervertedjester]

My friends know better than to put me in that spot. Because I hate cheaters and will tell. Especially when leaving them is infinitely easier in the first place.

[BeHappy1985]

Really glad we're not "friends" :)

[ThisDudeHere]

@BeHappy1985 that also sounds like you're the type to cheat. Cheaters are undeserving of friends anyway.

[BeHappy1985]

@ThisDudeHere that would be a misinterpretation. I said what I said because the guy clearly never heard of the bro code and sounds like your basic snitch. I have two really close friends, I know both of them since the age of 3. One of the reasons our friendship will last a lifetime is because we can trust eachother, we know we can tell eachother anything and that things said will stay between us and never be used against us. This is what friendship is. Ruining your friends relationship because long long time ago some girl cheated on you and you felt hurt and now you "hate cheaters" is what a weakling snitch does not a friend.

[ThisDudeHere]

@BeHappy1985 wrong, the cheater is the weakling here.

[BeHappy1985]

@ThisDudeHere you know nothing of life, nothing of human behaviorism or psychology. You think you might be worth more with your current viewpoint, but in reality you're best to be avoided. Take care kid.

[ThisDudeHere]

@BeHappy1985 I could say the same back at ya

[BeHappy1985]

But you're the one who is proud of not being trustworty. Thats the bottom line.

[BeHappy1985]

Your "solution" to someone being untrustworthy is being untrustworthy yourself. How does this make any sense? How does this make you a good person? Hypocrisy.

[ThisDudeHere]

@BeHappy1985 how does it make me a good person to knowingly let a person waste their life away with someone who's undeserving of them?

[BeHappy1985]

I'm glad you finally know you'd make a shitty friend. My work here is done.

[pervertedjester]

@BeHappy1985

[ChiPaPa]

@BeHappy1985
The only shitty friend in this conversation is you.

[ThisDudeHere]

@BeHappy1985 lol throws an ad hominem instead of reporting back. Indeed there's no point to this.

[BeHappy1985]

@all y'all

[BeHappy1985]

@ChiPaPa

[BeHappy1985]

[BeHappy1985]

[BeHappy1985]

[BeHappy1985]

Backstabbing motherfuckers.

[ThisDudeHere]

@BeHappy1985 immoral shit

[BeHappy1985]

@ThisDudeHere Go suck a bag of dicks Brutus.

[GreyEyedGuy12]

Just toss that juvenile ass word
you call snitch out because everyone tells. Let it be your
mother or daughter being cheated on and now all of a
sudden it's not snitching but
the right thing to do...

If any of you claim you wouldn't
say something if it was your
mom being cheated on, you're
a lying sack of 😏👉💩

[yucychan]

I think I would make it very clear to my friend that I do not condone cheating. Do not ask me to lie or cover up for him/her because I won't. And I would prefer not to be friends if he/she forces me to help them cover it up.
That being said, I wouldn't tell on the cheating friend as well. It's really none of my business and they should settle their own relationship issues by themselves.

[laurieluvsit]

It would depend on the circumstances.

Like if a guy is mean and abusive to her, no way.

But if he was good and loyal to her and she did that, then I'm so sure she would remain my friend.

[laurieluvsit]

..."not" so sure she would remain my friend.

[Alice2398]

No I wouldn't it's not my place to call her out on that, I know she would never cheat but if she did I would tell her to end things with the person she was cheating with and that she needs to think about what she's going to do about it and take responsibility for her actions

[genericname85]

i did that before. but only after telling that douchebag that this isn't how one treats a woman (he was my best friend but he treated women like shit). also i had a big crush on her even before they got together so i tried to separate them to at least get her out of my life if i can't be with her.

[latinabutterfly96]

I mean it would suck and I’d feel bad for the guy. It has happened before, but I decided not to tell him. He never ended up knowing, and it was weighing down my conscience. I never told him at all, but it really sucks that he never found out and remained that way.

[latinabutterfly96]

(They broke up years ago btw)

[Anonymous]

No. The fact that we are best friends would mean that I would keep her secret out of loyalty, no matter how much I disapproved. If we were just friends who weren’t that close, i might tell only if I felt bad for the guy and thought he deserved to know.

[ShortCircuit]

If I am aware of someone cheating, I have a moral duty to inform the victim. I don't give a flying fuck who they are. If I lost my best friend, so be it. I don't associate with decadents anyway.

[CarpetDenim]

Amen

[chrisbigman]

If people aren't willing to be honest, then what kind of friendship do you really desire? I'd rather not be friends with someone who's intentionally deceptive more often than not. The term 'snitch' is used by deceptive people, and typically are people that are trying to get away with doing wrong. Once again, I'd rather not be around people like that.

[CarpetDenim]

Yes I would, and I wouldn’t be upset about losing a friendship with somebody that mistreated their partner like that

[Crystal28]

It depends, but I probably would. I wouldn’t even want to associate myself with a person who could mistreat and use another person like that. Also shows that if he or she could do that to someone else, they will eventually do it to me.

[JayQu]

I would tell them they need to come clean or end it.

[RyanChapman]

I treat everyone equally so watch out.
I'm nobody's "Best friend."
I might not tell his woman that he cheats, but I might go ahead and steal her from him and not feel anything about it because he's a cheater anyway.

[ThisDudeHere]

A person's right to know that they are wasting their life away with a cheater outweighs the friendship I may have with someone who is evidently a piece of shit anyway.

[11110000bbbb]

Yes absolutely first I'd confront the person that cheated.
and tell them that if they don't tell them,
I would but It would only be for the good for the both of them.

[kira992]

I would tell her first that i will tell her boyfriend she cheated. I don't want be friends with a cheater anyway. I can't sit idle by when I know something wrong is going on.

[Ponycargirl12]

No, I wouldn't "snitch". But, I don't condone cheating whatsoever. So, I would absolutely talk to my best friend and strongly encourage him/her to confess to his/her significant other.

[Porcelaine]

Probably not, it's not my place and she/he should be the one to tell it. But if the person who is getting cheated on is also my friend I might tell them if the cheater did not confess for long enough.

[Anonymous]

I mean, if it's early enough (like, say, four months) in the relationship for the cheated party to not feel as devastated as (s) he may if (s) he finds out a year into the relationship, I'd feel pretty obligated to inform her/him before then.

Plus, it'll keep her/him from catching STDs; and if said friend of mine would do that to her/his partner, why knows if (s) he'd do something to screw *me* over?

[Opinion Owner]

Voted 'yes', but unless my friend's partner was abusive or the scenario's morally complex in some other way, I wouldn't.