Would you snitch on your best friend if he/she cheated?

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I personally wouldn't

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I would tell my best friend that it is messed up to what they are doing and sit down with them and really find out why they are going that Route, So really depends on why they are doing it , even though i am against it I would try to be there for my best friend no matter what and tell them what they are doing is wrong and that they will eventually get caught if they dont end it or talk to their partner and confess. Even though part of me would want to snitch it's really none of my business, i been down this Route before with friends cheating and when I got myself involved i ended up being the asshole for getting involved , i know Its messed up but your best to just be a friend and help them by guiding them the right way. We all do stupid shit at times and all we can do is learn off of are mistakes

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

Depends. So i dunno.

I would never go behind my bestfriend tho so i would tell him that i will tell if he don't.

But it all depends on the situation of why he cheated and if he want's to stay with he and just forget it ever happend or if he don't really show any remorse so yea all depends.

I am loyal to a fault so i would be fair and never go behind his back, but if he did something wrong i am gonna call him out on that shit.

Also if he was bestfriend i guess i would know his girlfriend who he cheated on so it depends on that as well and what she is like.

Andii12 · Accepted Answer

Yes I’d snitch. I could never sit back and let my best friend do that to their SO. The guilt and shame I would feel about knowing and not saying anything would be too much. If I was being cheated on I’d hope that someone told me too

SarahVanRensburg · Accepted Answer

If she wouldn't tell her boyfriend then I will. Why? Because if I knew she cheated and I never said anything then I'm just as bad as her.

pervertedjester · Answer

My friends know better than to put me in that spot. Because I hate cheaters and will tell. Especially when leaving them is infinitely easier in the first place.

GreyEyedGuy12 · Answer

Just toss that juvenile ass word
you call snitch out because everyone tells. Let it be your
mother or daughter being cheated on and now all of a
sudden it's not snitching but
the right thing to do...

If any of you claim you wouldn't
say something if it was your
mom being cheated on, you're
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yucychan · Answer

I think I would make it very clear to my friend that I do not condone cheating. Do not ask me to lie or cover up for him/her because I won't. And I would prefer not to be friends if he/she forces me to help them cover it up.
That being said, I wouldn't tell on the cheating friend as well. It's really none of my business and they should settle their own relationship issues by themselves.

laurieluvsit · Answer

It would depend on the circumstances. Like if a guy is mean and abusive to her, no way. But if he was good and loyal to her and she did that, then I'm so sure she would remain my friend.

Alice2398 · Answer

No I wouldn't it's not my place to call her out on that, I know she would never cheat but if she did I would tell her to end things with the person she was cheating with and that she needs to think about what she's going to do about it and take responsibility for her actions

genericname85 · Answer

i did that before. but only after telling that douchebag that this isn't how one treats a woman (he was my best friend but he treated women like shit). also i had a big crush on her even before they got together so i tried to separate them to at least get her out of my life if i can't be with her.

latinabutterfly96 · Answer

I mean it would suck and I’d feel bad for the guy. It has happened before, but I decided not to tell him. He never ended up knowing, and it was weighing down my conscience. I never told him at all, but it really sucks that he never found out and remained that way.

Anonymous · Answer

No. The fact that we are best friends would mean that I would keep her secret out of loyalty, no matter how much I disapproved. If we were just friends who weren’t that close, i might tell only if I felt bad for the guy and thought he deserved to know.

ShortCircuit · Answer

If I am aware of someone cheating, I have a moral duty to inform the victim. I don't give a flying fuck who they are. If I lost my best friend, so be it. I don't associate with decadents anyway.

chrisbigman · Answer

If people aren't willing to be honest, then what kind of friendship do you really desire? I'd rather not be friends with someone who's intentionally deceptive more often than not. The term 'snitch' is used by deceptive people, and typically are people that are trying to get away with doing wrong. Once again, I'd rather not be around people like that.

CarpetDenim · Answer

Yes I would, and I wouldn’t be upset about losing a friendship with somebody that mistreated their partner like that

Crystal28 · Answer

It depends, but I probably would. I wouldn’t even want to associate myself with a person who could mistreat and use another person like that. Also shows that if he or she could do that to someone else, they will eventually do it to me.

JayQu · Answer

I would tell them they need to come clean or end it.

RyanChapman · Answer

I treat everyone equally so watch out.
I'm nobody's "Best friend."
I might not tell his woman that he cheats, but I might go ahead and steal her from him and not feel anything about it because he's a cheater anyway.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

A person's right to know that they are wasting their life away with a cheater outweighs the friendship I may have with someone who is evidently a piece of shit anyway.

11110000bbbb · Answer

Yes absolutely first I'd confront the person that cheated. and tell them that if they don't tell them, I would but It would only be for the good for the both of them.

kira992 · Answer

I would tell her first that i will tell her boyfriend she cheated. I don't want be friends with a cheater anyway. I can't sit idle by when I know something wrong is going on.

Ponycargirl12 · Answer

No, I wouldn't "snitch". But, I don't condone cheating whatsoever. So, I would absolutely talk to my best friend and strongly encourage him/her to confess to his/her significant other.

Porcelaine · Answer

Probably not, it's not my place and she/he should be the one to tell it. But if the person who is getting cheated on is also my friend I might tell them if the cheater did not confess for long enough.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean, if it's early enough (like, say, four months) in the relationship for the cheated party to not feel as devastated as (s) he may if (s) he finds out a year into the relationship, I'd feel pretty obligated to inform her/him before then.

Plus, it'll keep her/him from catching STDs; and if said friend of mine would do that to her/his partner, why knows if (s) he'd do something to screw *me* over?

ChiPaPa · Answer

Yeah, I hate people like that. I'd end the friendship, too. Filthy fucking degenerate.

Anonymous · Answer

one of the biggest regrets of my life till this day

Mantinziza · Answer

None of my business, no sense in adding fuel to the fire, they will figure there own shit out in time. Not my problem

Aleera · Answer

No, I haven't. I have placed my opinion on it (meaning I find it morally unethical etc) but I didn't snitched on her.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I prefer to stay out of grown folks business. Its wrong and I would let her know that but I prefer to let the universe handle this one

Grl2live_nlearn4u · Answer

it would depend on the situation how i felt about them but im not a snitcher

hahahmm · Answer

No. I will not lie for the cheater but I also won’t out them.

pootytangg · Answer

Snitching for 1000 alex! Cheating causes mental trauma. I'm also beating her ass.

emmily2396 · Answer

It depends. If the guy is about to marry her or they are trying to have a kid i would tell him for sure.

cluelesgrace · Answer

no but i kinda wanna get w my friends boyfriend is that bad

MyExperience · Answer

No. While I might advise my friend on being honest and respectful towards his woman, I won’t be the cause of her heartache. That’s on him.

Jackofblades96 · Answer

I personally wouldn't and haven't. But i told him that he should probably tell her himself

eyeless_jack · Answer

hell naw, just take out your eye drops of unsee and forget aobut it. theyre your bestfriends.

Servus09 · Answer

I stay out of other people's business unless they ask for my opinion. Voluntarily getting involved in a failing relationship would just put me in the middle of it. Fuck that!

brittslitt · Answer

A persons relationship is a sticky one. you can snitch but the person you snitched to doesn't always believe you. So I'd stay out of it and away from the cheating friend

TheSikuu · Answer

Fuck that's a tough one... I mean, I wouldn't be friends with someone like that to begin with, so I'll hopefully never be in that position.  But, if it did happen I'd have to dump that friend

jackyn01 · Answer

I did and she whoped my ass so I'll never again snitch

AynonOMouse · Answer

No, but I'd stop being friends with them and wouldn't trust them anymore if they were that kind of person.

Syrian_survivor · Answer

Yup, they wouldn't be my best friend anymore if they cheated anyway

BeHappy1985 · Answer

No I would not, I never involve myself into other people business. It's up to them what they decide to do with their life. All I care about is how they treat me.

humanearth · Answer

No I won't! You just don't fuck with the bro code. Carma will bite back one day

banditobabe · Answer

I would if he was good to her and loyal. I’d want to know if my partner is cheating on me.

Tinnamar · Answer

I wouldn't approve but I wouldn't tell her partner either.

Pink2000 · Answer

I’d throw hints like hey you know you could do better than... I’d say it in a joking way.

crazy8000 · Answer

Not my mess. But I'm gonna keep my distance from that person until they clean up the mess no matter who did start it.

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

No I wouldn’t if I’m not close to their partner. I wouldn’t help them cheat, just keep my mouth shut

Anonymous · Answer

I'd urge them to break the news themselves first but if they don't I definitely would.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex made me keep quiet about her best friend cheating on our friend. Never again.

Anonymous · Answer

nope. has nothing to do with me. wouldn't approve, but not my problem.

DiegoO · Answer

No, then I would be blamed for everything. Fuck that, make them manage their own garbage.

justcurious2019 · Answer

if i had a best friend i would tell them it's a sign of respect

Demetra89 · Answer

No cause I’d have my best friends back regardless. What she does she cheated before I said nothing.

Guanfei · Answer

Yes. There are things I don't accept in general, and even less from someone close.

Anonymous · Answer

No bros before hoes always there is a gender war going on gotta stick together

ivanhunterjo · Answer

I am keeping my nose out of other people's business

missanna22 · Answer

Never ever. I know a lot, things I probably shouldn't know but I will never tell. Over my dead body

Anonymous · Answer

That would pretty much make you the worst friend ever.

Anonymous · Answer

I got a simple answer Yes Yes I would Because FUCK cheaters

Tyliah · Answer

No snitches get stitches

Anonymous · Answer

I would call them on out on it in a best friend’s way.  But no. It’s their business.

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