Imagine you catch your best friend cheating on their partner, do you tell on them?

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Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

If my bestfriend was cheating I would go over there punch him, tell him to get his shit together and pick who he actually wants to be with. And if he don't I am going to say something because it's not good for her nor him.
People say it's loyal to not say anything but that's opposite of loyal. What benefit does it bring your friend to be stuck with someone he ain't loyal to, tbh by him not been loyal he probably don't deserve someone else's loyalty but I would be anyway.

Also his girlfriend is cool, she's also a friend to me just by been with him. Then honestly if he hated me for doing this he wasn't my bestfriend in the first place, but I know already he would do the same thing back lol.

Been loyal is not just about keeping secrets it's also about been honest with then and keeping things straight and helping them make a better choice for themselves. If anything I would be a bad friend to pretend it's not a problem.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

My best friend is him I presume and she's just some chick I'm not fucking. She could get hit by a car for all I care.

Imagine you catch your best friend cheating on their partner, do you tell on them?

I hope she cries if she ever finds out about it. I will light candles and laugh and laugh while I eat my chicken tendies meal... they're shaped like dinosaurs. Me and him will talk about him cheating... and laugh very hard about it and then take our shots and sips of our drinks.

The girl he cheated with... I'll probably bang her too. That way we can be Eskimo brothers. His chick is getting fat anyway, and I hear she's very bad with money. Bitch deserves to be cheated on.

Now I'm going to unzip my pants and wait for someone to be triggered... I know how to shut them up... stuff something in their mouth.

YesterdaysChild · Accepted Answer

If she was my best friend, we could certainly be honest with each other, so I would tell her that for the sake of her marriage she had better end this tryst. I'm sure I would know her husband too, so would also be friends with him and wouldn't want to see him hurt. So, I would tell her to end it, but leave it up to her whether she wanted to tell her husband if she chose to. And I would tell her that if she didn't, I would have to tell him myself. Now if that ended our friendship then I apparently didn't know her, and she had no regard for me as her best friend. But that decision would be on her. At worst, she would lose us both and wind up with her cheater. And you know how that goes. If someone cheats on their mate and winds up with the cheater, he/she will probably cheat on them too, eventually.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

No I wouldn’t tell on my best friend, granted neither of my closest friends would ever do that to someone. In that situation I would probably tell them that they are wrong, need to stop, and to be honest with their partner. I don’t want to end up being a part of someone’s deception

Finchie40 · Answer

No , but I would make it clear to my best friend that it was wrong for them to do and tell them they should really reconsider the relationship they are in and make it clear to them that they truly don’t love and value their partner if they can cheat on them.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, but I would encourage my friend to either end his relationship or break up the affair and confess his unfaithfulness to his partner.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, but I would mention to my friend that I saw them.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am not a moral police.

NathanDavis · Answer

if these are actually, my best friends... then it is them who are going to get a word from me, lol... and yes, I would tell them to right the wrong situation or I might have to do it

now... I would only do this because my best friends have been very close for many years, even as long as 20 years... and because I know their partners (some longtime and some have children) and I am also close with them so I do care for all of them alike

and also because if they were doing something so uncharacteristic of them, it could be a sign of something deeper that is going very wrong too...

I would also expect my best friends to do similar if I were cheating, especially if I were cheating on someone they know well and care for...

I could even get my ass kicked, lol

lily_of_the_valley · Answer

It depends on how close I am with the best friend. With some of my closest friends, I would probably confront them about it and tell them to stop and/or break up with their partner if they aren't interested in them anymore. If they aren't my "partner in crime," I'd probably tell their partner that they're cheating. Either way, my best friend would be in the wrong for cheating, so the more ethical thing to do is to tell their partner. That being said, you might risk your friendship. It depends on what's more important to you.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

If I know their SO pretty well, I might inform them... But, if I didn't then, there's nothing much I can do.. But SMH and talk to my best pal about being faithful maybe..

MissStrawberry912 · Answer

I’d be a little shook and sad to find that out…. I probably ask what made them do it and hear from their perspective. Then, I’d discuss with them how it’s morally not okay and unfair to their partner. But I know at the end of the day, it’s people choice… you can only be there and help with what you can even if you don’t agree.

loveslongnails · Answer

You talk to your best friend about it if you think you must, and you don't tell their partner. That's not your place. You choose your own actions regarding your relationship with  your best friend , but you mind your own business when it comes to  their relationship.

Biancam13 · Answer

No, I wouldn't. That's my best friend. But if their partner asked me and their partner was my friend too, I wouldn't lie for them. I would ask them to ask my friend and say I'm not getting involved.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Probably not. But would strongly encourage them to come clean. And would probably think less of them as a person. If they can treat a partner like that they can treat anyone anyway. How can you trust them with anything?

molonski2 · Answer

Sht are you kidding?

Its none of my business , I'm not calling it in. I had a mate who would have slept with at least 55 women while he was married , I'd be calling up every other day. Thats not my business.

spartan55 · Answer

I had this actually happen, sort of. Me and a buddy were at a baseball game and saw another buddies girlfriend at the game... with a different dude. I texted him immediately.

Valdemort · Answer

I would tell my friend to end their relationship or tell them and work things out, because I'm not going to lie when I'm asked by the other party if I know anything.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I wouldn't because her partner is sometimes crappy towards her. But I'm sure if she didn't want him anymore she'd break up with him instead of cheat (she's my friend so I'd know).

Julie4 · Answer

One of the worst situations that could happen. But I guess I won't say anything. It's up to the person to have enough courage and honesty to confess everything.

Altheavas · Answer

It’s actually none of my business. I would talk to my best friend about my thoughts of the situation. But my mouth is sealed!

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I would talk to my friend but wouldn't take any action. It's their life, and I shouldn't interfere

JacobJordan · Answer

Not my life but I won't be friends with that person anymore. For all I know they could be in a relationship where they are okay with their partner being with someone else.

SphynxUK · Answer

No, it’s not my place. I would let my friend know how disappointed I was in them though. I wouldn’t lie or be an alibi to help cover them either.

HawkPerception · Answer

Honestly, no. I know it's the right thing to tell on them, but I guess I'd feel like I just wouldn't want to get involved in any drama.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Of course not.  My loyalty is to my best friend, not their partner. All I can do is give them my opinion if they ask 🤷‍♀️

TaureanBull81 · Answer

No I wouldn't tell on them however you'd Iike to think that they'd have a conscience and cum clean about their extra curricula activities to their partner.

sage2021 · Answer

Since I hate cheater's, yes I would blow their cover and tell.

EmmaMary · Answer

Absolutely not... I quite simply wouldn't want to be a part of any of it.

its01ashi2001 · Answer

No, but i will definitely make sure to make her understand that she is wrong and she should stop it.

exitseven · Answer

No, I always have his back. I would voice my disapproval but it really is none of my business anyway.

lilBigPotato · Answer

I can tell her my opinion but other than that it's none of my business

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

No but I have actually separated from people because if this reason.

esaalme · Answer

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Christoff92 · Answer

You know cheating and adultery is a thing that can't be tamed.

12karen · Answer

No but I'll tell my bff that is wrong and must stop

jahaims · Answer

I'd tell their spouse then stop being friends with them. I don't associate with trash.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

No. I'd have a 6alk with him but in the end it's his life.

LiamJHayden · Answer

In my case, no, but I will lecture her on it.

iFarted · Answer

No, but I'd talk to em to figure out why'd they do that. Not cool.

Willoughby23 · Answer

No, It’s none of my business and Im not ruining my friendship for that. Also Im typically not that close to my friend’s partners.

Anonymous · Answer

You would have to be THE shittiest best friend in the world do to that!

ThebestIndian · Answer

I would talk to my friend and try to bring them out of it

Anonymous · Answer

Not my story to tell. But I would tell my friend that I know how naughty she is.

RageBabe · Answer

No, but I would advise them to stop.

Thestupidusername · Answer

Ofcourse. I'm loyal.

Tim2nice · Answer

No. Not my business

RingOfFire · Answer

No... it is their business not yours.

rosemilk · Answer

absolutely!

Kelly6 · Answer

no never get involved

he-takes-a-part · Answer

I would rather join and make it as big as possible

DreamLife7 · Answer

I mind my business 🤷🏽‍♀️

msc545 · Answer

Of course not. I'm a friend, not a cop.

jjj101010 · Answer

No what kind of friend does that

Anonymous · Answer

It's none of my business it's his personal life

In_Trance · Answer

None of my business

vicphilips · Answer

I dont know

Anonymous · Answer

If I have proof

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