I wouldn't be best friends with that kind of person in the first place. I have full trust that my best friends wouldn't do such a thing. However, I was once good friends with a cousin, probably just because he was my cousin, same grade, and we went to school and church together. I literally saw him more than anyone for 6 years of my life, so I guess we were somehow just connected since childhood when I didn't know any better. He became an absolute piece of trash in his adult years, so I don't speak with him anymore. I'm not sure if he took a break with his girl, but if he didn't, then he definitely cheated, and I wouldn't go out of my way to find his girl and tell her, but if I saw her face to face, I would definitely let her know.
Now if for some reason one of my real best friends cheated (not going to happen), it wouldn't be that easy of a decision. Saying it could make my life much more difficult when I didn't need to get involved in someone else's relationship. However, I know I would want someone to tell me if my wife cheated on me. Then again, I wouldn't be with that kind of woman.
I don't believe in the brown code, I do not care how close I am with that friend, cheating is never acceptable, period. I would absolutely tell their partner.
I do my best to avoid getting involved in other peoples relationships and drama, as it's none of my business-
With that being said, I'd happily send an anonymous message to said partner.
... what? I don't care if they are my friends; they cheated, they're getting tattled on!
I would encourage them to be honest and tell their partner.
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I would not tell their partner. I might ask my friend what the hell he was doing screwing around.
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I didn't snitch on either of my friends when they were cheating on their partners with eachother. But i called them out repeatedly and reminded them how in the wrong they were every chance i could get. I told them to stop inviting me places just to witness their bad behavior. It was sickening to be around. Back then no one was married. But now one is married and anytime she considers cheating, i distance myself from her. She asked her husband to invite a third person into the bedroom and luckily he said no. she's like āhe knew how i was before he married meā... like wow
HELL NO ! Its not my business , its nothing to do with me , nothing worse than a lagger , have seen this numerous times over the years , and have never uttered a word...
Remembering a conversation from some years ago " Molonsk , Where you aware that Sue had been fcking ^sHper? Umm honest answer? " Yep " -- answer " Yeah sure did "
answer " You should have told me , I wouldn't have married the slt " , now , just to be clear , he was far far more unfaithful than her , so you'd be constantly running and " lagging " , it would not be a good idea.
I think I would confront my best friend and give him/her the option to come clean first.
If they chose not to or suggested to mind my own business then I would have to say something to their partner. If it ended the friendship, so be it. They are obviously not the person I thought they were.
I can tell you that I have respect for people. If I was being cheated on I hope my friends can be a a friend & tell me so I can have the awareness so I can leave a marriage that is not respected. I would do that for anybody doesnāt matter they have a right to not be with someone that disrespect thier vows.
i have confronted a friend tell her or I will. He didnāt have the balls so I did. No bluff donāt care if your my Freire if your wrong Iāll let you know.
Ignore it... it's my friend doing the cheating. I don't care about a friend's partner. Everybody has reasons and their reason isn't my problem. Now catching someone cheating on my friend might be another matter. I'll take note of the time and date, and observe, I'll mention it to my friend, but I won't be gossipy about it like I'm giving info he didn't know about. ... I mean what if said friend decided to start acting like Cuck Murphy and I just didn't know about it (?_?)
I would have a talk with my friend about it. After our conversation, no matter what he chooses, I would drop it. I voiced my concern and highlighted the potential outcomes. His relationship with his SO is ultimately not my business (I am not an active participant with them).
When I had undisputable proof I would talk to my friend hoping to get them own up to the cheating and if they would not we would no longer be friends. I would not tell the spouse, I'm sure it would be found out soon anyway.
I would tell my buddy what I saw and let him know that he has two options. Either he tells his wife or I will.
No but i would have a very long conversation with my best friend, about what is going on and encourage her to do the right thing
I would be losing a very precious friendship but yes, I would then tell my bff I snitched on him and then I'll just accept what would go with it
It is a quandary when it happens. I resent being involved in it by knowing because it involves me in a breach of trust. At the same time it is not a good idea to get between a guy and girl.
Most likely I would wind down the friendship because I would now know he doesn't have integrity.
Hear no evil, see no evil. I wouldn't get involved in someone else's marriage or divorce.
I would tell them, but I would bring receipts. Itās easy to deny anything if you have no evidence, so I would have to bring evidence
If it happens once, I would wait until my friend and I were chatting and tell them what I saw and how disappointed I was. If it happened again, Iāll tell their partner seeing it as whatās best for both of them.
I would talk to my best friend and be like dude!
If they were my best friend Iād know completely why it was happening.
Well I'd probably get some proof first because I feel like they wouldn't believe me if I didn't have proof like a picture or something
If I caught my best friend cheating on their wife/husband, I would say what I saw and ask whats up?
What happens after that depends on their answer.
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