How much would you rate yourself as a partner (1-10)? And why?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Probably a 7. I'm better than average in a lot of areas, but I am busy due to running a business so I don't have as much free time as women typically like, and I still need some time to myself.

Neckerei · Accepted Answer

Id say im about an 8. I may have social awkwardness and insecurities but i treat you with the love and respect i would want to be treated.

Eleni91 · Accepted Answer

An 8 I’m loyal to fault but I’m kinda demanding but I also demanding of myself.

Peachbae · Accepted Answer

8 because I'm loyal.. The 3 is left out because I get pissed off easily

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Hmm...7. Good, but room for growth and improvement.

I know I'm: supportive, loyal, intelligent, good listener, independent and hard working, not clingy, easy to please, in good shape, good hygiene, and a laid back person with minimal to no drama.

But I also don't put up with nonsense, have major trust issues, and letting people in until they've earned my trust and respect. I'm not sappy or romantic. I'm not submissive or meek; I pretty much handle things as need be on my own (that can be good or bad depending on the person, but it's been a turnoff for most guys I've met), and I have poor self esteem, particularly my looks based on past bad luck. Working on changing the latter by exercising and learning to appreciate myself more 🙂

I won't say a guy would be lucky to have me, but he could do worse, lol

Apope16 · Answer

With a car? A 9. Without a car like currently? 7.

BluesheepOwl · Answer

I'm good looking/ have a nice body, I am supportive, I would remember the small things like a guy telling me in two weeks on the 9th he's getting his oil changed and I would text him like, "How was your oil change?" Lol, I would comfort him too and encourage him to not hold back when he's sad like a guy feeling ashamed to cry i would never judge him and would prefer him to show his real emotions, encourage him to do great things and motivate him to pursue his passions, I am faithful and loyal.
There are some bad things about me though... I am waiting for marriage and that is usually always a deal breaker for most guys. I am independent and I like to have space. If we got married he would need to sign a prenup. I would be cool signing a prenup too. Also I would like to take the relationship slow.

That's it. So I would rate myself a 7/10

rgb008 · Answer

I'd say I'm a 7 or 8.
I'm loyal to the point where it can be harmful to my well being (proven in the past lol). I care too much about other people's emotions and making them happy first, which again, can end up hurting me (also proven in the past lol). I think I'm a great communicator. If somethings wrong I'm gonna say it. I don't know, I just feel like I'm very maternal and enjoy taking care of the people I love/love me back. It's a side few people see of me.
But I mean, I'm a human being and have my moments where I act like a moody moron.

aicarg · Answer

I'd say a solid 8.
- I'm a relatively good communicator and am reasonable in working situations out
- I'm a good planner in arranging down time to have a date or go for an outing
- I'm thoughtful and fairly giving
- I know how to space out time between us for personal time/time with friends/family
- I'm loyal and will stick up for you infront of others, but I will call you out if you're in the wrong when it's just the two of us
- I'm fairly supportive - I don't put my man down and I push him to be the best version of himself in all areas of his life
- I'm healthy, clean, physically fit

I do however have my flaws in being distant when I'm overwhelmed. I also place family before my boyfriend and tell them that unless I'm married to him, that's how it is.

Sweetascandy1990 · Answer

I would say a 10. I give it my all when I'm in a relationship. I've been called wife material due to my commitment, loyalty and other character qualities that I have proven myself on a consistent basis. I was there for an ex when he had no job nor a car. I loved him and it wasn't about the money. Unfortunately, these men took me for granted and were abusive. I chose the wrong men to be wifey. I'm saving myself until marriage as well, so they didn't value that. I'm taking a long break from dating, but I hope that the next man I date will value me, give me their 100% commitment and see me as a 10 because I know what I can offer <3

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Let's see...
Personality:
Best qualities: Joyful, honest, loyal, optimistic, logical, super loving and caring
Worst defects: Not down to earth and I forget things easily

Body:
Best qualities: green eyes, tall, muscular, not super buffed but muscular
Worst defects: proiminent adams apple and a not very serious case of winged scapula

Assets:
Best qualities: I have a steady job, I have a car and I have my own house
Worst defects: I an in the beginning of my carreer so I don't make that much

I would give myself a 7/10

Vanillachoc88 · Answer

Maybe a 6...
Happy with my physical appearance, I’m confident in my own body. But the guys don’t like the girl who drink beer, smoke weed, like cars, swear too much, very blunt, independent and strong. I work in a very masculine environment 🤷🏻‍♀️
That’s just the surface though, I’m very cuddly and romantic. But have some serious trust issues towards men in general. So I’m basically the perfect man’s best friend which drives me insane. And FFS, don’t call me “mate”... 🤦🏻‍♀️

morimeme1 · Answer

Probably 7, because despite being very loyal, loving and caring most of the time I can randomly become pretty detached and want to be alone, I'm often quite busy with my studies as well as demanding towards both myself and others, I don't express my emotions openly yet sometimes tend to be overly emotional about weird things and when i try to hide that it can make my partner feel bad.

Price511 · Answer

7. I have good enough looks, but I am an honest and caring partner that will stick with you even on your darkest days. I won't run from responsibility if any problems arise, and I only love the girls for who they are, not what they might be.

That being said... I have a few... "Quirks." I am renowned as a dancer, instrument player, and as an... Oddball, of sorts.

LuWe22 · Answer

Let's see...
Personality:
Best qualities: funny, honest, loyal, realistic, logical, caring
Worst defects: A bit pessimistic and shy

Body:
Best qualities: blue eyes, short, skinny, nice boobs and ass
Worst defects: glasses, very bad eyes, not perfect white teeth

Assets:
Best qualities: I have a steady job, I have a car, I have money saved
Worst defects: I am in the beginning of my carreer so I don't make that much yet

I would give myself a 6/10

Anonymous · Answer

Probably like... a 7 or 8 out of ten. I’m loyal and I love with my whole heart, I’ll do anything for you, I cook and I clean, but loving someone while you struggle with untreated (that I am going to get treated soon, going to therapy) can make things hard., I overreact, I overthink CONSTANTLY. I am paranoid. I’m clingy. I always apologize and I wouldn’t say I’m abusive but I definitely can be a lot to handle. I’m grateful my boyfriend supports me and knows when I’m having a moment.

SugarLeaf · Answer

1 because you didn't allow a 0.
I get tired of people in 3 kisses and never felt in love. An innocent angel at first, untill you realize I can be the worst. Also I'm not really good at cooking, but I'm good f*cking. A poetry disaster.

anonnnyguy · Answer

Probably pretty rubbish honestly. Dunno if I could take the proper time out from everything else to sustain a relationship like that. Depends on the person I guess, how much we each need from it, and how priorities'd change along with it.

lovely44 · Answer

It depends on the other partner too, if he is loyal then I will be thinking about him everytime and if he is not loyal or rude to me then I will start to be the same.

Celtero · Answer

3. No car, don't put much effort into my appearance, not much money, not very physically attractive, not the type of macho personality women want, not willing to do romantic shit if she doesn't deserve it.

Timelesswisdom · Answer

I'm about a 7-8, I have to take points off because I am poor and eccentric (which can be taken as good or bad or a mixture of both) and have a heart problem, but the rest is pretty ok, if I do say so myself.

Finchie40 · Answer

I would say i am a 9 considering no one is perfect , but when i get into a committed relationship i Love the way i want. to be loved in return

MissKittyz · Answer

I'd say a 7. I do think I'm a very good partner, however, if I'm having a very bad day or something pisses me off, I can be very mean to my partner and then feel incredibly bad about it later on :/

Definitely · Answer

I wouldn't rate myself, but I do whatever I can for the one I love in order for us to grow together, improve ourselves and become better for each other.

James_Frnkn · Answer

I’d say 8.5. My girlfriend and I always try to go out at least once a week and everyday/couple of days when we fuck, I make sure to do the things she likes as well! 😂

Mickey9999 · Answer

I’d say 7-8. Attractive, honest, open, affectionate, learn from my mistakes, confident, not jealous, enjoy new things, know he and I need our own time and hobbies and friends, etc

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

8. I am usually very affectionate and loving to a guy i love. But apparently something must be up because of all the stupid dudes I've dealt with.

Adrianna7868 · Answer

6 maybe 7. I can acknowledge that I'm good looking, but I'll never be as good looking as some of the others out there.

SelfishGuy · Answer

My rating doesn't matter to me. No matter how much effort we put in. It's the partners rating that matters to me.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

I give myself a 7. I’m a good communicator, I’m not clingy, and I’d like doing little things like backrubs and baking cookies for him.

yucel_eden · Answer

7. A partner who is perfect is a relationship doomed to fail.  We have to have flaws to complete each other. That way no individual is higher in a relationship, the relationship is the higher body

JSmuve · Answer

To be determined, but probably not high. I'm an effective communicator but I don't communicate very often. I need my space and am easily annoyed when I don't get it. I'll listen to you complain about your day or how your bitch boss was being a bitch, but I can only do it for so long before I'd wish you'd stop. I don't have patience for immaturity and get bored easily.

Alice2398 · Answer

I'd say I'm a pretty loyal, loving, fun person to be around. I like to lift peoples spirits and work hard to make them happy. I'd give myself 7.5/10

Hurlyburly · Answer

About 7. I'm doing my best but I'm far from perfect 😅

Giggletr0n · Answer

7/10 - I do all the domestic work, 80% of the child care and I have a fulltime job so I provide well but I can be prick a lot of the time just because I am always honest and she hates it!

emmily2396 · Answer

I don't know but I would probably date someone like me if I was a guy.

Nomatterwhere · Answer

Probably 1 or 2. I have a bad personality, I am shy, I don't speak a lot, people describe me as unfriendly and too honest.

Looks: Not attractive at all, pople tell me that I won't find a girlfriend and that I should stay alone.

anaverageavocado · Answer

an 8 i think, I get points deducted for being a ball of anxiety haha

menina · Answer

I'd say 3. I'm full of flaws, I'm ugly and I'm unpleasant.

elizalove · Answer

9. I cook, clean, work out, raise a family, have a degree, have a career, have my own house and car, and I used to model bikinis. Only thing is I get upset if I get told no in bed

dtweed96 · Answer

I would rate myself as 7 I'm sincere, honest most of the time , and I don't cheat I just give honest facts of whether its really over or if it even really started

princessfromjupiter · Answer

You can’t objectively rate yourself as a partner lmao that’s ridiculous

Ultimate_Gohan · Answer

The fact that I've never had a partner tells me im below 1

Massageman · Answer

7-8. As long as I don't have to worry about European Literature, I'm pretty good in most other areas. ;- )

Jerre · Answer

Most of theirs I have been with like me for my personality, my looks and fun to be around - soprobably a7/8. However that rate my cock a 10+ so that may raise the overall score to a 8/9.

dragoblack · Answer

6 or 7. I'm loyal, honest, and would rather talk things out than fight. I'm caring, affectionate, considerate, and cuddly... but i have bad anxiety thoughts and self-loathing issues

Anonymous · Answer

Lol, not surprised at all many people are brave enough to rate themselves 8 +. The proverbial wishful thinking.

ClearCyan · Answer

I'm about an 8 probably. Everyone has their issues.

Spense · Answer

7 1/2, I can be a hopeless romantic, but at the same time, I can be clingy and annoying.

cth96190 · Answer

I must be a crap partner, certainly in the view of women, because every female with whom I formed a relationship kicked me to the kerb and threw herself crotch first at a sociopathic bad boy.
At least my cats and dogs want to sleep with me. 😻

Walse · Answer

I give myself a 1. Funny that's the amount of partners i have had and she broke up with me for liking sparkling water which I thought was a bit harsh

Liam_Hayden · Answer

6. I am a lot of funny, but I do not believe in marriage or in living together, so that always seems to cause a rift eventually

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

People tell me I'm a total catch so I'm guessing 9 probably. But it's suspicious cause I'm still single.

Anonymous · Answer

Like 5. I am great and all, just get bored easily in a relationship and tend to cheat

TonyBologna25 · Answer

I feel like I’m a strong 8. Not perfect, but pretty close. 😎

thechesseman · Answer

1. Other than breeding and monetary purposes I'm not a very good partner.

es20490446e · Answer

If I can make squirt out of jokes, it should be for a reason.

Texaskid1 · Answer

I would rate myself as the most awesome partner to ever walk the face of the Earth. End of story.

clampfan101 · Answer

I have no experience, but feel I have almost everything I’d need to be a strong one.

Lance1965 · Answer

I would rate myself very low, maybe a 4 or 5 on a good day. At my worst I am no more than a 1 or 2.

agamo · Answer

Maybe a five because I tend to be very self-seeking.

dy8alexUk · Answer

10 as I know it's about trust and wanting best for each other

Anonymous · Answer

7. I'm not a bad partner but I have my moments as does he. You can't be perfect

pete71 · Answer

I would rate myself 9 because I would do anything to help out in a relationship I would always put my partner first and love and respect her through thick and thin

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