Are you a jealous woman/man? If so, how do you deal with your jealousy?

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aicarg · Accepted Answer

My sense and measure of jealousy speaks to me as a measure of how precious my relationship is with my boyfriend, it's in no way about me distrusting him but more so pulling him closer to me.

However him and I have set our boundaries and have healthy open communication. We care about eachother and put one another's feelings first, so we trust eachother.

Felinegirl · Accepted Answer

I'm not easily jealous, and when I do get jealous feelings I talk about them with my partner. Works well.

geo_logy · Accepted Answer

No Lola, I’m not a jealous man you know 😉 I don’t care if she finds another dude attractive and that she gets the fevers with him, in the end, its me she’s with.

Grond21 · Accepted Answer

No, I am rarely jealous. I try to be emulous instead, which is wanting what the other person has while also being really happy for them that they have it.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes. What’s mine is mine. As long as you keep your claws off my man, we good. As long as my man doesn’t entertain no thirsty hoes... we all good. Or else let’s all stay single 😂

btbc92 · Answer

I do feel jealousy when I feel I'm being wronged. But I am not a jealous person by far. If I tell that person to stop hurting me and they still do it, I rather cut them out of my life. I don't deserve to be hurt. I have a lot of self-control. And don't like jealous people.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I am. If you're gonna look at another girl, dont do it in front of me. If you're gonna touch/hug another girl, dont do it while you're dating me. If you find a celeb woman hot, talk about it with your friends, not me. If you have female friends, do not hang alone with them. I trust you but not them. If you're going to call/text them, please do so in the daytime only because nighttime texts from other females is unnecessary. Nuff said 🤷‍♀️

Vanillachoc88 · Answer

I’m not overly jealous. He’s mine and that’s it 🤷🏻‍♀️
Now if he’s gonna look at other girls don’t do it when I’m here! We all look a little, doesn’t mean anything most of the time 🤷🏻‍♀️
But I’ve always tried to keep a good communication going with my partners and it worked alright. Except the one I caught cheating on me with 2 girls at the same time! 🤦🏻‍♀️

SjE78 · Answer

nope never saw the point in being jealousy or jealous people tbf... I get some why some people claim it can be healthy, but from my perspective it can be unhealthy and damaging to any relationship to be a jealous or overly jealous within any relationship as it can destroy what you have... and come across as you do not trust your partner or they dont trust you

musicloverr8 · Answer

I was jealous with my ex but now I'm not I think you have to have strong feelings for a person to make you feel that way and sometimes they do it just to get a reaction out of you but that's wrong... I'm not jealous anymore because I have adopted the mentality if you don't like me or don't give me enough attention I'm sure someone else will.. or if you like someone else go get them because I don't want someone who wants someone else i want someone who wants me !

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t get jealous very easily, but I’m human and sometimes that can happen. I think if you have a solid relationship and trust your partner then you won’t have a reason to be jealous. In the event that you still get hit by that little green monster, telling yourself some positive affirmations and just distracting yourself with hobbies or other tasks can help.

IisPhil · Answer

yes i am. i try to keep it to myself since there usually is nö reason to be jealous, it's just like being nervous to me, i can't change it but i can mostly ignore it

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, I'm not. I don't like it if a girl tells ME I'm not allowed to have female friends so, I'm not about to tell her SHE can't have male friends! As long as I know she's VERY loyal to me, I'm okay with her having male friends!

ShortCircuit · Answer

I deal with my jealousy by making it a point to find a partner who is equally jealous, so that she is able empathize when I am jealous.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m super jealous tbh. Short and slightly built man no muscle mass, tiny penis. I understand my girlfriend from time to would like to be mangandled by a some stud w horse cock. It’s in her nature & I accept that. She is grateful & although sometimes it kills me she is so beautiful & deserves that. Even if I can’t provide that

House5plusforth · Answer

I just don't believe in love until I get in the real relationship so far the population controls that part against me with slander to keep me out of a relationship , There going to hail , in Cancun.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really. My girlfriend pretends that she never does it but she always ends up commenting on other guys. Always says things about guys on TV. I just find it funny. I'd only be pissed off if she started chatting the guy up or allow him to chat her up, then I'd calmly call her on it. But part of the reason I don't get jealous is because I know for a fact that she never does even when I'm not there. If anything she acts like a complete bitch when any guy tries it on.

thatdudewiththeface · Answer

I get jealous fairly easily it's an adequate answer but not for just no reason some girls are just trash like this in the pic? Trashy behavior but I don't get mad I'd just walk off and say that's disgusting get away from me and walk off

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

If she's my girlfriend and I haven't seen any signs of her being alone with other guys I'm just like. "She's my girlfriend not theirs, she's mine for a reason"

megaman242 · Answer

I'm not jealous. even though your in a relationship the world don't stop being beautiful, just because you see someone beautiful and you look at them don't mean you want them.

LuvAsh · Answer

I don't know how many questions post this same picture😂😂😂

JerryReed · Answer

In the case of that pic, I'd be much more concerned with having a retarded girlfriend.

serenitysflowers · Answer

I'm very jealous. I try to control it but it comes naturally.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I am jealous of almost anyone better than me especially in terms of looks.

Keoov · Answer

I don't, if someone wants someone and you don't speak up first then that's on you

anuragk033 · Answer

What is mine is mine that's all🙂

thechesseman · Answer

Nope. Don't care about other people's images.

Rawkstar26 · Answer

No, I'm not really the jealous type.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I know how to function like an adult

EdjuhXL · Answer

I'm totaly not jealous , rather open minded

intjgamer · Answer

Yes. Stay single

Joker_ · Answer

I'm a jealous woman

SpunkNugget · Answer

50 lashes!

shadow_5 · Answer

Simply not

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