The "hoes" are always out there and tend to be easier to get with and/or more aggressively pursue men they are into. This also makes men more attracted to them. As such, they are more likely to be with somebody, even if it is a string of short relationships. The "good girls" are more picky and hesitant, and tend to wait for men to make the first move even if they really like him. As such they are more likely to be single.
If one spends every Friday night at the bars, and the other stays at home watching Netflix at the same time, you can probably guess who will be the first to find a date.
It might seem that way, I see good girls get dudes.. I translate this as... in committed relationships. the "hoes" are corrupting some dudes with FWB's.
There are skills required in dating and relationships, making yourself available.. emotionally, physically.
It's probably hoes with hoes though, yes? I don't follow the media so much. There is Prince William and Kate, that one looks good:) Don't even go into the rap and hip hop scene... lol. No way around it, if a woman plays the "I'm sexy" card, guys perk up, or the "damsel in distress card", they will get guys who want to save them. Women go for the opposite.. the masculine card, I'm rich card. There's a sane medium in there somewhere for normal people. Kinda have to be yourself, but your best self. look at me talk.. I'm single... lol.. I'll get off my 1" soap box:)
You know why? Because most good girls have self respect and real standards! We don't reek of desperation and sleep with any guy that smiles at us or offers to buy us dinner... you know, we have class.
As a result, we require effort and work to get. Boys don't want to put in the time and effort to do that, so they go to something easy... aka, the hoe.
And the good girls? We get a man... eventually! We just have to be patient and wait longer.
... at least that's what I keep telling myself, lol
That's what I wanna on my end as well I try to treat the ladies I care about with genuine love abd respect but it ends in rejection and it her going for a dude that breaker her heart and next thing you know it's every guys fault when it wasn't
Honestly just keep pushing ice made progress in the last few months cause I keep pushing to find that girl that's worth what I got to give and I'm starting to find some girls that might be interested
To be honest I'm kinda a homebody lol I like to go out don't get me wrong but unless the opportunity presents itself I don't really go out my way to go out you know but I should go out more often it would be good for me and you
@Rico12309 Thanks. I think that explains it all. In order to get a husband, you have to not need one. They say the same thing about bank loans. "In order to get a bank loan, you have to prove you don't need it." lol
Haha. Because a good girl has an attitude like she is to good to get down and dirty with her husband in the bedroom. A hoe will at least please her man the best way she can
Only good women and men keep a marriage good. And good women keep running behind bad guys or hot guys or guys with status. They dont stop and realise truth until something nasty happens😂
It's obviously not being a hoe because they aren't keepers. I mean you're misreading the situation. Either your description of yourself is inaccurate/incomplete or your perception of them is inaccurate.
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