I'm the definition of being affectionate. 😂
I'm touchy-feely in general, but when it comes to my boyfriend that's a whole new level! One time (after him being away for more than a month) when we met I was so happy to see him that I jumped in his neck in the middle of the street.
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Yes, the joys of loving someone and being loved in return... <3
I love to shower with my beautiful girlfriend. Would be lots of fun to do after a steamy lovemaking session.
No, I receive more than enough of that and it makes me feel uncomfortable most of the time.
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I wholeheartedly enjoy her compliments, but I also have to feel I've "earned them", and obviously I enjoy compliment her as well.
There was this weird thing in the first months of our relationship where she'd shower me with compliments but act bashful and put herself down if I complimented her back, but got upset if I did the same.
Now we have an healthy balance of giving and taking compliments.I would seriously do this everyday, if he doesn't think little of me
Maybe it is the sorts of women I get involved with, but overwhelmingly they are not affectionate nor complimentary. It catches me completely off guard when they briefly are either or both. It's kind of one of those, "What are you doing/saying?" moments for me where you just smile at them and carry one because I'll be damned if I know how else to respond.
Would I want more? I frankly do not know what I am missing to know what I am missing. I didn't have a warm fuzzies sort of mother either so I truly am oblivious in this area to even begin to know the difference.No, I wouldn't want thousands of compliments from my guy if I had one because I would think that I'm being groomed in some sort of way. Getting showered with compliments 24/7 is not normal and is unsettling as I've read way too many articles on manipulative tendencies. Even if the compliments were with the best of intentions, I would start taking them seriously after a while due to how much he would do it. Respectively, I would do the same with him. The occasional compliment is endearing and sweet, but as with anything, there is a limit.
Yes I love showering with my boyfriend and give him
Lots of compliments in the shower lol
I also would love him to shower me with lots of compliments in the shower as well... okay that was so stupid hahahaa... u get what I mean...
I give compliments freely and lovingly to my SO, my children, one also has to leanr to receive that kind of love... it’s sad when your partner doesn’t receive loving compliments well, then you wonder... it’s one of the very important ingredients in a loving relationship... imaging being with someon in life and no compliments giving?I have a lot of deep-seated issues with rejection and abandonment, so any time somebody (especially a girlfriend) compliments me or shows affection I can never get close to enough of it. My last girlfriend was rather shocked to hear that I craved affection much more than sex, while the opposite was true for her.
Seeing a therapist for ptsd and anxiety. A couple weeks ago we were talking about how to build and keep strong relationships. Turns out that guys in general tend to like being complimented and affirmed. I tend to buy my guy stuff instead of compliments. So she told me I had to replace buying things for him with compliments and affirmations or expressions of appreciation. It’s hard for me to do cuz it feels forced. But I’ve gotta hit 3 Times a day. Lmao. I’m behind...
According to my therapist if you do this as a regular part of your relationship people tend to be more satisfied in their relationship and you see marked improvement in as little as 3 months.1. It would definitely be nice to have a girlfriend so I can actually feel things again
2. It would also be exponentially nicer if the girlfriend that I would have in this hypothetical situation would not do that just so that she could abuse me down the road.
But it’s not like that’s gonna happen anytime soon.My ex wife did. I had a fucked up childhood, so in my head I was ugly as fuck because well I grew up being hated by everyone.
I just couldn’t take a compliment. I didn’t know at the time that my life had given me crazy bad social anxiety. I didn’t believe her when she complimented me.
Turns out I’m not what I think. I’m supposedly very handsome. And I’m still struggling to find out if it’s the truth.Well... the problem is that I can't vote because none of your options fit. The answer is "yes," and it's neither that I can't get enough or that it's sometimes too much. No vote, sorry.
LOL.
I thought we first that you asked, "Do you shower with your boyfriend?"Only if it's genuine. It's like the 'nice guy' routine - they're nice cuz they want in your panties. If your 'showers' are hollow they don't mean much.
Love/respect/attention are the third thing on the top 3 for men. Do you know what 1 and 2 are?if i had a girl friend the things, I liked a lot of was hugging kissing an the little fun moments together an i dont mean mainly the intimate 1s but the 1s that were just good times no stress no sexual needs
I shall shower with gold, a golden shower if you will
I used to get so much compliments, a girl who loves her man, will shower him with love and beautiful feelings.
I am single, but I would love a lot of affection. As long as it is genuine
I freaking adore giving everyone cuddles and cheering people up. If I had a boyfriend, cuddle and kisses all the way. I do compliment occasionally, though less so since I worry how they'll take it.
Actions are what matter. Help you guy and do things for him, don’t blow smoke up his ass.
Of course. He's absolutely gorgeous and he's so smart and I love telling him I feel that way.
I don’t seek approval, however sometimes it’s nice to hear that my significant other finds me attractive or sexy. As for affection my partner is very affectionate/cuddly, any more would be suffocating.
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