If your partner's absence brings you peace, you are in a wrong relationship, true or false?

[Chikky]

[JustCallMeG]

False.. every relationship has good and bad days.. some days you’re excited to go home to them and cuddle on the couch.. other times you want to lock yourself in your room and turn off your phone.
Ps- anyone who thinks that statement is true (period), CLEARLY doesn’t live with their significant other 🤦🏼‍♀️

[StingRayxoxo]

Maybe not the wrong one but it at least needs to be fixed. There's value in spending some time alone. But if their presence makes you so miserable that you find peace when they're not around... that's a problem.

[Preston69]

You are so smart

[StingRayxoxo]

Thanks for MHO

[StingRayxoxo]

Lol thank you @Preston69

[coachTanthony]

My partners absence would bring me longing to see her again.

Unless I am not getting the alone time I need to begin with... then in that case it could bring me some peace. It's best to make sure you have a balanced commitment to having your own space so that you really don't see it as a negative.

[coachTanthony]

Thanks for mHo

[JohnAlaska43]

Not Necessarily sometimes its good to have space. A time to reflect.
I say false.

[ariadneR]

In a loner I like having my space. But I do want someone to come home to, someone that understands that I need alone time, time to be myself. It's not all the time I feel this way, just once in awhile.
That being said if you feel like this is all the time then yes, I do think that something is wrong in the relationship and needs to be looked at and fixed.
Relationships take work. You can't just snap your fingers and make everything right again

[DivaMonae]

Not necessarily... To me that's like asking if your family's absence brings you peace, are you apart of the wrong family?

It all depends on the person being asked that question and the only way I think someone can truly answer would be to ask their self if your partner/family's absence brings you sadness then you're right where and with the people you belong.

[Mermaid1111]

True, although i do love and need time alone sometimes. That brings me peace regardless so it wouldn’t mean being away from that particular person brings me peace. But if you’re always at peace when your boyfriend or girlfriend leaves, then something is wrong.

[lewisbzxxx]

It really depends if you are a person who natural enjoys and appreciates time to themselves, then finding peace in the fact isn’t a sold indicator that the relationship is failing or unhealthy in anyway.

Also it’s relatively normal for those in a relationship that is long term and has spanned many years, to find enjoyment out of time apart, doing “their own thing” and maybe even some degree of peace.

[nithya11]

A personal space in relationships is important. If your partner is clingy and you feel peace when he's not around that's fine. But if he's not around and you feel as if nothing is wrong in the world, then that relationship is definitely wrong.

[MrKinktastic]

If thats all the time then I'd agree. Wanting peace and quiet is pretty normal as long as its not all the time though.

[wingattebaby16]

Not always... sometimes we all need "space" to collect our thoughts.. its why not working with your spouse all day is a good thing.. time apart

[Haelaeix123]

Sometimes a bit of space is good but generally I think if you find it peaceful then it isn't right for you. More often than not you should miss them in their absence not dread their return

[Lance1965]

If you are wanting your partner to go out all the time just to get some peace then you are probably with the wrong person. We all need some space but if you get to the point where you are craving it then something is wrong.

[Lightning8]

I'm conflicted. I felt absolute peace and contentment from my partner before but when I later didn't and longed for her I was seen as codependant, needy and clingy. So...

[Anonymous]

i love to be alone so i will always find peace in the absence of anyone

[Dchrls78104]

If your partner's absence brings you peace while the partner's presence brings problems and apprehension, you are with the wrong person.

[TonyBologna25]

No, a lot of people recharge in solitude. Nothing wrong with that.

[ravagesavage]

False, cuz that means you deserve to be in a nut house

[name_is_eric]

I'm most comfortable alone; in peace. But I still like company, especially someone that is close.
So I disagree with the statement.

[pizzalovershouse]

not always it just mite need time with friends of same sex

[melekarduc]

True. Because if you truly value someone then it’ll be very difficult for you to not see them.

[AdmiralBailey]

I don't ever want to be apart from my nubian Princess
~Mr Bails Extraordinaire

[anononon123]

False... I need space from my parents and siblings, doesn't mean the relationship is strong

[Anonymous]

I wholeheartedly think that is true. My partner’s absence would make me long to see her again.