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It's exist, but there is feeling which is stronger than it --> Fear. Read 1984, it's shown there
1984 is already here and now. George Orwell saw it coming. I see it happening in our everyday lives.
@Unit1 agree
I gotta read that book, I was in HS then. Never read it... maybe cliff notes version.
I would love it to have true love like in fairytales... imagine a handsome gentleman who only wants You, and he’s focused on getting you, and he doesn’t give up on you or look at other girls. XD that would be amazing man
we are not built to love one person. that is why we cheat. look at other girls/boys. flirt with other people. etc.
True love exists, but it’s very complicated and never leads to a good marriage if they marry the day they fall in love. *cough*Frozen*cough*
Not really. Statistically speaking, 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Roses are dead
Love is fake
Weddings are basically funerals with cake
We found it. So did many others as there are plenty of stories of people together for 50 years.
No. Modern women, and especially feminists have worked very hard to destroy all of the things that made it possible in the past. I'm afraid it's gone forever.
What made it possible in your opinion. What’s the perfect recipy for true and lasting love?
@Shutupman Men viewed women as wonderful and special and placed them on a pedestal back then. They were a prize worth sacrificing and working for. But women today are not really like that anymore. They are no longer special. The reward for a man in in winning the heart of a woman and marrying her is not nearly the same as it used to be. Most people today will never have what our grandparents had. That's kind of the bottom line.
Why were women more wonderful? And what made their marriages better?
@Shutupman Back then, a man would go off to his job and work his butt off all day and come home to a wife who had worked all day doing the shopping, keeping the house in order and had prepared a nice dinner for both of them. They relaxed and enjoyed each other's company in the evening. They appreciated and respected each other for the different roles they played in each other's lives.
Today, the man goes off to his job and works his ass off all day and comes home to a wife who also worked her ass off all day and is just as stressed as he is. Chances are he will have to stop on the way home and pick up groceries or some takeout, and when he gets home he may have to make dinner and/or do the dishes, do some laundry, help clean the house, and then they'll fall into bed together exhausted and look forward to another day just like that tomorrow.
My parents BOTH had it great compared to what most people have today. It's not the same, not as rewarding or as enjoyable. The prize is not there for men, and in fact it has been proven that even women are less happy today than they were back before feminism changed everything.
Why were couples happier back then? Because women were women and men loved and appreciated them for being women. And men were men and their wives loved and appreciated them for being men. Today there are no men and women. There are just people with penises and vaginas. There is nothing to appreciate the opposite sex for anymore besides sex. Today there is no respect and admiration for men among women. And women are not women anymore. They do not offer the benefits to men that they used to... just sex.
I'm sorry if that seems harsh but it's true.
YOU ARE A... gotcha didn't I na just kidding I think you hit the nail on the head there with that statement
So you are a traditional man and that’s fine, you voiced your opinion in a very respectful manner. There are still traditional women out there. Definitely less than before.
My parents were like that. My mom stayed at home to take care of us and the household. She cooked every single meal, she washed and ironed and fixed clothes. You get it.
What makes me not want that is very simple.
My mom was entirely financially dependent on my dad. She herself had nothing, no social benefits, no pension, etc
My dad had many hobbies and many friends, they didn’t spend more time together than I do with my husband.
Their relationship was absolutely terrible at times partially because of this power imbalance and partially because they were simply human. But my mom never walked away because she was afraid she and us (the kids) would end up in poverty as she had no financial backup. My dad never walked away cause he was afraid he would lose the kids. It was this viscous circle.
It stressed everyone out and I can assure you we definitely weren’t happier than others. Their dysfunction went on for over 30 years only now are they learning to live with it.
In this day and age it’s extremely hard for just one person to have an income, that has nothing to do with post feminism but everything to do with economics. Seeing how financial issues are the biggest factor in people breaking up it makes sense for both to work.
I can do any household task, I’m a great cook, I work in the yard, put furniture together etc. And, I love working and simply being a part of society. I want to contribute to my relationship financially. Neither me nor my husband are traditional, we split our household chores and work. And we love it like that. We make time for one another and have common activities and have plenty of money to do things with we both enjoy.
I’m just trying to say there is no foolproof way to live life. I’m happy with my life, which I would have not been in a traditional setting.
it does exist. . only if you can find your soul partner
Yes, because even prince and princess will have some fights and arguments off screen!
It does. Real life love stories like my parents 😍❤️🥰
Tell me about your parents.
@Twenty2 My parents fell in love and married. They were against arranged marriage. Now married for 22 years. <3
Quite a short story. I was hoping for something longer.
@Twenty2 I'm not going to write whole paragraph xD
Write a whole paragraph. I want to read!
No those are stories get your head outta the clouds
No, in the fairy tales they only show the good things. Not the drama
No, that's why tons of virgin girls/women end up heartbroken or confused with their first romantic relationship.
*They believe from top to bottom in all the Disney crap.
Yes, true love exists. Depends on when the fairytale ends.
Books are entertaining.
In reality every story will end in trajectory that’s life... but there is still a lot of good along the way.
If it is someone that GOD put you with then it does. Someone that is willing to wait for marriage... yes
Yes but it takes time, challenges and breaks to find the one that's really worthy.
Yes. Because I love someone that way, and she knows it.
If you want a happy ending it only matter where you stop the story
Yes.
Tell me how did the idea of love emerge to be put into words?
No at least not in 2019 we were raised with a mentality of " if it's broke replace it don't repair it "
Damn right. 😑😣
Doubt it. If love did exist like that, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high.
Not exactly like that no. Fairytale love is actually a very selfish and unrealistic expectation.
iam not to sure anymore i get rejected and sumtimes ghosted so i just stay to my self
only if you make it happen, but it takes two people of course.
True love exists but it's nothing as ridiculous as in the fairy tales.
Stories like Cinderella mostly appeal to young adults. But the story of Life could be different !
It does not exist and will never because no real love is shown in these fairy tales, except maybe frozen.
Pumpkins don't make great chariots, if that is what you mean.
No because all men want these days is sex and care only about looks
Ha you think? What about womans... I can sum up some experience with womans. One cheated WITH me. One was pragnent and told me 2 months later. And no she had still a pretty flat belly, one wanted to have a relationship but also wanted to have multiple bed partners.
Sadly no, the only time when you’ll see a guy like that are in movies
Then there's me, who thinks romantic and loving girlfriends are also only in the movies... 😕
I have so many affections to drop on her.
@Unit1 bruh your a freaking weirdo
And this is exactly why you will never find a guy like those from the movies.
😂 he actually is tho, wondering who would want him as a bf? 🤨🤔
@Unit1 if guys in the movies are like you who watches my little pony & beats his meat all the time then no thank you I’m fine
Suit yourselves. These are not my losses.
@Unit1 k weirdo
@Butterfly-x he sounds like one of those guys that still lives with his parents & has collection of cartoon characters
Nah, guys fall in love with girls since the first man gazed upon her beauty and thought "I'll pick that flower for her" and humbly bring it to her... submission! That's the power of woman, to subdue such a beast with her presence. Now actually loving the emotional woman who is there, thats where the fairy tale goes awry,... him not knowing what he's gotten himself into. We need some Disney movies to explain the part after they ride away on the white horse..:)
Like in fairytales?
It's called a fairytale for a reason.
my mom always told that princes runned away with white horses
i think she's right lol
I’m sure it exists but it’s not common at all.
No.
Because real life kicks in eventually.
Nope! Not unless you’re Meghan Markle! Lol
Depends on your definiation true love.
Yeah, of course it does.
Nope there's no such thing as true love
I think so it's hard to find but it there
Probably a grittier version of it does.
Yes, actually.
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~ Mrs Manson
I really wish I had my True Love.
no bc people aren’t perfect
Yes, but people are bad looking for partners.
Im not positive, but I really hope so.
Lol... nope. Its bullshit.
Because real life is not a fairy tale.
Extremely rare to happen in my opinion.
Love doesn’t exist at all. Men are heartless.
That's because a female ripped my heart out and shredded it by ghosting on me and lied to me.
no
real life is cruel
Yes it does if you're lucky
On the basis of appearance. Solely.
That's s fairy tale love, that's not true love!!!
It doesn't exist because people have flaws.
It's both better and worse than fairytales
It exist in fantasies only.
Most of the time I think
Yes, you just have to find the right person.
Not like fairy tales rather it's something else