My boyfriend doesn't want to marry me because of my past? What should I do? (Page 4)

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My boyfriend's is the only man I've ever loved, he helped me through the darkest period of my life and I want nothing more to marry and start a family with him. The problem is one of his friends recognised me and told him about my promiscuous past. My boyfriend has only ever slept with 2 other women, both of who he loved so I kept this hidden from him. He has this idea that marriage with a promiscuous women will fail so has given me an ultimatum. Either I stay with him with the understanding that he will never marry me or we end our relationship. He also says that he has to be upfront with me about the fact that he has reputation for being respectable and that if more people in the future recognize me as "someone they banged" he would break up with me. Leaving is absolutely not an option for me and I've begged him to change his mind but I don't know what to do next. It feels like I have to make an impossible choice.

BeHappy1985 · Answer

Your past is not the reason. Also you're to young for marriage.

CoffeeWC · Answer

A promiscuous past will push certain people like that away.

Fay320 · Answer

Dump him. If he doesn’t like you (nor your past) now, it’s only gonna get worse.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Low point? Sounds like you were having fun without this future kid fucker

Anonymous · Answer

"40+" doesn't sound like a "low point." I would be concerned as well. I think professional couples counseling is needed.

Slim57 · Answer

He's smart. But it'd also be smart for you to find another man who can accept that.

Kdude010 · Answer

He's obviously giving you signs that he wants to end the relationship. I would too.

Anonymous · Answer

He has standards, you don't. Sucks when that whorish past actually "counts."

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sounds like you are shit out of luck.

ivanhunterjo · Answer

He was being a hypocrite to start off with. Leave him

Anonymous · Answer

Well turns out best not good enough for you anyway. His penis is prob too small. You deserve better

JessieLo · Answer

Find a man who accept you

Vesta · Answer

Divorce is up to 75%, i wouldn't marry you either

Diiamondz825 · Answer

Leave him stop wasting your time and money

MlleCake · Answer

Get rid of a man like that.

Sholmes80 · Answer

Break up with his unworthy and unappreciative ass

ConfusednClueless · Answer

Dump the judgmental dick. 💯

esotericstory · Answer

He is not obligated to marry you.

sheepdip · Answer

That guy sounds like a jerk. Leave him.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Hmmmm oh gee I wonder why?

megaman242 · Answer

He sounds like an idiot

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Drop him and find a better one, dont lie to him

Sabretooth · Answer

he's made his true feeling about you known.

MarketNews · Answer

That's easy. Dump him.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Tell him to get lost.

morrowlow · Answer

sounds like one of those chick movies

uijk00 · Answer

thats not real love then

Hassaniscool · Answer

How did u even manage 40+?

JustMe1243 · Answer

40+ is really high

outside_Toronto · Answer

Move on

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Get a new boyfriend

demonics · Answer

Not the guy for you.

AnimeThot · Answer

Break up with him

PrinceOfAljazeera · Answer

good boyfriend.

legion6969 · Answer

leave him.

Hawky_ · Answer

Dump him

Cmcelts15 · Answer

Shit up

Anonymous · Answer

Time to move on.

Speshoolgae · Answer

get a new boyfriend

GoBlueSC4 · Answer

Make him the past

Anonymous · Answer

MGTOW :)

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