Are men more attracted to feminine girls? (Page 2)

Question

I heard a relationship coach say that one of the most attractive things a woman can do for a man is embrace her femininity. He went on to say that men find women who are more feminine more attractive than women who are more tomboyish or have more masculine traits or behaviours (like women who are really muscular, was an example he used). He then said something that made a lot of sense: most women aren’t attracted to feminine men, and most men aren’t attracted to masculine women. Do you agree with this? What kind of woman do you find most attractive?

Anonymous · Answer

Personally, I prefer fit & sporty - tomboyish type of girls.  I never had any attraction towards the girly girls.  My ideal type of girl is assertive, self-confident, sexually aggressive and dominant.

Dav1ss · Answer

Because men like women so they like women that act like what evolution says women are more like with some added social convention

ImagineSketchy · Answer

Most men tend to be more attracted to feminine women, yes. Most women are attracted to masculine men. It is only natural.

SirRexington · Answer

Im attracted to tomboys. But that does not mean they are manly. There is a difference between Butch and being a Tomboy.

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

I like women in general. I like that they are head strong. Not primpy per say just know who dhe is strong snd confident.

Tyffen · Answer

Not bimbos. But girls that are feminine are obviously more attractive in general. But if they're interested in cars and weapons, doesn't mean they can't dress and act feminine in general...

Jackieboi · Answer

He is spot on. Very sad that people need to hear this. Makes me wonder what will happen to our species in the end when so many seem to be mindblown by basic rules of attraction like this one.

Caunsos · Answer

With feminine and masculine be abstract social constructs, i guess you can say it is true but you need to be useing the definition of femininity that the person you trying attract has.

Optymistyk · Answer

I AM attracted to both feminine and tomboyish girls, just not boring or asexual girls

ritxi · Answer

Being feminine or masculine is just a stereotype. I prefer a extremely feminine girl than a extremely masculine girl, but the ideal is average.

Hans222 · Answer

Yeah, probably yes :D I like girly stuff, though not showing any is not a show stopper.

serious · Answer

I suppose most men are. However there can also be men who find manly type of women more attractive.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I believe thats what gets their attention in the first place so yes

GhettoGirl · Answer

It's just nature's way, I usually get picked in the third round.

Kurαȷ · Answer

Statistically speaking, perhaps. Which is, of course, completely useless piece of information.

HaveNoName · Answer

For me, when I look at a random girl, that is true to an extreme. I look for traits that are not feminine and based on that I strike her off my crush list.

Guardian45 · Answer

LOL! I laughed at your update, because in my family ALL the women are feminine, but NO ONE ever lived to say that any of them were "weak, shallow, or an airheads"! LOL!

bigcuband · Answer

Nails, heels, hair done, soft skin, good smells, tight fitting clothing, these are some of the ways to make me put my coat on a puddle and let a woman cross

RyanEC · Answer

I like it when girls are feminine. I like it when they dress femininely by wearing a dress or a skirt, but then adding a little edge by wearing a leather jacket.

Pulimuli · Answer

First of all relationship coaches are a bunch of bullshit Second, The majority of men are attracted to feminine women but some are attracted to more masculine women Thats the beauty of diversity

megaman242 · Answer

Like the picture there? God no, fuck no. I like practical girls that don't have high heels and purses. You can still look great even if you don't have stuff like that.

8lovelife9 · Answer

A woman that is herself, not trying to be anything.

Jaybird19 · Answer

Nah I prefer a chick who doesn't take shit and likes to cuddle that's pretty much all I need

Harmseygrace · Answer

The first pictures J'adore Lexie Couture. She has really pretty clothes.

Anonymous · Answer

All the girls are feminine by gender. If you mean "girly girls", that's just a patriarchal stereotype.
I don't like social constructs.
I prefer dominant, self-confident, tomboyish, sporty type of girls.

GreatnessBack · Answer

Yes and maybe. I've dated tomboys, but they were always feminine. And they knew how to get extra feminine when they need to.

Massageman · Answer

I would think that, proportionately, more men are attracted to tomboyish gals (not "masculine" gals) than gals are attracted to "tomgirlish" guys.

bolverk · Answer

As a generalisation yes, but there will always an exception too the rule that one "Tomboy" you find attractive even if you cannot nail down why.

adolescentswede · Answer

I guess i would not know how to measure masculinity/feminity but it makes sense that hetero men would appreciate feminine women.

genericname85 · Answer

men are into feminine girls, not into sissy little girl bitches xD there's a difference. those girls depicted are sissy bitches to me.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I'd say half us of men are attracted to feminine girls where the other half of us men are attracted to tomboys. Personally, I'm attracted to both, but I find feminine girls more appealing.

Zanecyber · Answer

I tend to see the really good looking feminine girls are the ones with the most bitchiest attitudes , similar to a spoiled child , but not every single one of them tho,

lxathed · Answer

It depends. I prefer girls with a touch kf femininity, but who also look great in guy's fashion

HGStebbins · Answer

I can't speak for all men, but I can say that I am.

eshedd · Answer

Eh, depends, I’m attached to my roommate and she’s not exactly very feminine

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Masculinity and femininity are opposites that are drawn to each other. The more masculine a man is, the more he will be attracted to feminine women, and vice versa.

humanearth · Answer

I get moRe attracted to a tomboy over someone super girly.  Girly girls are not for me.

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Love the girly girls 😍 But I can't afford them 😭

samael_kmarty · Answer

No, not everything feminine side in the sense (which I like are caring, loving , etc)

Prof_Don · Answer

I say yes, the more classically feminine-styled gals will overall be seen as “more desirable”

paul6965 · Answer

The feminin aspekt of a woman shows a man the perfection of her Body for reproducing as mother Natur want from her. Is an Animalistic instinct.

hafinjun · Answer

I do, but then I'm an old chauvinist , I hold the door , pull out your chair etc. Being " A little more butch" isn't necessarily a deal breaker

mr_mxy · Answer

It depends. Honestly I know plenty of more tomboyish girls who I would very much consider attractive.

Philyouup · Answer

I agree, although a tomboy can be very attractive when she doesn’t completely ignore her feminine qualities.

VaibhavSharma1991 · Answer

Im attracted to feminine girls more but only in the case if they are mature and independent. I love it when girls show off their feminine nature.

Anonymous · Answer

YES! I think that masculine men in particular are very attracted to feminine girls and vice versa. I think the ones in between are less fussed about it.

JKingOff · Answer

In general straight men are attracted to feminine females.

Swat_ · Answer

This is heavily dependant on the guy. Personally, I don't like femine girls that much.

TheFlak38 · Answer

no we prefer bossy, aggressive , ball-busting career women who bitch all day long.

hellacray · Answer

Umm duh?  Men like feminine girls and girls like masculine guys.

ForteExe · Answer

I know I am. I like when girls act like girls... Crazy concept...

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Honestly yes. But i always go with attitude. A bitchy feminine girl is a turn off.

Rangers · Answer

I don't spend time with girls anymore, but I would appreciate a compassionate girl being in my life.

Anonymous · Answer

The one thing I have with it is, if women expect men to be masculine, why shouldn't we expect women to be feminine. That's what you have to ask yourself

scooogy · Answer

Next time you'll search for YouTube videos, you better type in "relationships in 2019" and not "relationships in 1920".

RobLovesDemi1234 · Answer

yes they are instead of the wannabe men women try to make themselves out to be. women don't know how to act like women anymore

PrinceOfAljazeera · Answer

duh 100% but sadly women are becoming like men nowdays, back in 70s 80s women were feminine af, wish i lived during that era

Guanfei · Answer

Clearly yes. By there is "girly", "feminine" and there is "barbie" like your second pic. I don't like Barbies, I like women, not dolls.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I can't speak for every guy but I'm definitely more attracted to the feminine girlie type dont want no boyish actin girl

Utsav007 · Answer

Yes.. man want women with 60-40 ratio.. with feminine and some extent tomboy.. I like that type of girl.. feminine parameters are lips , eyes, voice, figure.

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