Real feels girl
Have you ever had a boyfriend before?
@SeekingPurpose this happens all the time... okay maynnn
@Darjeelingjelly what are you talking about?
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Things are only a waste of time if you didn't learn anything.
Sorry but life is based on action so fuck everything be just like Queen
So never run 🏴☠️
Takes two to tango. You saw that coming and ignored it until it was in your face
also how they don't last either
Why would anybody stay with someone who is abusing or manipulating them? I know I would be gone real quick
@CausticHippy there are reasons, one is control, depression, can't always see clearly when in the mess.. trauma bonding... easier said than done getting out. Don't know another person til see them in their full cycle and how thy respond under stress. I know a woman in this scenario now, she's lucky to be alive so far. relationships churn up deep emotions... it's the real deal of life.
Sure. I refuse to relate. You're pretty much saying people arr powerless to their emotions. In my own experience, the main cause of powerlessness is telling yourself that you are in fact powerless.
@CausticHippy somewhat agree. I didn't see manipulation tactics before, and it took several counselors to see through stuff. we have power to choose, to stay or break free for our own health and theirs. been there more than once. But seeing what is going on from the bleachers is different than being on the field or in the ring. And by the time we see it, if we do, we may be in deep. there's examples out here of that going on... the further one goes, the more it hurts and the recovery. maybe this is a coffee shop discussion rather than text. just my experiences, may not be everyones relality as I did have self worth issues which are part of the messes I contributed to.
if a person, you, can hold boundaries better, then you're in better place than I was. Im wiser now...
I won't allow anybody to mistreat me without telling them to correct themselves. I wouldn't treat somebody poorly. I won't spectate some idiot mistreat me either.
Lightbulb, your "coffee shop discussion" post was beautiful.I understand what you are saying, even if some of the guys don't. The subtleties of these things are sometimes not clear at the time, only in retrospect. 'Hindsight is 20/20.'
That's why i'm not marrying, it's just not worth it to me