Losing your sense of autonomy, as an individual in the world. What you get in return is a partner and companion in life, which is huge and mostly very rewarding, and you won't spend another holiday alone, but you will never have complete independence again, where you can spend time with whoever you want, or not have to consider the feelings and wishes of another in what will be continual compromise. It doesn't scare me, so much as it is just a fact one has to accept, a trade-off for what you do get. It is no small thing, but it must be reconciled.
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Being committed to someone that isn't committed to me. Or me taking the relationship seriously while my partner doesn't.
How much it will ask of me. How vulnerable I will have to be. This both scares and excites me
Getting my heart broke again
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If she doesn't scare the hell out of you a little, she's not the one !
That in the end if it's a break up it would have all been for nothing. So I guess wasting my time
Falling, but he's not gonna catch or falling out of love.
Losing him or being cheated on.
Death.
I’ve known for a long time that there’s a special woman out there for me. It’s a gut feeling. Meeting her will make all my past relationships and waiting seem very short. And I feel that no matter how much time we have with eachother it will seem even shorter. She’ll be the best and worst part of my life. It’s just a prediction though.
I could be and I HOPE that I’m wrong. But I sometimes think that this woman will either die before I do or we’ll die old together.
The scariest thing about love is that when it’s true, there’s no telling how long you get to experience it
with that person.Being hurt. I’ve been in love before and am in love now. The first time it hurt whenever I saw her. I was very sure that she was into someone else and it really hurt me because the guy she was I’m pretty sure into was one of my closet friends, so whenever she talked to him I usually saw it. I’ve been hurt before because of love and I don’t want to be hurt again, unfortunately I most likely will. And if I’m not, well then I guess I’m a very lucky person. I wish I could just build up the confidence to ask out the girl I’m in love with now, and I actually am. I’ve been getting closer, but I probably won’t do it for a while, the problem is I don’t want to wait too long because I’m pretty sure she’s into me now. Anyways I think I answered your question in the first two words, but it feels good to vent or just write down your feelings.
Possibley not growing old together anymore... that hurt me the most when my 8 yr relationship ended due to differences in religion. I thought he would let go or phase out of his religious ways but it went down hill... what hurts me the most is that I will not grow old anymore with the love of my life...
To be reliant on someone with your emotions.
You have certain emotions - happiness, excitement, sadness and to share it with someone you love can be difficult. It could make you feel less or more, depending on how they feel.
Sometimes your happiness can be reason for their sadness. I can't phantom to be in that place.I think cheating that i can give myself entirely to some one tell them everyrhing about me and cry safley with them and there fucking somone else i drives insane just to think about it. Another thing would be death having to part ways with ghat special someone i wouldn't be able to live through id wana die too
Uh... right now wondering if it's real or not. I met a guy on Sunday and we already know we want to be with each other. But I'm 1000000000% terrified that he's going to be like all the other guys and turn out to be a jerk and leave me. So far, that isn't happening and he said he's going to do everything he can to prove that he's not like the others.
Do I believe him? Yes. Am I paranoid that he's going to get tired of me? Yes.being abused by someone who manipulates and doesn't have my best interest. love seems to indicate vulnerability, which can be scary.
I fall in love easily along with will do thing's I normally wouldn't if wasn't in love.
I'm grateful with experience and practice, I've been able to somewhat calm this behavior down. As well as sit back and observe if love is being returned.Being taken advantage of. Having a woman pretend to love me so she can use me for her own good. And then falsely accusing me of rape and going to jail with no due process of course. Better to never be in love than get stomped on by a fat pig.
I’m afraid that we will end up being incompatible and that I’ll lose my best friend and that everything that we were would turn into nothing. That the person who once meant so much will turn into a stranger again.
The sheer fact that one morming, the other can and will change their approach and begin to lie, cheat, steal, disrespect you and begin going down the slippery slope of sucking the life, money and will out of you.
Having to open myself up to someone else. I like essentially being a steel fortress that no one can really breach... Time will tell if I'll ever be comfortable enough to open myself up to another person.
Everything rhe guys saying is what you say to get laid. Everythi g the women say they go and do to men/ saving face. This app is great for vetting out the complete bs people will try to feed you
That my boyfriend doesn't really love me and is settling or Im plan b. Im really in love with my boyfriend, it would devastate me. (The kind of love that I bring him lunches during the middle of the day and leave him cute notes)
I've never been in a relationship before, but the thing that would scare me the most is putting that much trust in someone. I've always had trust issues and never really shared my emotions with anyone.
Giving my all to someone and falling deep in love just for them to break my heart.
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