What’s one thing about love that scares you?

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AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Losing your sense of autonomy, as an individual in the world. What you get in return is a partner and companion in life, which is huge and mostly very rewarding, and you won't spend another holiday alone, but you will never have complete independence again, where you can spend time with whoever you want, or not have to consider the feelings and wishes of another in what will be continual compromise. It doesn't scare me, so much as it is just a fact one has to accept, a trade-off for what you do get. It is no small thing, but it must be reconciled.

penneva581 · Accepted Answer

Being committed to someone that isn't committed to me. Or me taking the relationship seriously while my partner doesn't.

Grond21 · Accepted Answer

How much it will ask of me. How vulnerable I will have to be. This both scares and excites me

dj33469 · Accepted Answer

Getting my heart broke again

coachTanthony · Answer

If she doesn't scare the hell out of you a little, she's not the one !

Apple1996 · Answer

That in the end if it's a break up it would have all been for nothing. So I guess wasting my time

shimmeryns · Answer

Falling, but he's not gonna catch or falling out of love.

Genie23 · Answer

Losing him or being cheated on.

Dongtai · Answer

Death.

I’ve known for a long time that there’s a special woman out there for me. It’s a gut feeling. Meeting her will make all my past relationships and waiting seem very short. And I feel that no matter how much time we have with eachother it will seem even shorter. She’ll be the best and worst part of my life. It’s just a prediction though.

I could be and I HOPE that I’m wrong. But I sometimes think that this woman will either die before I do or we’ll die old together.

The scariest thing about love is that when it’s true, there’s no telling how long you get to experience it
with that person.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

Being hurt. I’ve been in love before and am in love now. The first time it hurt whenever I saw her. I was very sure that she was into someone else and it really hurt me because the guy she was I’m pretty sure into was one of my closet friends, so whenever she talked to him I usually saw it. I’ve been hurt before because of love and I don’t want to be hurt again, unfortunately I most likely will. And if I’m not, well then I guess I’m a very lucky person. I wish I could just build up the confidence to ask out the girl I’m in love with now, and I actually am. I’ve been getting closer, but I probably won’t do it for a while, the problem is I don’t want to wait too long because I’m pretty sure she’s into me now. Anyways I think I answered your question in the first two words, but it feels good to vent or just write down your feelings.

vivibutterfly · Answer

Possibley not growing old together anymore... that hurt me the most when my 8 yr relationship ended due to differences in religion. I thought he would let go or phase out of his religious ways but it went down hill... what hurts me the most is that I will not grow old anymore with the love of my life...

koalakola · Answer

To be reliant on someone with your emotions.

You have certain emotions - happiness, excitement, sadness and to share it with someone you love can be difficult. It could make you feel less or more, depending on how they feel.

Sometimes your happiness can be reason for their sadness. I can't phantom to be in that place.

bruhimboredbruh · Answer

I think cheating that i can give myself entirely to some one tell them everyrhing about me and cry safley with them and there fucking somone else i drives insane just to think about it. Another thing would be death having to part ways with ghat special someone i wouldn't be able to live through id wana die too

lightbulb27 · Answer

being abused by someone who manipulates and doesn't have my best interest. love seems to indicate vulnerability, which can be scary.

Shuri · Answer

Uh... right now wondering if it's real or not. I met a guy on Sunday and we already know we want to be with each other. But I'm 1000000000% terrified that he's going to be like all the other guys and turn out to be a jerk and leave me. So far, that isn't happening and he said he's going to do everything he can to prove that he's not like the others.

Do I believe him? Yes. Am I paranoid that he's going to get tired of me? Yes.

Friendlyexperienced · Answer

I fall in love easily along with will do thing's I normally wouldn't if wasn't in love.

I'm grateful with experience and practice, I've been able to somewhat calm this behavior down. As well as sit back and observe if love is being returned.

SkipStop · Answer

Being taken advantage of. Having a woman pretend to love me so she can use me for her own good. And then falsely accusing me of rape and going to jail with no due process of course. Better to never be in love than get stomped on by a fat pig.

Rei13 · Answer

I’m afraid that we will end up being incompatible and that I’ll lose my best friend and that everything that we were would turn into nothing. That the person who once meant so much will turn into a stranger again.

DysFictoral · Answer

The sheer fact that one morming, the other can and will change their approach and begin to lie, cheat, steal, disrespect you and begin going down the slippery slope of sucking the life, money and will out of you.

amanda_smith · Answer

Having to open myself up to someone else. I like essentially being a steel fortress that no one can really breach... Time will tell if I'll ever be comfortable enough to open myself up to another person.

marmojuana · Answer

Everything rhe guys saying is what you say to get laid. Everythi g the women say they go and do to men/ saving face. This app is great for vetting out the complete bs people will try to feed you

Diiamondz825 · Answer

The one thing about love that really scares me and giving him my all and then him vanishing out of my life

Darjeelingjelly · Answer

That my boyfriend doesn't really love me and is settling or Im plan b. Im really in love with my boyfriend, it would devastate me. (The kind of love that I bring him lunches during the middle of the day and leave him cute notes)

ImJustCurious13 · Answer

I've never been in a relationship before, but the thing that would scare me the most is putting that much trust in someone. I've always had trust issues and never really shared my emotions with anyone.

Caramalkisses23 · Answer

Giving my all to someone and falling deep in love just for them to break my heart.

Comesaveme · Answer

Getting cheated on... and so, it happened. Never loving again after this.

Finchie40 · Answer

The person falling out of love with you cuz they are selfish , give your heart to them for them to shit on it by lying and cheating

lifelearner011 · Answer

Being "taken for granted" or disrespected. I genuinely try to be a good person and respect people, yet sometimes people confuse kindness with "pushoverness".

loveslongnails · Answer

The knowledge that "real love" involves much more sacrifice than you ever imagined, and that you're capable of doing it.

pillowfloof · Answer

rejection of something i do or say, or disgust if they see my body under all these clothes... + being taken advantage of when it isn't wanted.

Farah-luna · Answer

Falling in love but then that guy not wanting to be with you anymore or has found someone else so i stay out of high school relationships because i know how much it hurts

Cherokeehp · Answer

One day he could just not love me anymore. He could just leave me, or cheat on me behind my back.

YHL6965 · Answer

Not being good enough, disappointing my partner, anything that can lead to rejection.

FatherJack · Answer

Nothing , apart from losing the loved one , applies to other species , as well as human loved ones , miss my adorable pet ferret , Miss Woolworth , lost to accidental death , so much.

GermanGuy87 · Answer

If you love them more than they love you b/c its gonna be a huge problem for you

elite665 · Answer

Women... I just can’t do it anymore lol they make me too fucking nervous

Naxwi · Answer

To lose myself in it. For it to become obsessive or one sided

Account · Answer

Losing control/power/ego/clouds judgment.  Fuck that.

Nxtawm · Answer

How much it influences you in your thinking and actions. Also just commitment 😂😂

Justicki · Answer

Cheating or them falling for someone else while you're together.

valsaie · Answer

the falling out of it, which makes 100% vulnerability and trust hard to achieve

burnseta · Answer

that one day the person will leave me for someone else

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Becoming completely vulnerable and opening myself up completely. That scares the shit out of me.

Passionate790 · Answer

Falling in love and giving my heart to this person and he ends up breaking it

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If you're a man, you might go all in and then find that she doesn't feel the same way. It has been a great cause of murder-suicide tragedies in my country.

Solaris90 · Answer

Not recieving the same feelings back and then making a fool of yourself. Thats happened a few times with past relationships because im a hopeless romantic lol

Vivian7k · Answer

That in the end if it's a break up it would have all been for nothing. So I guess wasting my time

brightphase · Answer

Nothing scares me. What scares most people are disloyalty and separation.

Annie12234 · Answer

Commitment, losing him or being cheated on and divorced 😂🙈😬🙊

QUARTER636 · Answer

Possesiveness to a certain extend is ok... But when you become over posessive about your partner then that will have a very bad effect on the relationship

admles · Answer

That you can do everything right, you can be the perfect male partner, and then she can cheat on you and is still entitled to half of everything you have.

korey182 · Answer

i like the picture lol : 0  Geez where to start, lots of stuff. Maybe falling for someone where you just know it'll never workout. Like it's impossible, that's me all the time : (

xyz94 · Answer

A few things:  (1) Not finding it (2) Finding it, and then being hurt.

ariadneR · Answer

that he will leave. but he tells me all the time that he isn't going anywhere

ranger56 · Answer

That she will betray me. Our society doesn't punish women for ruining our lives and its becoming impossible to trust women these days.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

valentines day cuz it doesn't mean any thing to guys but it does to girls

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Blind part loving the ones who seem they are scare of love it's annoying

Swat_ · Answer

The second half of the relationship. aka girlllssss.

Iwillfindyou21 · Answer

The fact that I want to wait with sex but today's society is so sex-obsessed

MannMitAntworten · Answer

What's scary about love? It's the other emotions that are the trial.

pervertedjester · Answer

Forgetting someone else.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

The fact that it will end in death and not last forever. At least not in the earthly sense.

Jennifer_32 · Answer

For me nothing. I'm self aware it's merely a chemical reaction. I do find it disturbing other people allow it to enslave them.

dragoblack · Answer

Revealing the real me and all of my weird porn kinks

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