Would you lie to make your partner happy and where would you draw the line?

[Desconhecida]

[ohshee]

No it's not worth it the moment you tell ur partner the first lie,, it's just a matter of time and it's over... the lie is one thing ,,, disrespect is the other ,, playing them a fool is the next,, and then what ever ur lying about... the truth can fix it all,, the first lie
Will destroy it all

[AliasGS]

lying period will destroy a Relationship. No matter how Small or Big the Lie is.
Because Small Lies Will turn into big Lies. And you dont want a Relationship with no Trust because without that. Itll be better off starting off new once all trust is gone.

[PinkieClouds]

If it's unpleasant for me I would say no like threesome , something that has some pain in it ( I would try , but stop if it's painful and not pleasent)

[ariadneR]

Small stuff. Like if I'm planning a surprise party for him or surprising him with something.
Bot other than that, nah

[CandacePerry]

nothing at all. I am stick with lying ex partner and cheater. so no no no. kept them away from me.

[jennifer_bloom]

I've lied to friends before but I would not lie to a guy I plan on dating or am dating or used to date. The bible says a relationship based on a lie will not profit the liar.

[LogicBomber]

Men lie to women because women make it so we have too.
If women didn't shame and attack us for everything we do that they don't like or understand... we wouldn't have to lie about them.
If women didn't get so triggered by the truth, we also wouldn't have to lie to prevent dealing with drama.

[GreatnessBack]

Yeah, I have. Small stuff like I think she looks nice in an outfit when I think she looks better naked. Lol. :P

[JeremyT]

"Lies is the base of love life as it's the foundation of social life."(liberal translation) Men lie to save themself, women lie to save other. Or at lest in their way of positively live with their's lie.

[v851234]

Lies make them happy, until the truth comes out. Better to be honest

[bamesjond0069]

No never. Don't ask questions you don't want the answers to. I want the truth and i want to tell the truth. If you believe in lying i dont want to be with you.

[Miristheiss]

Give me an example, why would lying make them happy?

[AlphaMalez]

No. Honesty is the best policy. If your partner look bad in certain clothes or your girlfriend messed up on her war paint. Tell them! In a nice way...

[motownplayer2000]

Yes. To some extent. But if it interferes with my happiness to where I'm completely miserable. That's my line. U can tolerate certain things.

[ask4any]

No! Maybe a little white lie, a fib, as my mom used to say but not to save hurt feelings because those lies eventually come out and the hurt is 10 times worse!!

[uteman60]

I watched a show that said people on average lie 11 times a day. Draw the line at your conscience or established boundaries (hopefully you have had a boundaries discussion with your mate already)

[forhezeanubee]

When I was younger I'd say yes. Now that I know better it's a hard No. A lie is a lie and it will always come out. When it does you would wish that you just told the truth from the beginning.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Not at all. Lying is just another way of not caring and stealing from your morals. Lying is not really living the truth and being your true self. It is masquerading good with evil.

[GreatnessBack]

Do you even relationship? Lol

[Exorcist_Rampage]

I don't lie in relationships just to please my woman. If it ain't the truth, I'm not going to live it.

[GreatnessBack]

Yeah, that has never worked for any man. There are some truths chicks don't want to hear.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

So what? I'm going to be myself and take pride in living the truth and not lying like the devil just to satisfy her. It is dishonest.

[MannMitAntworten]

I am lousy at lying. If she knows me at all she will know I am trying to bullshit her. So no.

[goodlongman]

Annal i have seen some women here that want to go into that dark place

[Grond21]

No. I may not tell them everything, but I wouldn't lie

[ItsAMeA]

I'd be lying right now if I said no, lol. I would really try not to though. Honesty is the best policy.

[MzAsh]

No, the truth is better.

[froZZeen]

Drawing lines limits the purpose of enjoying life in partnership, dont, man hate lines :)

[outside_Toronto]

everyone has a moral compass; everyone's compass is slightly different