My boyfriend lives with his Ex girlfriend. What do I do? (Page 2)

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I've been seeing this man for about 3 months now. I just found out that he currently lives with his ex girlfriend. the ex is the mother of his 2 children. I already knew he had children before we started seeing each other. I found out about his living arrangement from a friend who let it slip when he was drunk. I spoke to him about it and he emphasized heavily that they were not sleeping together and that they are not together anymore. I believe him for the most part but I know his ex's family and everyone is telling me that they are still together. But he says that they have been broken up for at least 2 years now. And if he was dating her i'm sure she would question where he was at all hours of the night and who the girl on his social media is? wouldn't she? He says that the only reason they live together is because one of their children has special needs and its easier for them to provide for the child if they are under the same roof. Is he tell me the truth or am i being played?

Shanice_2008 · Answer

Dump him. He’s dishonest and not baggage free. You deserve better and you will find it... not with him clinging on

Flower7 · Answer

She's not his ex-girlfriend, she's his current girlfriend.

Daniela1982 · Answer

What should you do? Get your head examined if you keep this guy and don't move on.

Miristheiss · Answer

Get out!!! Get out!!! Get out!!! What is wrong with you? Why date him?

nicegirl19 · Answer

She would If they were together he is telling the truth

broncobryan · Answer

Run far away as fast as you can. You are his side chick and you didn't even know it.

reptocarl · Answer

You’re being played and that’s a lame excuse. Dump this ass

Anonymous · Answer

If you know his address, why dont you ask her? If you dont know his address, that could be your answer.

MrShaun · Answer

No one should be making babies without being married. The concept that having children is no big thing, but marriage is a big step is, well, overboard stupidity.

The fact that they're still living together is another red flag.

loveslongnails · Answer

Either you believe him, or you ask to him to move in with you, or you walk. Doubtful he can afford his own place.

Lazarus_1_506 · Answer

Go with your gut, cause I know, for any reason, I would never accept this. Protect your heart, dont invest it in high risk endeavors...

Wewladdy · Answer

Even if he wasn't cheating, 2 kids? You really wanna raise another woman's kids with this guy who clearly isn't able to make good decisions?

TITAN-IDC · Answer

They could own the same house.. Poor needing a roof? Maybe he should stay with you? You can ask ex. Dont judge until you investigate... Could be a rare innocent situation..

Blitzkrieg_88 · Answer

Make sure he hasn't a drop of cum left in his ballsack and keep him that way lok

oldoldold · Answer

It could be true. Some people do this. But then if its not dodgy.. why not talk about it.  Call this a massive red flag. And consider moving on.

Twenty2 · Answer

You know the answer to your question. You're looking for approval and fun fact is only you can give yourself approval.

Wurdom · Answer

So does he plan on staying with his family? I think if his friend hadn't told you, he'd keep this from you as long as possible

the_sinner · Answer

If you're not able to handle this situation then you can easily come out of it by breaking up with the guy. You can't waste the prime age of your life being in such situations.

Browneye57 · Answer

A can of worms you don't want any part of. Run. Away. As fast as you possibly can. Seriously.

Nadzi_ · Answer

Seriously lol? He lives with his ex girl you shouldn't doubt anything just dump him immediately.

Gedaria · Answer

Leave well alone, the waters run deep there , you might get drowd...,

wondergirl26 · Answer

Very awkward for sure Personally I wouldn't want it

perlamills2813 · Answer

People always wanna come back into your life when they see you looking good or doing good without a team, so dear fight hard and do something without him and see what happens okey.

dudeinohio · Answer

I wouldn't trust him.. that sounds just too convenient...

Iron_Man · Answer

You better sit that boy down and give him a good talking to

Fraxure · Answer

That's what I used to tell the other women too! I'm not sleeping with my wife. I did occasionally though.

ceevee · Answer

You getting played girl what's wrong with you, he sleeping with her every night.

MsMarie · Answer

If he loves u and you trust him you have nothing to worry about

Stacy6ft92 · Answer

Did you find out on your own or did he tell you himself?

Anonymous · Answer

I would say you want to cut it off until he is completely away from his ex

Anonymous · Answer

That would be weird. I would do some very deep investigating...

Anonymous · Answer

Why do want a man who is a garbage. Go date men who dont have kids

Anonymous · Answer

Haha sorry but you are being played. Wake up smell the coffee. Get out now.

spartan55 · Answer

You are being made a fool.

ITGirl95 · Answer

Lol, runnnnn you are being played

buddies · Answer

Sounds sketchy to me!!

slurreyboy · Answer

Save the drama fo yo mamma

saltybihh · Answer

Hpw do you know they arnt still together?

Agem123 · Answer

Fuck, this is too much. You better leave for good.

Skyrules11 · Answer

I would just ask the ex girlfriend whats what

DiegoO · Answer

That's a red flag, one that shouldn't be ignored.

Philyouup · Answer

Why was it a secret? It sounds fishy.

Spagootsy · Answer

Oh, they bang at least occasionally for sure

okeydoke · Answer

Who exactly has told you they are still together?

ask4any · Answer

They are sleeping together

Ray_Lala · Answer

Well trust your instincts

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Damn  he sounds so good 👌

yourfavperson · Answer

Oh no... theyre fucking

bush123 · Answer

he ain't the one girl

Guanfei · Answer

He's also living inside her.

bananathunder · Answer

time to find a new boyfriend lol

S8nBam · Answer

Split up with him. It will always be messy.

Cherokeehp · Answer

Don’t date this man.

Citizen4 · Answer

Get a new boyfriend obviously

tasin_rahman · Answer

Is there any guy who is at least good for us?

teamvic · Answer

Oh he's cheating

sunnybangar · Answer

I think she is more sexy

Anonymous · Answer

Run.

aprilrose · Answer

RUN!!!

dbr1987 · Answer

Assume they have sex

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