I don't think there is anything wrong with that, especially this day in age.
I think a lot of men are trying to avoid stepping into the dating minefield lately because they don't know if the woman will be excited or insulted if he shows any interest in her.
So maybe it'll be good to let women experience how it is for the guy to accept or reject a women's approach for a change.
Dude for once I know what's going on, I've seen what you're talking about and wholeheartdly agree with you. Women being seen as desperate but men being seen as confident for flirting. It's not wrong at all for women to go for what or whoever they want.
I'm confused as to what your poll answers represent. I think its absolutely fine for a woman to pursue a guy but I dont agree with the slogan if he's not pursuing you he doesn't want you. I voted A
"Men are too oblivious to pick up on most female “subtle flirting hints” anyways" - I think this isn't true. No one is oblivious. If you don't notice someone's interest in you then that just means you didn't notice them per se because you're not interested in them. Think about all the females you know in your life, I'm pretty sure you already know where each of them stands on your list. Your attention most likely goes to those in the "would date" category, and if one of them was interested in you too, there is simply no way you would miss it. What you call "oblivious" are actually just females in your "would not date" category.
I assume most women (in my life) are only interested in me as a friend, unless they otherwise show signs of liking me. Which most of the time, I miss (because someone else will come up to me and say “OMG she totally likes you, did you see what she just did there?”)
It’s 2019 women everywhere are saying they expect equality yet for some reason when it comes to dating they still want to act like the princess who wants to be saved. That’s not very progressive i think its about time that women do the chasing and courting
In our new age a woman can do it also because it is very interesting when a woman tell you she like a date with you as a Man. Society always was leaded by the wrong perspectives of the rules what Males and Females have to do or not.
Not really... But you have to be careful about HOW you chase after a guy. It's true that we like the chase. So if you'll do that for us, the entire fun is gone :/
I really don't think it's wrong at all. If your male or female and you are attracted act upon it. Why do other people's opinions matter, there are no "official" rules we must obey, it's your life, your happiness, your decision, no one else's.
@belarus Not really. If that was the case they would be stay at home mothers, they wouldn't have premarital sex etc. Personally I don't have an issue with traditionalism but women are very inconsistent with the application of it i. e. they don't want to be traditional at all but want men to be traditional and among other things, be the only ones to ask out others. Its confusing and yes it does limit their opportunities.
Women should pursue anything they want, unlike the self-victimization preached by feminazism. You want the guy? Get him. God knows you din't have any time to spare.
I don't think it's wrong for a woman to take the initiative and I certainly don't think it makes her look desperate. In fact I admire it very much.
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Although society has changed over the years , some peoples personal views don't adapt to the changes. I know quite a few men who assume woman are "sluts"if they pursue the man.
No. I was pursued a few nights ago. It was kind of fun. Granted, by the end of the night it was me asking her for her number. Of course I got it and we have been talking since.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with that, especially this day in age.
I think a lot of men are trying to avoid stepping into the dating minefield lately because they don't know if the woman will be excited or insulted if he shows any interest in her.
So maybe it'll be good to let women experience how it is for the guy to accept or reject a women's approach for a change.
Dude for once I know what's going on, I've seen what you're talking about and wholeheartdly agree with you. Women being seen as desperate but men being seen as confident for flirting. It's not wrong at all for women to go for what or whoever they want.
I'm confused as to what your poll answers represent. I think its absolutely fine for a woman to pursue a guy but I dont agree with the slogan if he's not pursuing you he doesn't want you. I voted A
Why should it be wrong as long your a adult who cares. what happened to go after what you want. doesn't matter if your a man or woman
it's not wrong unless you're @Daylight7550 or the retard up top who says guys who like that kind of women are weak
@belarus how sweet. The stupid little girl tagged me in a post!!!
Do you know how many men are fed up with having to always put themselves on the line and do all the work? Millions upon millions.
Men wish women would approach us, ask us out and take us to dinner.
Men are too oblivious to pick up on most female “subtle flirting hints” anyways.
I love when a woman comes after me, it makes it easier for me to understand she’s interested!
Nothing wrong with pursuing a man, go for it!
"Men are too oblivious to pick up on most female “subtle flirting hints” anyways" - I think this isn't true. No one is oblivious. If you don't notice someone's interest in you then that just means you didn't notice them per se because you're not interested in them.
Think about all the females you know in your life, I'm pretty sure you already know where each of them stands on your list. Your attention most likely goes to those in the "would date" category, and if one of them was interested in you too, there is simply no way you would miss it.
What you call "oblivious" are actually just females in your "would not date" category.
Couldn’t be further from the truth.
I assume most women (in my life) are only interested in me as a friend, unless they otherwise show signs of liking me. Which most of the time, I miss (because someone else will come up to me and say “OMG she totally likes you, did you see what she just did there?”)
Guys don’t get the hints. Simple as that.
It’s 2019 women everywhere are saying they expect equality yet for some reason when it comes to dating they still want to act like the princess who wants to be saved. That’s not very progressive i think its about time that women do the chasing and courting
Duh. Just Give em some clean drinking water. Problem solved.
In our new age a woman can do it also because it is very interesting when a woman tell you she like a date with you as a Man. Society always was leaded by the wrong perspectives of the rules what Males and Females have to do or not.
Not really... But you have to be careful about HOW you chase after a guy. It's true that we like the chase. So if you'll do that for us, the entire fun is gone :/
Fuck social rules. Fuck traditions. Fuck genger roles.
If you want a man go get him. If you want a woman go get her. How is that wrong?
Ditto!
I really don't think it's wrong at all. If your male or female and you are attracted act upon it. Why do other people's opinions matter, there are no "official" rules we must obey, it's your life, your happiness, your decision, no one else's.
Society doesn't dictate these rules, women did. Persue away.
It's really a shame because women would have so many more opportunities. American women seem to live in the 18th century
@belarus Not really. If that was the case they would be stay at home mothers, they wouldn't have premarital sex etc. Personally I don't have an issue with traditionalism but women are very inconsistent with the application of it i. e. they don't want to be traditional at all but want men to be traditional and among other things, be the only ones to ask out others. Its confusing and yes it does limit their opportunities.
I disagree with the poster. If you want a guy, go after him. That's how 2 of my GFs got me.
Women should pursue anything they want, unlike the self-victimization preached by feminazism. You want the guy? Get him. God knows you din't have any time to spare.
I love when a girl pursue me. I want her to say she darn likes me instead of me playing mind read. I like her who takes charge.
actually the reason my girlfriend and I met was because she approached me and asked me out on a date 😅
I don't think it's wrong for a woman to take the initiative and I certainly don't think it makes her look desperate. In fact I admire it very much.
Although society has changed over the years , some peoples personal views don't adapt to the changes. I know quite a few men who assume woman are "sluts"if they pursue the man.
true, unfortunately
Every time I go after a woman, it doesn't work out. 3 times women have come after me, we ended up in relationships that lasted 1 year+
No. I was pursued a few nights ago. It was kind of fun. Granted, by the end of the night it was me asking her for her number. Of course I got it and we have been talking since.