When a woman pursues a man, is that wrong? (Page 2)

Question

Society and social rules for hundreds of years dictate the man is the one who must chase, woo and pursue a woman if he is interested in her because that is the polite and gentleman thing to do, but if the woman does the chasing and all those same things first, it could mean she may be desperate for a men´s attention and that ain't good. As the man is the one who must those things first.  What is the difference then if a man does it first than the woman does it first? So a woman can’t do the pursuing if she is interested in a guy because that is the man´s job? So if a guy is the one pursuing, there is also a chance the woman could not be interested isn’t it? Guys, if a woman does that first, will you feel bad and believe she is desperate for your attention? Or indeed there are guys who still in these days believe it is their duty to pursue not the woman?  I am not saying is bad if the man pursues first but a woman can do it too I believe. Lets take one example a man and a woman in their mid or late 40´s both single, no kids, neither one had been married before and in these days many women are bold, confident and pursue guys first, if you take that the woman is almost in their mid or late 40´s do you think she will behave like a teenager waiting for the grown up guy to go first?

Anonymous · Answer

A woman is more than welcome to make the first move or be the initiator if she wants to if she is interested in a certain guy, I'm definitely all for it happening more often

Baobei · Answer

It's definitely not wrong, but it would never be my choice. Preferences are different.

updog45 · Answer

I've never met any man ever that has disliked a woman pursuing a man.

zagor · Answer

That saying in the picture is just stupid. He may not even be aware she is single.

MarkellaScorpio01 · Answer

I believe if you see something you go after it before someone else beats you to it.

jss123 · Answer

I'm a little apprehensive dating after my divorce so if a woman asked me out its great.

AmeerX · Answer

Just tell the other person if you like them or not. Time waits for no one

BenjaminBlue · Answer

Oooor it means we are just really shy and anxious cause every time we asked a girl out it went horribly wrong?

YHL6965 · Answer

Go for the person you love, stop caring about how society sees it.

SissyFrenchMaid · Answer

It should be acceptable for a woman to persue a man. This is year 2019 not 1919

smartrider · Answer

It depends. Have you seen if he usually flirt? If he doesn't then ok go for it. If he is not married or gay, he will surely like it

Josh_Italian · Answer

I like chasing n like being chased, women like men see something and want it, so why not go get it.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not wrong, i like girls who like to take initiative.

Anonymous · Answer

You would know you are safe from metoo movement.. All the way, including sex..

Alpha09 · Answer

It's not wrong at all no.

Bman4907 · Answer

Guys like it, but lord knows it won't happen

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

No, its fine either way.

mayur955 · Answer

It will never happen😒

PrettyRegular · Answer

Of course not. Women go after the guy they want.

legalboxers · Answer

I was in that situation tonight...

MidaBushka · Answer

Why not?

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No but chasing is.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I welcome it. 😎

Anonymous · Answer

Nope woman go after what they want. Opposite

JesseJayNeak · Answer

It's time to switch

realcowboy13k · Answer

No way

davek1970 · Answer

Its fine

Smf1989 · Answer

Hell no

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