Does she have a crush on me?

Question

I am in college and have a class with a girl my age. She laughs at stuff I say, smiles a lot at me and to stuff I say. She said hi when she saw me ask what's up. We had to do peer reviews and she came to my table sat next to me at my table. She sat between me and another woman Im friends with, talked to her she said something, smiled at me and looked deep into my eyes and didn't stop smiling and it felt awkward, if I didn't break the eye contact she probably would've continued. She was making forced eye contact and scratching her head while resting her head on her hand and leaning over. One day I sat down waiting for class and sat with another woman and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me and I could smell her but she had her back to me. This was the closest she's been to me. There was a whole room not a lot of other people. When I talked about another girl flirting with me and asking for advice from a woman I talk to in college to not lead her on. She joined the conversation said that the other girl will continue pushing boundaries and persisting if I don't say I'm not interested and ignore hrr. She started this stuff after I asked for advice, . I told her someone said my hair looks like the clown from it and she said that's not nice. I'm afraid she knows I'm too nice not say I'm not interested in a girl and won't ignore. I saw her in the hall today we stopped seeing each other in class. She saw me today and stopped and asked me how my classes were this semester and she had the biggest smile on her face. I ask her stuff and it's like she has a hard time with conversation but has the biggest smile on her face talking to me. I said my advisor would kick me out bc he knows I smoke pot and she says "awww" I do get an awkward forced vibe from her. She seems weird talking to me when I've seen her talk to other people and guys

DamienDreams · Accepted Answer

Dude, 1000% yes. It's like she read the "How to Let a Guy Know You Like Him" textbook and is keeping a checklist. Lemme list the things I see...

1. Laughs & smiles at stuff you say (even when it's not all that funny, right?). Classic.
2. Sat down next to you, between you and another female friend, no less. She's both trying to be close to you and "marking her territory" at the same time (and I meant that FIGURATIVELY, so nobody go hatin' on me, k?). Classic
3. Gazing into your eyes for an awkwardly long time. Classic.
4. Eye contact leaning forward with her head on her hand - I bet she had puppy dog eyes, too, right? Again, long eye contact and getting into your space are both classic. (She prolly just scratched her head because it itched, tho ;P )
5. Walking close, hovering, standing in your space when there's an entire, almost-empty room available - Classic.
6. Butting into conversations having to do with advice on another girl flirting with you & basically telling you to tell the other girl to buzz off - Classic (defending her territory).
7. Defending your hairstyle & sympathizing with your pot issue with your adviser (in other words, taking your side on things that she believes are important to you) - Classic.
8. Huge smiles & hard time having a convo with you but no problem with others - it's because she's afraid she's gonna say something that you will think is stupid. She wants to please you. Classic.

Honestly, man. You could make a killing if you videotaped your interactions with her for a week & marketed it as "How to Know if a Girl Likes You." You'd be rich!!

Sooo... Here's the clincher. I didn't quite get whether you like her or not. If so, congrats! All you gotta do is look at her & say, "Will you go..." She won't even let you finish your sentence. "YESSS!!!"

On the OTHER hand... If ya don't like her, you may have a little challenge on your hands. You're gonna have to be up front and direct with her, as hard as it's gonna be. Otherwise, she's gonna do exactly what she said that other girl would do - continue pushing boundaries & persisting. Cuz she was speaking from personal experience.

Good luck, my brother! Keep me posted!

TomBham · Accepted Answer

I would, just ask her in private WTF is going on here. ( Just tell her you have important question to ask her without witnesses)

If she likes you you could take it further, like ask her out on spot or just tell her to stop that BS.

Worse she can tell is NO. Life will go on and you will stop guessing.

yoshi_wanna_ask · Accepted Answer

She seems to have problems with her social skills and boundaries. Not only that, she appears to be proud of that too. I know not all advice is going to sit for all people but much like guys with other guys, women are pretty good at having an idea when something's up with another chick and know when warning signs are triggered and this girl, she has alarm bells.

Someone I know well met a girl similar to this at uni, she got him to immediately cut all other women out of his life (including family friends who'd known him since before he was born) and then most of his guy friends, especially the ones she couldn't control. This was after 3 months. Anyway, a few years, a lot of crazy, a divorce & a FB update later, turns out she was a legitimate sociopath, diagnosed and all.

There's reasons some people are more self-serving, blunt & manipulative than others but they won't hide their true selves from everyone. If this guy had only spent some more time getting to know her, he wouldn't have fallen for her charms and ended up under her thumb, being her punching bag. You may not be able to tell but the people around you will. ASK THEM. Especially your female friends. They don't tell you these things for laughs but because they're true. Don't be another statistic like my friend who's still paying off her bills & credit cards she put in his name.

Porcelaine · Accepted Answer

She's either interested or overly friendly. Are you interested in her? If so, test her, next time she talks to you say something about going for a drink and watch if she likes the idea or not. if you are not interested start telling about this girl you are into and describe her differently from the girl you're talking to so she knows for sure that it's not about her. She might get hurt, but it's better to extinguish all hope now if you are not into her and be kind. If she has no reaction or even positive about you liking someone else perhaps she is just friendly like that. As someone who constantly deals with guys that think I have a crush on them just because I say hi how are you, I know how guys can magnify everything in their brains and have to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Wow, if you have to ask this you could be the star of a new version of the movie "Clueless". Wait, this girl you talking about - is her name Alicia?

coachTanthony · Answer

Walk across the room and ask her out. Nobody on GAG can promise you if she is interested or not from what you have told us.  Pull up the big boy pants and make it happen!

coachTanthony · Answer

My answer is I am not psychic.  Go get rejected already! That is your job!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Of course she wants you. Why haven't you already made a move?

Apope16 · Answer

Yes. I imagine she's already thought about having sex with you. For sure fantasized about it.

Apope16 · Answer

I see very clear signals she has the hots for you. Ask her out. Be confident. Donr be nervous. she wants you bad dude.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Why do y'all not fucking break up your paragraphs?

coolbreeze · Answer

She likes you but she playing it cool.

ImHere4You · Answer

In my opinion it sounds like she likes you. I’ve seen most people reply that she does but we don’t know her like you do. Only one person can give you the definite answer and that person is her.

You said you thought you were out of her league. Many people feel that way about others and miss their chance. You’ll never know how she feels until you ask.

It definitely sounds like you like her so if you do ask her out to eat. Talk to her and get to really know her. Many people are too nervous to make the first move and obviously you want an answer.

Life is about taking chances and if you don’t take the chance you might miss it. Maybe she’ll think you’re not into her and she’ll move on. She might not be interested in you that way so she might reject you but if she does just know there isn’t one person in this world who hasn’t been rejected.

Numerous times I’ve seen you mention your looks compared to hers. You need to stop worrying about your looks and whether or not you’re out of her league.

When you’re ready if you want to take a chance with her, do it. Don’t miss your chance. You will never know the correct answer to this question until you ask her. Good luck.

koalakola · Answer

Mate, I would say all these are signs.
1. Women are very sure about personal space. They don't just hover in, she was cautions of what she was doing.
2. She is all too comfortable with you. She smiles and laughs which means she is letting her guard down.
3. Eye contact - now girls are confident, but not that to just give a deep eye contact. They know they don't want to give hints. Which means she is giving a hint.
4. Forced smile - now this should have been genuine but nevertheless you can avoid because she could be nervous.

I don't think I have to go in more detail but tell you that you have to show interest back. Girls loose interest in guy not showing interest or not 'manning up'. So just ask her to meet, like a date or something. Nothing extraordinary, just a coffee. Just say, 'Hey, you wanna get a coffee after college?' with smile and be cool about it, it's just a coffee. If she asks why, stay cool and say whatever comes to your head, it doesn't matter, but nothing with gloomy or serious face.

You can do it. Asking her only matters. Good luck!

And thanks for asking :)

Effably · Answer

Ah yes. I was summoned. Presumably to explain basic female flirting behaviour. Probably because I do that sometimes. So here goes.

Here's the crash course and upset to everything you thought you knew about men taking step one: Women almost always take step one. Upset finished.

The go-to is repeated and (mix length but will include both of) prolonged and very short eye contact. This is then commomly accentuated by also flashing you a clear or subtle smile (respectively) when you reciprocate eye contact.
This is basically what you actually want before you approach a girl as it is the most common way to let you know your attention is desired. Note: Repeated eye contact. Note2: Girls if you are not doing this then what sort of maniac would approach you?
This is usually only romantic/sexual.

The girl you describe is seemingly going through the "Approach me" signals repeatedly. So well. You know. Either she sucks at flirting, you suck at reading people or she likes you.
I'll give both of you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're not socially inept. She seems to like you.

centerline · Answer

is there a question here?
If what you write is actually the way it is happening, yes she is interested in you.

you either need to ask her out for lunch/dinner and show here that you have an interest in her (as you obviously do to notice all these things about her) as well... if you dont, you will soon end up in the friend zone...
if you get your "date" with her, you dont want to be aggressive about trying to dominate all of her time, but just keep it light, simple and fun, and SHE will move on you. girls like to talk about themselves (even if they dont want to admit it) and so ask her questions to draw the conversation out, and then play on what she says... once you do this a couple times, you will realize how simple it is to talk to girls...
some girls will want to know a bit about you also and will ask a few questions, but dont go on and on about yourself or become a boring braggart (which no one likes) but just be honest without saying too much and getting your foot caught in your mouth... if it all works out, you will have time to say "too much" later...

AlphaBob · Answer

Ok bro... Lets talk some talk. If you are interested in her besides the fact she may have been a bit overzealous somebody was saying. It is still you're choice. Ok you chose whatever sweet deal. Ask her out for a drink! Now depending on whether you have a licence or not or are driving there will affect how many drinks you can have, also if you are a monster of a man or not. But when I say monster I mean monster... So you drive their. ONLY HAVE 1 DRINK AND WAIT 2 HOURS BEFORE DRIVING! This shows responsibility (power). After If you go to you're place or whatever if you and her a freak like that and she crashes have another two drinks. But a maximum of three unless you're Andre the giant then you can do the math on how many drinks you can have. OK so you didn't drive have all three drinks there PARTY have fun do whatever! ERRRRRRCHHHHHHH! Theirs a step you take before drinking though... You take her for a coffee before hand. Whenever works but it has to be on the same day as the drinks. She's not interested you're not interested. Unless you guys find something to do other than coffee that's just a cheap whatever. But be careful with you're wallet is all im trying to get at, but it is you're wallet. You may or may not want to separate after you're predrinks that's cool don't worry to much about it. She's a woman she may have other guys on the go even fine whatever. Just have fun is the main goal man and have a good time but don't be a retard either. Think you might be drinking to much look into drinking guidelines if you make this a habit maybe slow down a touch, but its you're game and you're life these are just powerful suggestions.

Annie234 · Answer

I wiuld just go with the flow. She may like you as a friend. Take that as a basis to build on. This sounds patronising but your both young everything feels more intense than it needs to be. Dont overthink everything. Suggest lunch could be low key packed lunch. Eating and chatting is easier than just standing in front of each other with your minds racing and geappling to find the right words not wanting to look a pratt. Find stuff out any common interests. At worst its no more than a visual artraction. Middle ground you two could be the bestest of friends. Let me tell you good friends yoy can trust- Real buddies if you get 2 or 3 in a lifetime count yourself lucky. You may even have a little fling who knows start at square 1 and go from there. Good luck sunshine.

TheLockofaHeather · Answer

From what I can tell she seems really shy and doesn’t want you to know that she’s into you. She’s scared that you don’t like her so she seems hot and cold. One day it seems like she likes you and the other it’s like you don’t exist. When you mentioned a girl that liked you that you didn’t like back she probably thought you found out she liked you and that you didn’t like her back, so she told you to tell her because she didn’t want you to be stringing her along. Or she knew it wasn’t her that you were talking about, but she told you to be up front with the girl because she wants you to be up front with herself. Maybe she thinks you might like her and wants you to confirm or deny it. Either way it’s obvious you have to make the first move because it doesn’t seem like she will. Ultimately no one knows how she feels but her.

Aguysopinion4799 · Answer

It certainly gives me the impression that she is attracted to you, that doesn't need to be romantically but she is attracted to you, why else would she constantly come over to you when she doesn't have to?

I think that the fact she comes to you and smiles when she is around you, enjoys a lot of conversations with you, is close with you somewhat in regards to what you talk about, it only makes sense that she is attracted to you and perhaps you could start to be attracted to her as well at some point, who knows?

Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over · Answer

She likes you well enough. She doesn’t not like you.

But here’s the thing. It doesn’t matter if she likes you as much right now as you’d like her to like you because you have to do the work to get her there.

—> You have to do the work.

Chat her up nicely. Listen to what she says. She’s telling you about herself. Valuable information! Ask her out. Take action. Every day you let slip by, you give someone else the opportunity to make her unavailable to you before you know if there’s mutual chemistry between you two.

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes she is , and she is nervous , you pretty much have to make the first move considering she doesn't know if you are single or not since she heard u talking about another girl , so she is pretty much waiting for you 2 make the move. If you like her , Next time you see her be like hey would you like to go for a bite eat with me , whichever day you pick , and see what she says , , if she says Yes then you know she is interested in you , dont take her anywhere expensive but somewhere casual where you can both let loose a little and talk more and take it from their

zollo · Answer

Iv'e seen this question before... I think you should ask her out to coffee or something you think you'd both be mutually interested in. Maybe something that isn't to reliant on conversation because you said she isn't the best with that. Like even just watching a movie and then grabbing a bite to eat, you won't really talk during the movie but you can talk after it when you eat and since you just saw the movie you can talk a lot about that and then transition into what kind of movies she likes and then what type of books, games, music, what's her hobbies etc.

Craftsman · Answer

Sounds to me like she is not as shy as one may think. This is a flirty behavior that tells some of us men that a) she is interested and b) she is surrendering submissively, if only you take the lead and take what she is offering.
It's an old-school, old-fashioned way of arousing the interest in a man. It was at one time promoted as the way to get the boy. It's a way for the girl to tell you she's interested, and that if you lead, she'll follow.
The advice to ask her out to coffee, or to meet for lunch, has already been given. My suggestion is to give it a try. At best it might be the beginning of a beautiful experience. At worst it will simply fizzle. Just remember, if you don't ask, the answer is always "no".

btbc92 · Answer

She likes you as a PERSON. Nothing romantically. She trusts you and can see you as a friend. I do most of that stuff for anybody. But just like your way of thinking, I am now selective with who I do that with. She does some of those things because she is trying to figure you out. It is nothing on the attraction scale at all.

Amy_Theo · Answer

TBH, I don't know. I for one wouldn't do any of those things because personally, I find it annoying and cringeworthy. So I really can't tell. But I can kind of tell that this bothers you (whether in a good way or a bad way) so I'd suggest you ask her about it. Ask her how she feels about you because you don't want to jump into conclusion. If you want to be a little more discreet (though I'd advise against it), maybe ask her what she thinks girls do if they're romantically interested in someone. Maybe, to be a little less discreet you could use the old "so there's this girl who (insert the things she's done that got your attention - be it the staring thing or whatever else) at/with me. Why do you think she does it?". Basically, ask her what you've asked us the way you've asked us.

Also, do you, by any chance, feel romantically inclined towards her? Cause psychologically speaking, that would affect the way you see her actions (unconsciously).

anupamagrawal · Answer

Its never been easy to judge what's cooking inside of anyone. If you are unsure about her when you have seen and talked to her in person - just the text can't let me decide what is actually in her mind or heart.

But, if you say the smile is forced - then what do you think the reason would be. Is she trying to be look like a nice person to attract you or is there any benifit she could get from such act. Love is complex.

The better question would be - are you into her? If yes - then ask her out and see what happens. Love is a complex thing and the answers here are certainly not any kind of confirmation. Adventure and find out what's deep inside her heart.

dystopian_saga · Answer

I'm not even going to lie I have no idea... we can be confusing specimens. I was never one to flirt or understand when someone would flirt with me so... for minute I assumed you were smart and she needed help I don't know why lol.
she does have a point though, you let a person know your not into what they maybe throwing so they can decide if they want to stop. that could be your answer if you just causally say "I'm not looking for anything serious or long term ect" and if all that bend n snap chucky cheese smile your way start to become scarce that's enough to assume that was her flirting and take that knowledge and do what you will with it.

PrudentGuy · Answer

If you did not "read in between lines" of her words and actions, then there is a good likelihood that she likes you and wants to be friends.

BUT, yes, the big word is, BUT, there is a very high chance that you watch too much movies and read too much into her words and actions based on your fantasies.

I suggest that you don't assume too much.

If you likes her, then start asking her out, just to hang out as a pair in private. I'm quite sure she will respond positively. Then talk with her and know her better as a person. Eventually, either of you will raise the question to "go to the next level" or not. So until then, "just be (platonic) friends".

livvycairns375 · Answer

If she acts differently to you in comparison with other guys there’s a good chance she likes you. When girls like a guy, they try to always be around them. Their way of flirting is to laugh and smile lots.

However, there are also girls who have a flirty personality. They do all the same things and tend to lead guys on. I don’t know the girl so there’s no way for me to clearly make a judgment. But if she didn’t act this way with other guys, and is only like this with you then there’s a good possibility she’s into you

Heaz99 · Answer

I still believe she has a crush on you, but a friendship that involves a one sided crush. I don't know about that. Mostly because she REALLY wants to be with you (maybe). I just don't think it's necessary to involve yourself with her because just think of all the hurt or rejection she will feel inside and having to keep it a secret? That's even worse. You'd be putting her through some pretty extreme emotions. Not a very good friendship.  I'm not shaming you or trying to make you feel like a horrible person (because you're not), I'm just explaining the dynamic of the relationship that you eish yo have with her and the affect it would have on her.

Asia2Europe · Answer

Well she definitly likes you a lot... LIKE ALOT!!! Why on earth would she keep smiling at you for no reason, look deep into your eyes you know? I think the question is that do you like her though? I think you mentioned something about not leading her on so I am assuming you dont! How about you keep your distance with her... she seems a bit too strangely obssessed with you to be honest... I would be slightly freaked out a bit. Her telling you to ignore and have boundaries with the other girl you talk to... its a bit questionable... she isn't the boss of you... you make your own decisions here. You can decide who you want to talk to... thats a bit of a red flag coming from her. How about you explain to her that you dont see her in any other light but a friend and just keep a bit of distance from her.

ForteExe · Answer

Yes, but she's being super creepy about it. Just reading this gives me a bad vibe. Not worth the trouble in my opinion. Also, saying "you're too nice to let her know you're not interested" is a load of bullshit. There's nothing nice about leading her on if you're not into her. All you're doing is avoiding having a potentially difficult discussion. I tell the same thing to girls who aren't straightforward with guys who pursue them too. Eventually she'll figure out that you're not interested, and she'll be far more upset that you led her around and wasted her time than if you were up front with her. Do the right thing, not the "nice" thing.

Corerue · Answer

I'm saying she is sending signals: why or what her intentions are I'm not sure. Women are confusing. 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤔  So let's turn this back to you OP. You say some of what she does feels forced to you or, in a way, makes you feel awkward or the situation.  So ask yourself: Do you like her?  Is this someone you can imagine yourself dating? Does her actions making you feel more happy or more awkward/put off? Etc. The part where she said a girl will keep Persisting unless you say something struck me as interesting. Mainly she could be meaning herself in a way from her actions. So dig deep and ask yourself some serious questions. If she isn't your type then move on quickly, let the girl down or be direct in just being friends and stop stressing over things. Just like she said be direct or this will keep happening.

Gabrielskaddadle · Answer

If u like this chick is it worth the risk to not see if she likes u back. She may be your soulmate mate. So ask her out to coffee if u guys hit it off ask her on a real date but do something that u r confident doing. For example i cooked for my girls as i feel confident in myself and it shows on the outside. Dont be a nice guy that agrees with her on everything but dont be arrogant or self centered. Ask her questions about her life and history if she is comfortable sharing she is more likely to like u. Otherwise all u can do is ask my dude, waiting for her to do it even if she does is stupid. Wake up in the morning and slap yourself as hard as u can for everyday that u dont try get her. If she just wants to be friends then be friends becuz it will make you more confident around girls if u spend times with ones u r not trying to get. Lastly dont be afraid if she likes u then great u win. If she doesn't big deal u now have a tiny bit more experience with girls. It gets easier

Derick529 · Answer

From the looks of it she seems to like you, one of the thing that you need to focus is her smile, try to see different types of smiles to see if her is genuine (you can tell if you see between her eyes and her checks), that's one of them. Another thing to lookout for is the way she treat others and how she treats you, if you see a difference them its possible that she likes you. Its one sign out of many that you have to see. Its not something you can do it in a day (if you manage to do that then I would congratulate you). Based on what you're saying it looks like she likes you, try to see her body language, this will say more and when you feel ready, ask her on a date, take you time before asking her out.

Keith469 · Answer

My gut is that she is interested and flirting, but she has a weird way of going about it. Do you like her? If so, why not invite her for a drink, a cup of coffee, or even a meal and see how she responds. After that, if you find out you still like her, just tell her in a very low key way that you find her attractive and ask her if you're on the same page. Scary, yeah, I know. But best way to be sure. And you run the risk of getting dragged back to her girl cave for an extended make-out session. Real scary shit. Good luck!

SavannahGrace · Answer

I think she was really interested in you, but then maybe she got the impression that you weren't into her as much as she was into you so she backed off. If you like her, I would try to get her to realize you're interested and then see if she wants to go on a date

Lliam · Answer

She likes you. If you have any interest in her, ask her out and find out more about her. See what kind of person she is. Are you interested in a relationship or are you interested in meeting a horny young hottie? She might be interested in the same things. If you don't make a move you might miss your chance.

Thingman1 · Answer

I only say no because I'm not sure about the question. I'd that normal college behavior. It common yes but not the rule. We all try to get our needs met and you seem like a health guy. It just seems that you kinda really like this girl and you can always sit down with her and lay it all on the table tell her there truth what you like and what you don't like. She may just agree.

its_Vict0riaaa · Answer

Honestly it sounds as if she's harassing you and it'll be best to stop it before it gets worse and even more uncomfortable. Stop beating around the bush and ask her "Hey, do you have a crush on me?" If she answers yes say "I figured, I like you as a friend.. so please stop flirting with me?" Because like she said say you're not interested it doesn't make you a dick you would be if you didn't tell her and waste both of you guys time.

JoseJr · Answer

Man you see all the details for yourself. She shows the interest in you. She shows posession for lack of a better word. Couldnt be more clear mate. Of course she does. Even if you aren't friends or even close. Doesn't mean squat. She has feeling for you. If you dont like her and dont like that attention she gives you. Just tell her upfront mate

JustAnEverydayGirl · Answer

Honestly, I get like that with a lot of my friends. It sounds like possesive friendship. It can be different for everyone, but for me, I had a very hard time making friends growing up. So when I did make friends (especially when they were upset) I'd get super possesive of them. Stand between them and someone else if I felt they were uncomfortable, get jealous if another friend was closer to them than I. Stuff like that.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i don't think so. it's easy to mistake acquaintances as interest. you have the same classes and see each other often. maybe if you were more friendly and didn't give off the i'm going to be weird about this vibe it would be easier to talk to you?  do you not smile back? do you not waive her to come over when she's 2 desks away? be friendly first and then you can work on something more if you get that right

Olivia0192 · Answer

It's whether she likes you or she's playing with your mind. Girls don't get close (physically) to guys without some kind of intention. The intention can be genuine attraction or mere curiosity. Either way I don't think she's really shy, shy girls don't have guts to sit next to someone they're interested in or to force an eye contact.

Southeast · Answer

Your now her tutor well if your not you best be trying to be she is deffinantly interested man taking time out of her life to ensure she runs into you find a mutual interest and invest your time by the sound of it she is caring and sweet and you won't be wasting your time deep breathes bro and goodluck

BlackRoseFairy · Answer

Why does this sound familiar...  Oh wait! I know! Because you have asked the same question another... uhm... 5 times? Well, the answer is the same...

Username28 · Answer

We think our body language through. Everything we do is thought out. Her hovering on you and her staring into your eyes are good indicators that she probably likes you. I'd guess she's putting the ball in your court. Shoot her a text or acknowledge her existence some how. If you don't like her tell her. If you do like her let her know. Do something with the ball.

Lilabueno75 · Answer

Sounds like she likes you. But I’d have to know more about the girl... they can be complicated (as can guys) but with girls it’s always harder to read whether they like you or not as girls can be flirty and friendly without always having an agenda of actaully getting with you

hydropump500 · Answer

You should hangout with her, spend more time not in an environment where you meet just because you have to. So ask her to go do something like help shopping, gym, coffe, movie. Somewhere where she would have to go just to meet with you. Body language may be interpreted differently, but it looks like she is interested.

Finchie40 · Answer

Sounds like it to me , if you like her then go for it ask her out , she is showing all signs that she likes you but i am Sure she is nervous also , so best thing you should do is just be like hey what are you doing. this weekend , would you like to go out with me? You're best to pick a place before hand like dinner and movies or what not

angelface8 · Answer

Sounds like she is dropping hints but wants you to make a move. I suggest talking to her. My question is do u like her? Is this attention she is giving you wanted or weird? If your not interested I would still suggest talking to her so she doesn't embarrass herself.

Chris200 · Answer

Well she crushing on you, she trying to get you to notice her in that way and ask her out. Her flirting isn't subtle. Decide if you want to ask her out. If not than be kind to her and let her know if you want to be friends and you don't want that then in the middle of conversation , tell her she remind you a lot like your sister or a cousin (if you don't have a sister)

lomimore · Answer

Yeah i think she likes you if it was just the other stuff maybe but the fact that she wants to pop up when u r talking to other women is a major signal. It really looks like she will only wait until you make the first step so if yoi are interested you should shoot your shot, if not don't lead her on because she might be thinking something is going on

TheFarStar · Answer

Firstly... R u interested in her? If yes then ask her out directly.. if no, then tell her to msintain distance. There r two things here, either she got interested in u at first sight or she is playing some game. In my opinion... just ask her what she thinks about u. Just as friends or more than that? (I feel it's more than just friends n she is definitely giving u a lot of hints.)

advices9290 · Answer

Dude , she is into you. I know I wouldn’t spend time and get very close with boys that I don’t like and I’m not interested in. I wouldn’t stare at someone if I wasn’t attracted to them. Just ask her if you are not sure. What’s the worst thing that can happen? She says she isn’t attracted to you and then you laugh it off.

politelyme · Answer

You need to firstly like her enough if your wanting a girlfriend and the second thing is easy if you want to move forward. She is shy but in her way she is showing/hinting for you to ask her out. Look at things from her side, she knows she is shy but she is really putting herself out there for you, don't leave her hanging. Compliment her smile, let your hands touch etc. Say to her something in regards to a movie, a band, a something that you'd like to go and would she like to come with you. Done

buuda1971 · Answer

She was so marking her territory and if she is cute and you like here she could have been the love of his life do a best friend and loves perfect relationship but maybe to late now but you should be feeling that stuff inside to know what to do next leave it lay or go to her and repair the friendship and make her your focus for the rest of your life or as long as toucan hold oxn you can't hold onto her...

Derick529 · Answer

Is very possible this girl likes you, what you need to check is her behavior with other people (most importantly guys). This will be the last part of the puzzle that you need, if you like her keep having conversations with her. Don't lead her on if you don't like her that way, this will end up badly. If you like her then ask her out, from the looks of this (she will say yes). just take it slow and get to know her better. Good luck

iwantabeme · Answer

It sounds like both of you are not honest or truthful about your feelings, you should be straightforward and ask where do you stand what would you like what are your dislikes, sounds like you're in high school better yet grammar School still playing those childish games if you're in college it's time to grow up that includes using your brain tell them how you feel straight off and you know where you stand,

NickiB · Answer

Hard to say. Some people are just very friendly with someone because of trust or attraction. I look at it like this. You like her.  And obviously it's on your mind if she likes you.  Asking her out is the easiest way to figure that out. The worse that will happen is she will say no. Just remember to respect her decision.

Browneye57 · Answer

SO much story... just skip all that. If you like her ask her to meet for coffee so you can talk. You'll find out real quick if she's really interested.  Or ask her for an actual date, like "I have tickets to [name concert] can you join me?" If she says she can't on that day but wants to reschedule something else then she's interested. If she just shuts you down she's not.

latinabutterfly96 · Answer

It doesn’t matter.  Are YOU into HER? Also, why? Is it because she’s sending you signals?  If you truly like her just show her that you do. Don’t reciprocate just because she’s doing it, especially if you don’t really like her back.  Also, I see a lot of guys do this: don’t reciprocate just became she happens to be a female with good looks. Seriously, stop doing that (Saying this to all men out there) because you somehow end up getting your heart broken repeatedly when y’all do that shit.

adidas0169 · Answer

Its not uncommon for men or women of all ages to be shy around someone they like. at least she tries to talk and she remembers stuff. break the ice with her that might help her to talk to you or even ask her out. what harm will it do if you break the ice or ask her out i dont see any harm in it.

HeyMikie · Answer

She likes you and you like her but it sounds like neither of you habe a lot of self confidence. Don't let that get you down. It is normal. You are just going to have to ask her out. Make it something simple and easy. The two of you can learn from each other how to be comfortable with each other. Good luck!

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