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She sounds like she may be painfully nervous to even talk to you. I'd give her some time. Let her warm up to you a bit. She sounds like she likes you and she probably doesn't mean to be awkward but probably just can't help herself.
I've seen her talk to other people and guys and she's fine she would sit with a guy and faced him but she was very stoic
She smiles a lot with me when I haven't seen her do it to other girls or even dudes
Well then yea she may definitely be crushing
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her face
Ahhhh so she forced the smile. My bad love, missed that part.
I would say again either she's just super awkward, orrr... she wants to look like she's trying to be nice but may feel awkward by YOU
No but most the time she has a natural smile
What I mean is doesn't it sound like she's flirting with me
That's the vibe I get from the eye contact and smiling and stuff
ffs can you listen, the girl likes you and is nervous.. you need to aid her and help her feel comfortable and it'll take time. If you like her just see what happens. you're being naturally on guard because she feels like she's in your bubble, but she's nervous.. predators aren't nervous. This girl is genuine, you won't find many. Stop being self-conscious and giving her reasons to be dissapointed.. smoking pot? Thats telling her you're dangerous and a bad influence, stop with that shit. Girls will be put off.
Ahhh well honestly I don't even know
Maybe just make friends with her
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Was she flirting when she said awww when I said my advisor threatened to kick me out of the program if I go in smelling like weed
no the aww is "i really dont know what to say about that and im actually a bit dissapointed i chose to crush on you because you seem like a bad person"
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
It’s a signal of serious interest. Long eye contact does come across a bit creepy and stalker I sh but you’re clearly inexperienced and clueless. Just tag along if you like her. Reading this topic it appears you are not telling anyone if you like her or not. I know you do otherwise you wouldn’t be here
Yeah I want to be friends at least
What was I supposed to do when she made that long eye contact
Smile back and keep looking until she looked away, this would show you are confident and interested. If however you didn’t smile and looked away you’d be telling her you’re not interested. I suggest you think how you’d feel if you looked and a girl looked away as opposed to her smiling and looking at you more. Put yourself in their shoes to understand
Was it flirting when she stopped to talk to me she had the biggest smile ever
No she was trying to be the joker, why so serious 🃏🤦🏽♂️ Honestly use your brain!
Was it flirting saying awwww
I'm sure I've answered this before but here goes.
From your description it sounds as though she’s interested in you, down to invading your personal space, and physically blocking other girls that are showing an interest in you, her looking straight at you and smiling is another good indication that she would welcome your interest, If your interested tell her so.
Sounds like a crush and maybe starting to feel like it's going nowhere. Given the she started close and is now distancing herself from you. But you should tell her how you feel or ask how she feels that way in the end no one could get hurt long term.
What do you mean s crush and starting to feel it's going nowhere.
at the start she was close and as time is going on she started distancing herself. that's what I got out of it i could be wrong. I mean she may not want her feelings hurt
So why would she start distancing herself
to avoid being hurt or rejected... unless she is also going through something else then her actions are unknown but people shouldn't be confusing but we are so confusing it's hard to tell the reasoning for other actions... I want to say she like you but know is batting ones inner self but i have no clue... there was a girl that like me and she tried really hard for me to talk with her but in my head she was so beautiful that I thought I had no chance in hell a while later I found out she like me but because I didn't do anything she stop sitting near me and stop talking to me... I could have dated a 12/10
If possible just ask... I dont think time changes the answer... well it can but normally from yes to no
Beware. When they act clingy it’s a sign of issues... this clingy when she barely knows you? She would be paranoid you’re cheating & freaking out if you even say hello to another girl.. in a relationship. It ain’t worth it.
You’re way better off picking them instead of settling for the ones you think are already interested in you. Cause you’re not really doing the picking & you’ll always have doubts in the back of your mind.
How is she clingy
Dude, she’s lurking so close that you can smell her. She’s sitting between you & another female you were talking to. She’s begging you for attention over & over again without you actually showing much interest outwardly.
You’re probably so distracted by her t&a & scent that you will overlook what I’m saying.
I think she's beautiful and I am interested it's just I'm awkward
Is she obviously trying to make her territory and make sure there's no other threat at this point or are we overthinking
I would say she likes you. Now one can never be 100% sure but it looks pretty promesing. As your poll suggesta too. Now her being awkwadd might be cause she is nervous cause she likes u. N her ataring is letting u know she is onterested in you.
Why can't she really talk to me or answer my questions.
She talked to other people including guys and she can just fine and she'll have a straight face. She has a big smile a lot and doesn't answer my questions
I answered that, she might be nervous if she likes you
Does she sound shy with me
I'd say she's flirting with you. But then again, college is when you flirt with everybody so maybe not take it too seriously unless she shows REALLY obvious signs that she likes you and want to go out with you.
Does it sound like she likes me
She may be interested and she may just want to be friends. Be friendly and be yourself with her. If she seems interested or you think she might be, you are going to have to ask her if she wants to do something together. Yeah, it's a scary thing to do. Just be prepared in advance for whatever she says. Don't be afraid to communicate. Is with all things in life, hope for the best but be prepared for tge worst. Good luck!
I say just ask if she wants to hang out outside of class to get coffee or something... etc. See what she says and maybe it will give you a chance to get to know her personality and to see if you like her back.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Some people flirt in different ways I guess. It's hard to tell sometimes. Some guy told me in class that he liked me but I would have never even of known bc I did not think what he was doing was "flirting." So maybe she is trying to give you signals by being super friendly and close to you but is to scared to ask you out first.
Yeah she did it when I was in class
So does it sound like she stopped to flirt with me in the hall the other day?
She had the biggest smile seeing me and it's like she can't say much. She didn't even say my name.
Hmm not quite sure. Maybe she's just nervous or is trying to flirt but is not the best at it. Sometimes it's hard to flirt especially when you do not know if the other person likes you back or if their single or not.
Does it sound like she was doing it intentionally when she was pacing by Me
I could smell her first time she was close enough I could smell her
Probably since it was that close, maybe just trying to get your attention.
How come she doesn't really talk much with me and it's really forced and weird.
I've seen her talk to other people and guys she does just fine.
She doesn't smile with other people as much and just looks at me when I talk or smiles while I do
Hmmm not sure to be honest. Have you tried asking her a lot of questions?
No I didn't
I crossed paths with her today and she said hey but she was not making good eye contact and we got close enough I could smell her. It's like she talks softer closer to me and it didn't seem very assertive. Not very confident.
Hmmm well maybe she just isn't good at talking to people she doesn't know well. So I would just think that she is shy and doesn't know how to initiate conversation.
That would be my guess
So do you still think she is shy and likes me or not
Yes! I think she does is interested and likes you even though he may seem a little shy
Has she given me cues to ask for her number yet or no
Um def not just to.. give her attention
She's just been flirting with me trying to get my attention
She's just super nervous around you, yet wants you around her.. Maybe you should ask her out on a date and see where it goes coz if you're not so keen.. End it then and there
Why can't she really answer questions or respond well
Makes awkward long eye contact and doesn't say much but smiles a lot
Sometimes the nerves get a hold of us and makes us speechless
Is that why she would just smile and make long eye contact and silence
Yes. It's hard to understand it when you haven't been in that state.. You must be that breathtaking!
No I'm a 6'2" 300 pound heavy set guy
Well you must be the most sweetest guy!
Why would she still do this stuff act like this
She's a 5'4" beauty she's classy and weighs less than half my weight
I'm a 6'2" heavyset 300 pound big man
I thought she's out of my league
Oh hell no.. Love comes in different ways.. Embrace it and get to know her ✌️ keep us updated
Why would she sit between me and a woman I talk to then make the long eye contact.
When I sat with her again she started pacing around me and it was closer than she has ever been
Please stop analysing and take some action
Ok
I have autism I'm sorry
My husband and son have it! I've been attracted to autistic guys too!
I don't know if she's just being nice or likes but
Once she started doing stuff like making longer eye contact I got a flirty vibe didn't know what to do
What am I supposed to do when you girls make eye contact like that
Ask her questions about her.. Redirect her eyes! I know it must make you feel uncomfortable because autistic people sometimes can't maintain eye contact as it makes them feel uncomfortable. You just really need to know ques, that's the only challenge. She might be hinting for a date so take the chance and you have nothing to loose!
I don't get why I'm encouraged to do something bc I'd say a fair amount of people would say she's out of my league but she is my type
Best way to find out is ask her directly. Why do you want to waste time analyzing the signals she is giving. By whatever you are saying it does seem that she likes you and it's common at your age to experience this. Best way is to spend more time with her if you like her and just ask her as soon as you can.
Does she sound shy with me
No.. she may be just waiting for u to make the first move
Please please please talk to her if you’re interested too!! I personally wouldn’t do what she’s doing cause I’m ridiculously shy and I don’t think I would ever be that bold. As a girl ( if I were confident ) that’s sounds like a move I would do.
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
You don't have to know if she's attracted to you or not. If you like the girl and she doesn't have a boyfriend there is no harm in moving forward. Whatever the answer you will get from her is no big deal. The point is you will be sure of the situation.
Mate whatchu doing! Ask her out and you'll know for sure! You'll deeply regret it if you won't, go for it, sounds like she has a crush. :3
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 empty Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
Is that something
I just ask her out she seems like she’s really into you. She’s sending you a lot of signals so she’s probably waiting for you to make the move. How long has she been doing this for? The hovering part sounds like she’s got a major crush on you.
When she was standing close to me and was the closest she's ever been standing on top of me in an empty room and hovering around me
Do girls do that on purpose
I’ve never seen that type of behavior but she seems really into you. If she continues this little cat and mouse game. I’d ask her out too coffee if she’s ok. But how often is she doing the hovering is that like every day?
No it was once it would be hard to every day but did it in an empty room waiting for class
The read I get there is this: She's sending signals letting you know she has an interest. I would encourage you to, maybe, schedule a little get together at a park and put your arm around her with a slight touch on her shoulder. The big thing I would say is: let it come naturally and nurture it based on how certain things feel. Be observant of body language!
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
I'm not sure exactly what "forced" means in this context. Was she relaxed or was she tense? It's hard to gauge accurately what those things mean from an online forum. Maintaining eye contact with a smile typically would indicate a positive feeling, though there could be negative implications as well. I've seen people with one of those "smiles" that shout "I don't like you!"
Felt like she was consciously doing it.
She smiles with me more than other people the biggest smile
Maybe there's an interest there. Ask her out on a date perhaps. On a nice summer-like day, take her to the park and take the time to chat! Take her to a nice restaurant the second or third time out! Wouldn't hurt to play around with it! Test the waters lad!
But she has a big genuine smile on her face when I talk
As I said, perhaps you could take her out on a date since, based on your description, she has a big, genuine smile on her face. It's essentially an overt gesture that shouts, "I like you! Ask me out on a date!". "Don't be shy or nobody will know you're there!"
What was I supposed to do when she was making long eye contact and smiling it felt so awkward
Break the ice perhaps. Use your best judgement to decide how best to proceed. I can't decide for you what to do or not do. Can only suggest to you what I think should be done based on what you describe.
Does she sound shy with me
Typically it's the guy who makes the move to ask the woman on the date, not the other way around. I'm telling you from experience, my own observations.
She's showing all three my man! Now what you need to do is take this to the next level. Next time she engages you, for what reason, she obviously wants YOU to be initiator in taking this thing farther. Invite her to your gathering with friends, make sure she knows your just as interested, do it without trying to be something your not and for don't worry if you get nervous. Because unbeknownst to you, she will be guiding you! Good luck and keep me posted plesse
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
Trying to drive you batty more than likely. Take it easy, take it slow, be nonchalant, not neglectful. Always, ALWAYS, keep a little cash on you. Be confident!!!
What was she doing seriously
She noticed you.
After this time,
don't do extreme/anormal/disturbing behavior (to her and to others)
Just wait.
If she want you, she will come to you. Be patient. And don't forget smile.
What do you mean noticed me
Mean that you are special for her
So in a crush way or no
She's trying to seduce you ( the smiles, the closeness) it sounds like she is unsure of how to get your attention. If you like her ask her out, I bet she says yes. And bye the way, if she is butting in on your conversation about other girls then in my opinion she is full of jealousy. So go for it
Why is it the longest conversation and biggest response I got from her Is me asking about how to handle a girl I don't like that's trying to get my attention. That was the longest conversation we've had she was really into it.
She's jealous, she is wondering why you don't notice her and she wants to know why.
Hey I saw her the other day we ran into each other walking on a path in college. She didn't look me in the eyes but said hey in this soft and weak and unconfident unassertive tone. She was looking down almost like as if she's looking at her phone
Is that something or no
Maybe she was embarrassed, she's made her jealousy very obvious. Try to break the ice and invite her for a drink
I don't drink she's not old nuf either
The other day we were sent to a congregation in a huge lecture hall. She came in saw me in the other side of the room came and sat two empty seats away from me..
Is that stuff intentional
She wants you to notice her, but she's very shy. And in company she's much more comfortable. It tells it's own story.
When she paced around me and was close enough I could smell her is that intentional
Yes it's a seduction technique
Why would she act like this and get jealous is it obvious
She's a 5'4" beauty that's hot and slim she looks like a pale Mila Kunis
I'm a 6'2" 300 pound big man
She's out of my league
Maybe, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Maybe she couldn't care less about your size, maybe she likes you for you. Have you ever thought about that? You will never know unless you ask, and if she says no then you can still be friends and move on.
Does she sound shy with me at all
I did notice she can talk to other people more but can't talk to me as much
There you go.
It's a classic sign
I thought it was disinterest
What was she doing when she came sat at the seat next to me and said something short and sweet and smiled and forced eye contact. It felt so forced the eye contact and smile and I had to be the one to break eye contact. She was scratching her head and leaning over and had her head tilted
I'm not entirely certain but from what you're told me she likes you, maybe it's something that she does when she's nervous. How long have you known her?
Since the beginning of this year
Months
Has she had a boyfriend in that time? Have you noticed her behaving this way towards other guys?
No and no
Then don't you think that she wants to be with you?
She's a beauty and out of my league lol
You'll be surprised
I'm a 6'2 300 pound heavy set and muscular big man
She's a 5'4" beauty that weighs less than half my weight
What do you mean
Is it possible or no
Your clearly her type.
How am I
If you are interested in her, go for it. You’ll never know until you try. And even so, what’s the worst that could happen? She says no and you move on.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
I’m not sure. The only real way to find out is to be direct and ask.
Both b and c girls don't play signal game like that. If she want to be more than a friend she would not do this to you or with you or towards you so don't break your mind and always remember there are a lot of dishes in the ocean
What do you mean
Means what you think about her intentions are completely the opposite of what she thinks about you
How do you know
Cause I m a woman
What problem are you trying to solve? Do you seek permission to ask her out? It's a simple choice kid. Either you do or you don't. If you can't decide, flip a coin. Whatever happens happens. There's plenty more girls out there if it doesn't work. Get some experience and enjoy life while you can.
Sure sounds to me like she is interested. Maybe try asking her to something low key like grabbing a bite for lunch and see how that goes... provided you are interested in her, of course
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
Is tha
Is that something
Maybe she wants you to see her
When I sat with the same woman she came and started pacing around me close enough I could smell her and walked right in front of me.
When there was an empty seat she sat between me and that woman
She butted into our conversation when I asked for advice on a girl I don't like that's trying to get my attention only to tell me to IGNORE her.
It was the longest conversation we actually had and that's the most of a response I got and a time she talked the most
It sounds like she's too interested to just be nice. Do you WANT her to be interested? If so, pursue this with coffee or lunch. If not, tell her she's getting a little too close.
I'd want to hangout or something so do you think she likes me
I think so, she's placing herself between you and her competition so I suggest you go for it and see what happens. Life's not worth living if you don't take a little risk
Is it overthinking or at this point. I did notice she butted in when I asked for advice on another girl liking me and then she smiles and sits between me and a woman I talk to a lot. When I said s flirty joke to the other woman she laughed the loudest
I don't think you're over thinking. I suggest going with your gut instinct and go from there. It also sounds like she's trying too hard to get your attention. Does the laugh sound forced to be that loud, or is that just her laugh? I personally hate butting into the conversation, but you were talking to the competition and she's trying to stake her claim.
She's interested, my man, no worries. Are you interested in her and do you wanna try getting with her? If the answer is yes then go for it, if no then don't. And you might even find after a few dates you're just not that into her, then no harm no foul, you tried and found you didn't click.
Is it obvious at this point that she's stealing me attention from other women?
I definitely want to hangout at least
Why do you girls hold long ish eye contact and smile like she did it felt like she was posing for a picture and just felt awkward
Yes, it is obvious, my dear.
Then try it, see if things go well.
According to my favorite show Leverage it's called Soul-Gazing, and just 5 minutes of it can cause real feelings of love... I don't think I do it, but if I do it's unintentional
She did it for a few seconds. I broke eye contact and it was awkward. So was she trying to get me to fall in love?
Probably not, but something to keep in mind if a woman is trying to seduce you, but she is trying to convey interest
She was trying to show interest?
I got half way through what you wrote.
Just ask! You don't have to say do you like me, but you can say hey would you like to go on a date some time? Could I invite you out for a drink/food? It's really not hard and it solves all your problems.
I'll give her the benefit of the doubt, since I'm not really privy to the whole situation - It could be that she has a crush on you and just isn't mature enough with «when it comes to having the means to deal with those feelings.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Dude. I've responded to this question one of the times you asked it already! Then you unfollowed me and now you refollowed me just to ask the same thing? What the freakin' what, man?
Only one way to find out... Ask her out on a casual date like a lunch or something after class. If she takes you up on it see where things go. If she rejects you it will suck but years down the line you will be happy you at least tried.
Yes. If she remembers almost every little thing and is risking missing class just to talk to you, she likes you. I'd say make your move if you like her
She doesn't remember almost everything
She didn't risk missing class to talk to me
You did say she cut class just to socialize. That's kinda taking a risk there.
Yeah she did it when I was in class
So does it sound like she stopped to flirt with me in the hall the other day?
She had the biggest smile seeing me and it's like she can't say much. She didn't even say my name.
I think she does like you but doesn't know how to tell you because she's shy. Try talking to her more and she'll get more comfortable with you
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
It's fairly obvious she feels something for you. However, she's also pretty shy so she might not be able to just come out and say it.
What do you mean she feels something for me
Making it a point to be as close to you as possible, and the prolonged eye contact, these are both very obvious signs that she's into you.
When she was standing close to me and hovering around
Does it sound like it was intentional or I'm overthinking
No one works that hard to remain close to someone without it being intentional on some level.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Like I said, she's shy. And she likes you, so being around you is likely to make her nervous.
So was she doing that bc she's nervous and was trying to flirt with me?
Maybe, probably. Though only she could say for sure.
What was she doing
Trying to flirt with me?
No one would do those things if they hate the person.
Was she flirting with me when she stopped to ask me about my classes this semester and smiling a lot
I got a flirty vibe from her saying awww
Most likely. At a certain point you're just going to have to ask her yourself. She's the only one that knows the answer to that for certain. Until you ask her, was only so much we can figure out.
Does she sound shy or something
I try to talk to her ask her stuff and conversation seems so weird with her it's like she can't talk to me
I've seen her in the cafe talking to people and other guys
She doesn't smile as much
Shy, and/or nervous.
I thought it was disinterest
Doesn't make sense she smiles a lot and does that stuff but it's like she can't really talk to me very much and stuff seems forced and awkward
If you want answers you're just going to have to ask her.
Has she given me ask me out cues get
Not sure, she's definitely sending you some kind of cues though.
Sounds like she’s trying to flirt with you or trying to get your attention but isn’t confident enough in herself to be upfront about it, she’s definitely interested though.
I've seen her talk to other people and guys she's pretty stoic
I saw her sit with a guy but it seemed like she had a straight face and was meh about it
.
She's really smiley with me
What was she doing when she held long eye contact with Me and smiled
She was smiling and looking at me like she was posing for a pic
Yeah, she definitely likes you.
What are girls doing when you make long eye contact like that
It all about putting yourself out there with no net. If you like this girl in that way. Then come up with plan for a date and ask her out. Wish you luck
Maybe she is shy or socially awkward either way go for it buddy. Ask if she wants to hang out or do something you know you both enjoy like seeing a band you both like or eating at a specific place you talk about liking.
So do you think she likes or no
Ye go for it bro :)
I crossed paths with her today and she said hey but she was not making good eye contact and we got close enough I could smell her. It's like she talks softer closer to me and it didn't seem very assertive. Not very confident.
Does that mean something
She might be thinking you don't like her and she is making herself look foolish because you haven't asked her out yet. Just go for it don't wait to long or you can lose the chance. You only live once and getting rejected isn't a big deal.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
I don't think the question here is whether she likes you, but whether she is just flirting - and intending to withhold - and whether you want to do something about her liking (like ask her out/set up a date or a walk and kiss her etc)
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
I've never seen a long eye contact that's forced... Maybe you just felt awkward because she was coming on to you (which is totally fine btw). Leaning over toward you or getting close so you can smell her is definitive interest.
Be careful of the type that uses her sexuality to get something from you - attention included - and not actually go all the way (assuming that is something you would want).
Those leave a man frustrated (and play like it's entirely fine while they know full well it's abusive)
What am I supposed to do when they do that
Ha, that's the 'how long is a piece of string' question.
What I found works best is to go straight for something sexual - hug, kiss, hold hands. Get what she is offering with no excuses - if she stops you, then you know it's not on offer so embarrass her for faking it and move on.
(You can be nice and ask what's the problem but that usually just gives her room to manipulate you into something)
This all said, without seeing the faces it's hard to tell. But a kiss or hand holding is not illegal and isn't rape, so...
So was I supposed to ask her out right there
The best thing, by far (!) to do - is to ask her out right then and there. Women are spectacularly vein - if she went as far as making it possible, you are OBLIGED to ask her out, there is no negotiating that.
If you fail (and I frequently do) - you will get tormented badly to get a second chance. Much better to fulfill her needs right away - that never goes wrong.
Does it sound like she intentionally stood close and paced close to me
From your description it does,
But make some physical contact to see where you are at - lean on her or touch her arm or smell her hair on purpose and tell her what you think,
There's no harm in doing any of that
Hey I have autism I used to be dumb about if a girl likes me and I really have to have things in black and white
Am I noticing actual signals and things or overthinking and reading into things
Things with women are relational - from what I can tell, they also want it black and white, but it isn't an opinion/decision - it's a 'ah, he is getting closer to me and I like it' or 'argh, he is taking distance I hate him' thing. That's where it gets fickle - if you can maintain approaching her/being near, you're welcomed and you're the 'good guy' in her eyes.
The moment you are unavailable - even if it is just to think about what is going on - she starts to label you something bad - not because it's a disliking, but because her interpretation is you don't like her (women can be veeeery insecure)
Being confused (and open) is an advantage if anything - you're not pulling back, so you're seen as fine.
Hey I saw her the other day we ran into each other walking on a path in college. She didn't look me in the eyes but said hey in this soft and weak and unconfident unassertive tone. She was looking down almost like as if she's looking at her phone
Is that something or no
She likes , but needs to work on her social intelligence. But you can always play along, flirt back and see how she responds to be sure
I'm surprised she even says hi to me
I crossed paths with her we were close and she was looking down and said hey but really not confident.
I don't get it I've seen her talk to people and hangout with people. She can talk to them just fine but with me she smiles a lot more but if I were to ask her something she doesn't respond and doesn't respond to a lot of things.
Is she really shy with me or no
No she creepy
Is a difference
Is she shy with me
Don't get it does she like me
Start talking to her and find outttt
Hey I saw her the other day we ran into each other walking on a path in college. She didn't look me in the eyes but said hey in this soft and weak and unconfident unassertive tone. She was looking down almost like as if she's looking at her phone
Is that something or no
Where are your paragraphs? I'm not going to read a wall of text.
If you want to know her state of mind invite her to spend some one-on-one time with you. Start with coffee, or something entertaining, and TALK. It's called DATING.
Sitting 2desks away from you is probably the biggest sign that she does. If you casually know someone you'd sit beside them directly cause it's polite and you wouldn't be nervous. Just ask her out or show her you like her
So has she given me ask her out cues
You have asked this 5 times. That is fucking insane and shows mental instability. Get a fucking grip!
It sounds like she likes you but is afraid to make the first move
Hey when she came and sat 2 seats empty seats away from me is that something or no
It was a big lecture hall
Yeah, I always sit close but not too close to guys I like
Is she shy with me at all from the sounds of it or no
I think so, also a lot of girls can be confident but still be shy with guys
How shy is she on a scale 1-10
Well I don’t know her so I can’t say, but I don’t think she’s too shy, otherwise she would’ve sat not so close to you
Why is it the biggest response and longest conversation I've had with her is her response to me asking for advice on how to handle a girl I don't like that likes me and how to not lead her on.
Why speculate? Ask her out. Even if she says no women like to be asked and then you won’t have to do all this guessing
Maybe your IT hair freaks her out! Nah. You don't give enough info to judge
What do you mean
Not enough info given to know what she wants
The best thing you can do is asking her on a date, before she loses interest.
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 empty Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
Is that something
Could be something, why don't you ask her out you clearly like her.
When I sat with the same woman she came and started pacing around me close enough I could smell her and walked right in front of me.
When there was an empty seat she sat between me and that woman
She butted into our conversation when I asked for advice on a girl I don't like that's trying to get my attention only to tell me to IGNORE her.
It was the longest conversation we actually had and that's the most of a response I got and a time she talked the most
Why Is it she doesn't talk much or answer somethings yet the longest conversation we had it was over another girl liking me
Stop analysing every step someone takes. You like her so go ask her out. She will most likely say yes.
She sounds interested on some level. Ask her to grab a cup of coffee or for lunch.
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 empty Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
Is that something
I think you may be over analyzing things. Just strike up a conversation and ask here to coffee/lunch/ (or if you’re bold) a drink.
What do you mean
"and I could smell her"😂? But yeah she totally likes you.
So does it sound like she tries to steal my attention from other girls
I don't get why she would butt in when I ask for advice on a girl I don't like and encourages me to ignore her. Then she will sit between me and a woman I talk to all the time and pace around me and in front of me when I sit with her again
Is this stuff intentional
Of course it is! She wants to get your attention. But it sounds like to me that you don't like her in that way so just don't reciprocate her actions
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Forced a smile? Well if she likes you she wants to show you that she enjoys spending time with you. You guys are so oblivious lol I'm surprised you're catching all these little things she does. She likes you and now it's time for you to decide how you think of her
Does it sound like she was intentionally standing close to me
She was close enough I could smell her
She was pacing close to me and I could smell her
Do girls know what they are doing when that happens
Omg lol I already told you she likes you so make a move or don't make a move!
Has she given me ask Me out cues or no
Yes she's persistently trying to hang out with you so ask her to go to lunch or see movie
How come she doesn't really talk much with me and it's really forced and weird.
I've seen her talk to other people and guys she does just fine.
She doesn't smile with other people as much and just looks at me when I talk or smiles while I do
Dude just make a move already! She likes you. Think about it... haven't you ever liked a girl before? When you like someone you're naturally nervous around them and get tense, maybe stutter. We're always taught to be cute and friendly so that's what we strive for around guys we like. She doesn't smile around other people because she doesn't like them the same way she likes you! I think you should do most of the talking next time you see her since she's nervous.
Is she nervous at all around me or no
Yeah
How can you tell she is
I have autism I have a hard time understanding some of that stuff
Ooh I see. Well since she's finding it hard to speak with you that would mean she wants to talk to you but doesn't know what to say and overall doesn't want to say something stupid that would scare you away
I crossed paths with her today and she said hey but she was not making good eye contact and we got close enough I could smell her. It's like she talks softer closer to me and it didn't seem very assertive. Not very confident.
So hard to tell, she could just be a friendly person. Maybe push the boundaries and flirt a little bit to find out?
If I were getting these kinds of signals, I would ask her out. You're a lucky guy.
How am I a lucky guy
You have a girl clearly interested in spending time with you. If you like her, you should go for it.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Yes. Obviously. Also learn to use paragraphs (please)
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
She wants your pee pee. Give it to her.
Are you being serious
Absolutely! But don't expect a loving, life long relationship. Lotsa women actually like sex and are willing to be the aggressor. So... Have fun!
Why do you say she wants my pp
She's a 5'4" hotty and beautiful I'm a 6'2 300 pound heavy set guy
She's out of my league how can she
Not everyone shares your taste in a potential partner. Stop being hard on yourself, get a hard on and go for it. You have nothing to lose...
These can be the best years of your life. Why deny both of you fun? I went for the gold at your age and succeeded 1 in 5 times. LOTS of premature ejaculations but I have no recovery time! They liked that. Just concentrate on pleasing your partner and the rest falls into place. I was a 6 foot tall walking stick figure with an average winkie. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Was it flirting when said said awwww after I told her my advisor knows I smoke pot and if I come in smelling like it I'll get kicked out
Yay, my luck with being invited to love/relationship/crush-related questions...
As for the question itself, I don't know.¯\ _(ツ)_/¯
My suspicion is she’s showing signals, is she behaving differently with you than her other male friends?
Yes she is
That’s a fairly good indication then
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
Sounds like she has claimed you already. Invite her to have lunch with you or something between classes. Maybe study together.
What do you mean claimed me?
She wants you for herself and is trying to cockblock others away
What was she doing when she held long she contact and smiled it seemed so forced like she was posing for a pic
Maybe she just wanted you to notice her smiling at you. Smile back next time. Or call her out when you catch her staring at you. See how she reacts
Is it obvious she's Flirting or not black and white
Sounds pretty obvious she's flirting. Does she poke fun at you too? Or try to mildly embarrass you?
No she hasn't
Have you previously asked two or three questions about this same girl? This sounds somewhat familiar.
Come on bro your letting me down you should have asked her a few days ago. Go for it YOLO god damnit stop worrying the longer you wait the less chance you have.
Hey I saw her the other day we ran into each other walking on a path in college. She didn't look me in the eyes but said hey in this soft and weak and unconfident unassertive tone. She was looking down almost like as if she's looking at her phone
Is that something or no
Your blowing it bro she thinks your not interested ask asap or give up and regret it.
Is it something
She isn't just being nice for sure. Either, you are being paranoid, or she has an ulterior motive, or she really likes you but don't know how to act normal, so she's trying to emulate those things in order to entice you.
Emulate what things to entice me?
Smile and eye contact.
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
Ask her directly.
Is it normal I felt like I was being flirted with
If she acts differently to you comparing to her attitude with other I think she like you and u should ask her if she would like to hangout don't be shy you have to know her feeling to be more comfortable and confident
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
About smiling maybe because she is nice to people or she want to get you attention
About long rye contact I think she admire you and want you to take a step
She isn't like that with other people
Okay so go talk to her 🤷🤷
If she is shy. She won't make eye contact. Maybe she is just comfort with u.
Too long. The first paragraph means that she likes you. And is aggressive about it. So consider carefully, maybe you don't want to pursue it as it's generally not good when a girl is more aggressive than a guy.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Yes, she is very aggressive. As i already said.
I thought she's just being nice
So is she obviously trying to steal my attention from other women and clear any other threats at this point or no
Can't say for sure if she likes you. I can say for sure that if I were you, I'd ask her out on a date.
If a girl smiles at you a lot, does things for you that's not ordinary then she likes you.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Dude, sounds like she's quite interested in you. Do you not like her?
I do
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Maybe she's socially awkward or doesn't quite know how to let you know right out. Don't lead her on, go for it.
Does it sound like she was standing close to me intentionally
Yep. Now stop talking about it and go for it.
Was she flirting with me when she stopped to talk to me and ask me how my classes are she seemed so happy to see me but seems like she can't answer questions or talk much.
187cmkid just ask her out. Quit overthinking it. Just ask her out. A wingman will say, don't get your feelings hurt, but stop talking about it, stop being so scared, and ask her out already! I think everybody is rooting for you.
I thought she's being nice sometimes
Of course she is. Sounds like a great girl. Why don't you ask her out?
I thought she's just being nice
My last response to this subject. Dude, ask her out. If you don't want to, that's your choice. I'm not really sure how many ways there are to say it or what more you're looking for. She seems like a great girl. It's seems that she likes you. It's seems she has a crush on you. Am I right? Who knows except her. And you'll never know unless you ask her. If you don't want to, that's fine too. It's very simple but you're complicating it.
Sounds like she's interested. If you like her ask her out, otherwise casually refer to her as a friend while talking to her, if she doesn't take the hint, tell her you dont see her that way or you're not interested.
Why would she say awww when I said my advisor would kick me out if I come in smelling like weed
Maybe she wouldn't want you to get kicked out? I don't know.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Sounds like she was soul gazing. Im pretty sure she likes you dude.
What was I supposed to do is that an ask me out cue
I broke eye contact and looked down
Simply put, soul gazing is supposed to make someone fall in love with you.
What was I supposed to do when girls do that
Lol, either ask her out or avoid her.
I mean in that moment
Smile and wink.
When she was standing close to me does it sound like she was trying to get my attention and flirt with me
Most likely.
What was I supposed to do when she did that
Sounds more and more like she wants my attention