TBH, I don't know. I for one wouldn't do any of those things because personally, I find it annoying and cringeworthy. So I really can't tell. But I can kind of tell that this bothers you (whether in a good way or a bad way) so I'd suggest you ask her about it. Ask her how she feels about you because you don't want to jump into conclusion. If you want to be a little more discreet (though I'd advise against it), maybe ask her what she thinks girls do if they're romantically interested in someone. Maybe, to be a little less discreet you could use the old "so there's this girl who (insert the things she's done that got your attention - be it the staring thing or whatever else) at/with me. Why do you think she does it?". Basically, ask her what you've asked us the way you've asked us.
Also, do you, by any chance, feel romantically inclined towards her? Cause psychologically speaking, that would affect the way you see her actions (unconsciously).
I would've said she's possibly into you but since you mentioned it looking forced, I'm not so sure anymore. Hence the suggestion of talking to her about it all.
Its never been easy to judge what's cooking inside of anyone. If you are unsure about her when you have seen and talked to her in person - just the text can't let me decide what is actually in her mind or heart.
But, if you say the smile is forced - then what do you think the reason would be. Is she trying to be look like a nice person to attract you or is there any benifit she could get from such act. Love is complex.
The better question would be - are you into her? If yes - then ask her out and see what happens. Love is a complex thing and the answers here are certainly not any kind of confirmation. Adventure and find out what's deep inside her heart.
I'm not even going to lie I have no idea... we can be confusing specimens. I was never one to flirt or understand when someone would flirt with me so... for minute I assumed you were smart and she needed help I don't know why lol. she does have a point though, you let a person know your not into what they maybe throwing so they can decide if they want to stop. that could be your answer if you just causally say "I'm not looking for anything serious or long term ect" and if all that bend n snap chucky cheese smile your way start to become scarce that's enough to assume that was her flirting and take that knowledge and do what you will with it.
If you did not "read in between lines" of her words and actions, then there is a good likelihood that she likes you and wants to be friends.
BUT, yes, the big word is, BUT, there is a very high chance that you watch too much movies and read too much into her words and actions based on your fantasies.
I suggest that you don't assume too much.
If you likes her, then start asking her out, just to hang out as a pair in private. I'm quite sure she will respond positively. Then talk with her and know her better as a person. Eventually, either of you will raise the question to "go to the next level" or not. So until then, "just be (platonic) friends".
If she acts differently to you in comparison with other guys there’s a good chance she likes you. When girls like a guy, they try to always be around them. Their way of flirting is to laugh and smile lots.
However, there are also girls who have a flirty personality. They do all the same things and tend to lead guys on. I don’t know the girl so there’s no way for me to clearly make a judgment. But if she didn’t act this way with other guys, and is only like this with you then there’s a good possibility she’s into you
I still believe she has a crush on you, but a friendship that involves a one sided crush. I don't know about that. Mostly because she REALLY wants to be with you (maybe). I just don't think it's necessary to involve yourself with her because just think of all the hurt or rejection she will feel inside and having to keep it a secret? That's even worse. You'd be putting her through some pretty extreme emotions. Not a very good friendship. I'm not shaming you or trying to make you feel like a horrible person (because you're not), I'm just explaining the dynamic of the relationship that you eish yo have with her and the affect it would have on her.
Well she definitly likes you a lot... LIKE ALOT!!! Why on earth would she keep smiling at you for no reason, look deep into your eyes you know? I think the question is that do you like her though? I think you mentioned something about not leading her on so I am assuming you dont! How about you keep your distance with her... she seems a bit too strangely obssessed with you to be honest... I would be slightly freaked out a bit. Her telling you to ignore and have boundaries with the other girl you talk to... its a bit questionable... she isn't the boss of you... you make your own decisions here. You can decide who you want to talk to... thats a bit of a red flag coming from her. How about you explain to her that you dont see her in any other light but a friend and just keep a bit of distance from her.
She sat between me and this woman id kind of flirt with and when I sat with the woman she came and started standing in front of me and waiting in front of me standing close and pacing around me
Okay this is really worrisome to be honest!!! She doesn't own you. You definitly need to tell her to back off from now onwards... it can be a bit of a challenge telling someone that (I am not a direct person to be honest) but judging from past incidences you have occured with her, this is crazy and her behaviour is quite scary. She is acting like you guys are an item but even worse she seems to always chase potential girls away from you. Dont tolerate this behaiviour anymore... you need to set your foot down to be honest and tell her off!
Is it overthinking or at this point. I did notice she butted in when I asked for advice on another girl liking me and then she smiles and sits between me and a woman I talk to a lot. When I said s flirty joke to the other woman she laughed the loudest
Its not overthinking. Sometimes we have to trust our instincts, sometimes you can never go wrong with that little voice inside your head. O think the best thing to do at this point is to confront her about it, tell her exactly what you told me... tell her how you have noticed these little things and see how she responds... you can tell a lot from the way someone responds. Just make sure at the end of the day after talking to her, state that you are uncomfortable with what she does. Dont beat around the bush just be open with her... who knows maybe she will back off a bit when it comes to you and other females if she is a good person. Tell me how it goes okay
She is simply interested in you actions speak louder than words. There is no doubt about that like you said. I think it all depends wether you want to give her a shot or not. But whatever you decide to do next is all up to you. Decide on what you think is best for you first before you think about anyone else.
Why do you girls smile and hold long ish eye contact. The eye contact felt so forced and unnatural. The smile felt forced like she was posing for a pic
You mean when "such girls do that". I repeat not every girl does that. Well it all depends on the individual guy here... some guys play along and flirt along by touching their hair and what not. Uniterested guys simply ignore and some of my guy friends actually just tell the girl straight up that they look weird doing so. It all depends on you... you aren't expected to do anything at all... it just depends on how you take it to be honest and you decide how you want to handel the situation according to your own intuition.
Yes, but she's being super creepy about it. Just reading this gives me a bad vibe. Not worth the trouble in my opinion. Also, saying "you're too nice to let her know you're not interested" is a load of bullshit. There's nothing nice about leading her on if you're not into her. All you're doing is avoiding having a potentially difficult discussion. I tell the same thing to girls who aren't straightforward with guys who pursue them too. Eventually she'll figure out that you're not interested, and she'll be far more upset that you led her around and wasted her time than if you were up front with her. Do the right thing, not the "nice" thing.
Making prolonged eye contact is awkward regardless of why you're doing it. Also she's being unusually aggressive in her approach while still being vague in what she actually wants. As one girl here said, she's too immature or uncomfortable with herself to be direct with you. I think that's true to a degree, but I'd also add that girls like that are often paranoid in their relationships and end up causing problems as a result. Such problems include erratic mood swings (things like her breaking into tears randomly and asking "do you think I'm pretty" or "do you hate me"), unrealistic restrictions placed on the guy (a common one is "you're not allowed to talk to other girls or it's cheating"), or in some cases it'll drive her to cheat on you. I had a buddy in school who dated a girl who had hardcore insecurity issues. Some asshole took advantage of this and ended up sweet talking her into sex while she and my buddy were dating. She called him on the phone one day crying and asked "would you still love me even if I wasn't a virgin anymore?" (Keep in mind my friend new she was a virgin when they started dating and they hadn't had sex cause they were in highschool at the time, so this was her indirect way of confessing that she betrayed him). Needless to say they broke up after that. From what you've told me about this girl she sounds really immature and incapable of being straightforward with what she wants. Those girls make some of the worst girlfriends and the easiest targets for scumbags. Not worth the trouble if you ask me.
I'm saying she is sending signals: why or what her intentions are I'm not sure. Women are confusing. 🤷♂️🤦♂️🤔
So let's turn this back to you OP.
You say some of what she does feels forced to you or, in a way, makes you feel awkward or the situation.
So ask yourself:
Do you like her? Is this someone you can imagine yourself dating? Does her actions making you feel more happy or more awkward/put off? Etc.
The part where she said a girl will keep Persisting unless you say something struck me as interesting. Mainly she could be meaning herself in a way from her actions.
So dig deep and ask yourself some serious questions. If she isn't your type then move on quickly, let the girl down or be direct in just being friends and stop stressing over things. Just like she said be direct or this will keep happening.
She's either likes you and is wanting you to be direct. Or she trying to be nice and is feeling just as Awkward.
Unless you are direct, you won't know. 🤷♂️
That's why I asked my questions above:
Is she someone you like? Is she someone you imagine yourself dating? Does her actions bother you? Why? What do you want to do?
If you like her, work on being close friends with her. Don't act anything more then yourself.
If you want to date her, then ask her out for a coffee or lunch. Be smooth like, "Hey I'm gonna go get lunch, you wanna come?"
And if she bothers you. Focus on being friends and if you don't want to be friends then just ignore her actions. Do your thing and let things fall as they will.
If u like this chick is it worth the risk to not see if she likes u back. She may be your soulmate mate. So ask her out to coffee if u guys hit it off ask her on a real date but do something that u r confident doing. For example i cooked for my girls as i feel confident in myself and it shows on the outside. Dont be a nice guy that agrees with her on everything but dont be arrogant or self centered. Ask her questions about her life and history if she is comfortable sharing she is more likely to like u. Otherwise all u can do is ask my dude, waiting for her to do it even if she does is stupid. Wake up in the morning and slap yourself as hard as u can for everyday that u dont try get her. If she just wants to be friends then be friends becuz it will make you more confident around girls if u spend times with ones u r not trying to get. Lastly dont be afraid if she likes u then great u win. If she doesn't big deal u now have a tiny bit more experience with girls. It gets easier
From the looks of it she seems to like you, one of the thing that you need to focus is her smile, try to see different types of smiles to see if her is genuine (you can tell if you see between her eyes and her checks), that's one of them. Another thing to lookout for is the way she treat others and how she treats you, if you see a difference them its possible that she likes you. Its one sign out of many that you have to see. Its not something you can do it in a day (if you manage to do that then I would congratulate you). Based on what you're saying it looks like she likes you, try to see her body language, this will say more and when you feel ready, ask her on a date, take you time before asking her out.
I might understand the smile that could be forced like I've mentioned before, when she smiles see if you can notice a difference between her cheecks and her eyes, It can tell you the difference (it not as simple as it sounds but you'll eventually see it) if not then its forced but the eye contact its a different story. From what you say she's basically giving you signs of attraction (she likes you).
My gut is that she is interested and flirting, but she has a weird way of going about it.
Do you like her? If so, why not invite her for a drink, a cup of coffee, or even a meal and see how she responds. After that, if you find out you still like her, just tell her in a very low key way that you find her attractive and ask her if you're on the same page.
Scary, yeah, I know. But best way to be sure. And you run the risk of getting dragged back to her girl cave for an extended make-out session.
What does her body language mean when she held long eye contact and smiled. The eye contact and smile felt forced and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I think she was really interested in you, but then maybe she got the impression that you weren't into her as much as she was into you so she backed off. If you like her, I would try to get her to realize you're interested and then see if she wants to go on a date
Why is it the biggest response and longest conversation I've had with her is her response to me asking for advice on how to handle a girl I don't like that likes me and how to not lead her on.
She likes you. If you have any interest in her, ask her out and find out more about her. See what kind of person she is. Are you interested in a relationship or are you interested in meeting a horny young hottie? She might be interested in the same things. If you don't make a move you might miss your chance.
I only say no because I'm not sure about the question. I'd that normal college behavior. It common yes but not the rule. We all try to get our needs met and you seem like a health guy. It just seems that you kinda really like this girl and you can always sit down with her and lay it all on the table tell her there truth what you like and what you don't like. She may just agree.
Honestly it sounds as if she's harassing you and it'll be best to stop it before it gets worse and even more uncomfortable. Stop beating around the bush and ask her "Hey, do you have a crush on me?" If she answers yes say "I figured, I like you as a friend.. so please stop flirting with me?" Because like she said say you're not interested it doesn't make you a dick you would be if you didn't tell her and waste both of you guys time.
Man you see all the details for yourself. She shows the interest in you. She shows posession for lack of a better word. Couldnt be more clear mate. Of course she does. Even if you aren't friends or even close. Doesn't mean squat. She has feeling for you. If you dont like her and dont like that attention she gives you. Just tell her upfront mate
Got no clue mate, depends the context. But regardless. If everything else you said stands true. Then year the feelings are there. She might be flirting. If you truly believe that is that case. Let her know you dont feel the same and move on
Honestly, I get like that with a lot of my friends. It sounds like possesive friendship. It can be different for everyone, but for me, I had a very hard time making friends growing up. So when I did make friends (especially when they were upset) I'd get super possesive of them. Stand between them and someone else if I felt they were uncomfortable, get jealous if another friend was closer to them than I. Stuff like that.
Yes, but bonds can be one sided. She might've considered you a friend even if you didn't. If not, then there wouldn't have been a doubt in my mind that she likes you. But even in my college classes, I meet people who can make me laugh and smile, and even though they almost never give me the time of day, I still consider them friends.
Possibly, all girls are different. I don't exactly know what a guy might consider "flirting" and unfortunately, the only way to know for sure is if you ask her. If you only see her in the halls now, and she makes you uncomfortable, just tell her "I'm sorry, my next class is starting soon, I'll talk to you later" or "I'm sorry, my professor said they needed to see me before class, I can't be late. Maybe later?" And then just walk away before she can give you her number. Other than that, I'm very sorry I can't give you more advice.
i don't think so. it's easy to mistake acquaintances as interest. you have the same classes and see each other often. maybe if you were more friendly and didn't give off the i'm going to be weird about this vibe it would be easier to talk to you?
do you not smile back? do you not waive her to come over when she's 2 desks away? be friendly first and then you can work on something more if you get that right
It's whether she likes you or she's playing with your mind. Girls don't get close (physically) to guys without some kind of intention. The intention can be genuine attraction or mere curiosity. Either way I don't think she's really shy, shy girls don't have guts to sit next to someone they're interested in or to force an eye contact.
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TBH, I don't know. I for one wouldn't do any of those things because personally, I find it annoying and cringeworthy. So I really can't tell. But I can kind of tell that this bothers you (whether in a good way or a bad way) so I'd suggest you ask her about it. Ask her how she feels about you because you don't want to jump into conclusion. If you want to be a little more discreet (though I'd advise against it), maybe ask her what she thinks girls do if they're romantically interested in someone. Maybe, to be a little less discreet you could use the old "so there's this girl who (insert the things she's done that got your attention - be it the staring thing or whatever else) at/with me. Why do you think she does it?". Basically, ask her what you've asked us the way you've asked us.
Also, do you, by any chance, feel romantically inclined towards her? Cause psychologically speaking, that would affect the way you see her actions (unconsciously).
I think she's attractive want to hangout at least
Hmm...
Well, anyway, try asking her about it. There's nothing to lose, as they say but a possibility of a gain.
Good luck, mate~
What did her body language mean when she was holding the long eye contact
I would've said she's possibly into you but since you mentioned it looking forced, I'm not so sure anymore. Hence the suggestion of talking to her about it all.
What I mean is if I didn't break eye contact it would have continued and it felt like she was waiting for something
Its never been easy to judge what's cooking inside of anyone. If you are unsure about her when you have seen and talked to her in person - just the text can't let me decide what is actually in her mind or heart.
But, if you say the smile is forced - then what do you think the reason would be. Is she trying to be look like a nice person to attract you or is there any benifit she could get from such act. Love is complex.
The better question would be - are you into her? If yes - then ask her out and see what happens. Love is a complex thing and the answers here are certainly not any kind of confirmation. Adventure and find out what's deep inside her heart.
I'm not even going to lie I have no idea... we can be confusing specimens. I was never one to flirt or understand when someone would flirt with me so... for minute I assumed you were smart and she needed help I don't know why lol.
she does have a point though, you let a person know your not into what they maybe throwing so they can decide if they want to stop. that could be your answer if you just causally say "I'm not looking for anything serious or long term ect" and if all that bend n snap chucky cheese smile your way start to become scarce that's enough to assume that was her flirting and take that knowledge and do what you will with it.
If you did not "read in between lines" of her words and actions, then there is a good likelihood that she likes you and wants to be friends.
BUT, yes, the big word is, BUT, there is a very high chance that you watch too much movies and read too much into her words and actions based on your fantasies.
I suggest that you don't assume too much.
If you likes her, then start asking her out, just to hang out as a pair in private. I'm quite sure she will respond positively. Then talk with her and know her better as a person. Eventually, either of you will raise the question to "go to the next level" or not. So until then, "just be (platonic) friends".
Likes me in what way
In this stage of you knowing her, don't speculate.
If you like her, then just ask her out. Otherwise nothing much to concern.
If she acts differently to you in comparison with other guys there’s a good chance she likes you. When girls like a guy, they try to always be around them. Their way of flirting is to laugh and smile lots.
However, there are also girls who have a flirty personality. They do all the same things and tend to lead guys on. I don’t know the girl so there’s no way for me to clearly make a judgment. But if she didn’t act this way with other guys, and is only like this with you then there’s a good possibility she’s into you
She isn't like this with other guys
I still believe she has a crush on you, but a friendship that involves a one sided crush. I don't know about that. Mostly because she REALLY wants to be with you (maybe). I just don't think it's necessary to involve yourself with her because just think of all the hurt or rejection she will feel inside and having to keep it a secret? That's even worse. You'd be putting her through some pretty extreme emotions. Not a very good friendship.
I'm not shaming you or trying to make you feel like a horrible person (because you're not), I'm just explaining the dynamic of the relationship that you eish yo have with her and the affect it would have on her.
This is someone else not the woman that did stuff for years
Oh.. I got really confused.
So do you think she likes me or no
Well she definitly likes you a lot... LIKE ALOT!!! Why on earth would she keep smiling at you for no reason, look deep into your eyes you know? I think the question is that do you like her though? I think you mentioned something about not leading her on so I am assuming you dont! How about you keep your distance with her... she seems a bit too strangely obssessed with you to be honest... I would be slightly freaked out a bit. Her telling you to ignore and have boundaries with the other girl you talk to... its a bit questionable... she isn't the boss of you... you make your own decisions here. You can decide who you want to talk to... thats a bit of a red flag coming from her. How about you explain to her that you dont see her in any other light but a friend and just keep a bit of distance from her.
She sat between me and this woman id kind of flirt with and when I sat with the woman she came and started standing in front of me and waiting in front of me standing close and pacing around me
Okay this is really worrisome to be honest!!! She doesn't own you. You definitly need to tell her to back off from now onwards... it can be a bit of a challenge telling someone that (I am not a direct person to be honest) but judging from past incidences you have occured with her, this is crazy and her behaviour is quite scary. She is acting like you guys are an item but even worse she seems to always chase potential girls away from you. Dont tolerate this behaiviour anymore... you need to set your foot down to be honest and tell her off!
Is it overthinking or at this point. I did notice she butted in when I asked for advice on another girl liking me and then she smiles and sits between me and a woman I talk to a lot. When I said s flirty joke to the other woman she laughed the loudest
Its not overthinking. Sometimes we have to trust our instincts, sometimes you can never go wrong with that little voice inside your head. O think the best thing to do at this point is to confront her about it, tell her exactly what you told me... tell her how you have noticed these little things and see how she responds... you can tell a lot from the way someone responds. Just make sure at the end of the day after talking to her, state that you are uncomfortable with what she does. Dont beat around the bush just be open with her... who knows maybe she will back off a bit when it comes to you and other females if she is a good person. Tell me how it goes okay
It doesn't make me uncomfortable I just have noticed that
Is it obvious at this point she tries to steal my attention
She is simply interested in you actions speak louder than words. There is no doubt about that like you said. I think it all depends wether you want to give her a shot or not. But whatever you decide to do next is all up to you. Decide on what you think is best for you first before you think about anyone else.
Why do you girls smile and hold long ish eye contact. The eye contact felt so forced and unnatural. The smile felt forced like she was posing for a pic
Well not all girls do that. But for those who do, they are trying too hard to be flirtatious that its so cringey to watch if you ask me.
It felt so forced the eye contact felt so forced and the smile felt do forced
What are guys expected to do when you girls do that
You mean when "such girls do that". I repeat not every girl does that. Well it all depends on the individual guy here... some guys play along and flirt along by touching their hair and what not. Uniterested guys simply ignore and some of my guy friends actually just tell the girl straight up that they look weird doing so. It all depends on you... you aren't expected to do anything at all... it just depends on how you take it to be honest and you decide how you want to handel the situation according to your own intuition.
What does it mean when you girls smile a lot when a guy talks
Interesting view point.
Yes, but she's being super creepy about it. Just reading this gives me a bad vibe. Not worth the trouble in my opinion. Also, saying "you're too nice to let her know you're not interested" is a load of bullshit. There's nothing nice about leading her on if you're not into her. All you're doing is avoiding having a potentially difficult discussion. I tell the same thing to girls who aren't straightforward with guys who pursue them too. Eventually she'll figure out that you're not interested, and she'll be far more upset that you led her around and wasted her time than if you were up front with her. Do the right thing, not the "nice" thing.
I find her attractive and want to ask her out
Okay, then go for it.
I've seen her talk to other people and guys she's pretty stoic
I saw her sit with a guy but it seemed like she had a straight face and was meh about it
She's really smiley with me
What was she doing when she held long eye contact
Awkward flirting, probably.
Why does she give you a bad vibe and say she's creepy
Some people think she's just being nice when some people say stuff you been saying
Making prolonged eye contact is awkward regardless of why you're doing it. Also she's being unusually aggressive in her approach while still being vague in what she actually wants. As one girl here said, she's too immature or uncomfortable with herself to be direct with you. I think that's true to a degree, but I'd also add that girls like that are often paranoid in their relationships and end up causing problems as a result. Such problems include erratic mood swings (things like her breaking into tears randomly and asking "do you think I'm pretty" or "do you hate me"), unrealistic restrictions placed on the guy (a common one is "you're not allowed to talk to other girls or it's cheating"), or in some cases it'll drive her to cheat on you. I had a buddy in school who dated a girl who had hardcore insecurity issues. Some asshole took advantage of this and ended up sweet talking her into sex while she and my buddy were dating. She called him on the phone one day crying and asked "would you still love me even if I wasn't a virgin anymore?" (Keep in mind my friend new she was a virgin when they started dating and they hadn't had sex cause they were in highschool at the time, so this was her indirect way of confessing that she betrayed him). Needless to say they broke up after that. From what you've told me about this girl she sounds really immature and incapable of being straightforward with what she wants. Those girls make some of the worst girlfriends and the easiest targets for scumbags. Not worth the trouble if you ask me.
Why would she say awww when I said my advisor would kick me out if I come in smelling like weed
Either she feels bad on your behalf or she's pitying you.
Could be straight up mockery too
Was it flirting or no
I'm saying she is sending signals: why or what her intentions are I'm not sure. Women are confusing. 🤷♂️🤦♂️🤔
So let's turn this back to you OP.
You say some of what she does feels forced to you or, in a way, makes you feel awkward or the situation.
So ask yourself:
Do you like her?
Is this someone you can imagine yourself dating?
Does her actions making you feel more happy or more awkward/put off?
Etc.
The part where she said a girl will keep Persisting unless you say something struck me as interesting. Mainly she could be meaning herself in a way from her actions.
So dig deep and ask yourself some serious questions. If she isn't your type then move on quickly, let the girl down or be direct in just being friends and stop stressing over things. Just like she said be direct or this will keep happening.
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
It's two ways to me.
She's either likes you and is wanting you to be direct.
Or she trying to be nice and is feeling just as Awkward.
Unless you are direct, you won't know. 🤷♂️
That's why I asked my questions above:
Is she someone you like?
Is she someone you imagine yourself dating?
Does her actions bother you?
Why?
What do you want to do?
If you like her, work on being close friends with her. Don't act anything more then yourself.
If you want to date her, then ask her out for a coffee or lunch. Be smooth like, "Hey I'm gonna go get lunch, you wanna come?"
And if she bothers you. Focus on being friends and if you don't want to be friends then just ignore her actions. Do your thing and let things fall as they will.
Again, what do YOU want? Be decisive.
When she was standing close to me
Do girls do that on purpose
If u like this chick is it worth the risk to not see if she likes u back. She may be your soulmate mate. So ask her out to coffee if u guys hit it off ask her on a real date but do something that u r confident doing. For example i cooked for my girls as i feel confident in myself and it shows on the outside. Dont be a nice guy that agrees with her on everything but dont be arrogant or self centered. Ask her questions about her life and history if she is comfortable sharing she is more likely to like u. Otherwise all u can do is ask my dude, waiting for her to do it even if she does is stupid. Wake up in the morning and slap yourself as hard as u can for everyday that u dont try get her. If she just wants to be friends then be friends becuz it will make you more confident around girls if u spend times with ones u r not trying to get. Lastly dont be afraid if she likes u then great u win. If she doesn't big deal u now have a tiny bit more experience with girls. It gets easier
If she friendzones u dont see it as a problem it just means its way easier to befriend her friends with increases your circle of influence
From the looks of it she seems to like you, one of the thing that you need to focus is her smile, try to see different types of smiles to see if her is genuine (you can tell if you see between her eyes and her checks), that's one of them. Another thing to lookout for is the way she treat others and how she treats you, if you see a difference them its possible that she likes you. Its one sign out of many that you have to see. Its not something you can do it in a day (if you manage to do that then I would congratulate you). Based on what you're saying it looks like she likes you, try to see her body language, this will say more and when you feel ready, ask her on a date, take you time before asking her out.
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
I might understand the smile that could be forced like I've mentioned before, when she smiles see if you can notice a difference between her cheecks and her eyes, It can tell you the difference (it not as simple as it sounds but you'll eventually see it) if not then its forced but the eye contact its a different story. From what you say she's basically giving you signs of attraction (she likes you).
When she was standing super close to me
Do girls do that stuff on purpose like did it sound intentional with me
My gut is that she is interested and flirting, but she has a weird way of going about it.
Do you like her? If so, why not invite her for a drink, a cup of coffee, or even a meal and see how she responds. After that, if you find out you still like her, just tell her in a very low key way that you find her attractive and ask her if you're on the same page.
Scary, yeah, I know. But best way to be sure. And you run the risk of getting dragged back to her girl cave for an extended make-out session.
Real scary shit.
Good luck!
What does her body language mean when she held long eye contact and smiled. The eye contact and smile felt forced and she was leaning over and scratching her head
The only way to interpret that kind of stuff with any hope of accuracy is to be on the receiving end - and then I often get it wrong.
Just man up and ask her to do something low key with you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MVhBEtTSEcE
Thanks for the MHO!
I think she was really interested in you, but then maybe she got the impression that you weren't into her as much as she was into you so she backed off. If you like her, I would try to get her to realize you're interested and then see if she wants to go on a date
So does she still or no
I think she still probably does
Why would she say so softly and avoid eye contact seeing me on a path and being up and personal
She has been fine before but gets really soft spoken.
I don't really know maybe she's just shy
Why is it the biggest response and longest conversation I've had with her is her response to me asking for advice on how to handle a girl I don't like that likes me and how to not lead her on.
Cause she doesn't want that other girl to get you
I was talking about how I don't like her so she's not a threat regardless
Was she obviously
She likes you. If you have any interest in her, ask her out and find out more about her. See what kind of person she is. Are you interested in a relationship or are you interested in meeting a horny young hottie? She might be interested in the same things. If you don't make a move you might miss your chance.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
No wonder kids can't get dates these days. They overthink everything. If she's cute, ask her out. If you're not attracted to her, ignore her.
I only say no because I'm not sure about the question. I'd that normal college behavior. It common yes but not the rule. We all try to get our needs met and you seem like a health guy. It just seems that you kinda really like this girl and you can always sit down with her and lay it all on the table tell her there truth what you like and what you don't like. She may just agree.
Like is she flirting with me or no
Honestly it sounds as if she's harassing you and it'll be best to stop it before it gets worse and even more uncomfortable. Stop beating around the bush and ask her "Hey, do you have a crush on me?" If she answers yes say "I figured, I like you as a friend.. so please stop flirting with me?" Because like she said say you're not interested it doesn't make you a dick you would be if you didn't tell her and waste both of you guys time.
How's she harassing me?
Man you see all the details for yourself. She shows the interest in you. She shows posession for lack of a better word. Couldnt be more clear mate. Of course she does. Even if you aren't friends or even close. Doesn't mean squat. She has feeling for you. If you dont like her and dont like that attention she gives you. Just tell her upfront mate
Was she Flirting when she said awwww
Got no clue mate, depends the context. But regardless. If everything else you said stands true. Then year the feelings are there. She might be flirting. If you truly believe that is that case. Let her know you dont feel the same and move on
I'm a 6'2 300 pound man
She's less than half my weight 5'4" and gorgeous she's beautiful
How would she be interested
You're tall for a start, women are often attracted to that.
@Gods_Gift can you answer please
Honestly, I get like that with a lot of my friends. It sounds like possesive friendship. It can be different for everyone, but for me, I had a very hard time making friends growing up. So when I did make friends (especially when they were upset) I'd get super possesive of them. Stand between them and someone else if I felt they were uncomfortable, get jealous if another friend was closer to them than I. Stuff like that.
Basically she just wants to make sure you're alright, by any means necessary. She wants to protect you and be special to you.
What do you mean
We weren't really friends
Yes, but bonds can be one sided. She might've considered you a friend even if you didn't. If not, then there wouldn't have been a doubt in my mind that she likes you. But even in my college classes, I meet people who can make me laugh and smile, and even though they almost never give me the time of day, I still consider them friends.
Has she been flirting with me
She smiles at me more than any other person
Possibly, all girls are different. I don't exactly know what a guy might consider "flirting" and unfortunately, the only way to know for sure is if you ask her. If you only see her in the halls now, and she makes you uncomfortable, just tell her "I'm sorry, my next class is starting soon, I'll talk to you later" or "I'm sorry, my professor said they needed to see me before class, I can't be late. Maybe later?" And then just walk away before she can give you her number. Other than that, I'm very sorry I can't give you more advice.
Was it flirting when she stopped and talked to me she had the biggest smile ever and the way she said aww
i don't think so. it's easy to mistake acquaintances as interest. you have the same classes and see each other often. maybe if you were more friendly and didn't give off the i'm going to be weird about this vibe it would be easier to talk to you?
do you not smile back? do you not waive her to come over when she's 2 desks away? be friendly first and then you can work on something more if you get that right
What are you talking about everyone says its obvious
i'm not everyone. i'm going to tell you what i see happening
It's whether she likes you or she's playing with your mind. Girls don't get close (physically) to guys without some kind of intention. The intention can be genuine attraction or mere curiosity. Either way I don't think she's really shy, shy girls don't have guts to sit next to someone they're interested in or to force an eye contact.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
I think she was trying to catch your attention. And you're right she was definitely flirting with you.
Does it sound like she paced around me intentionally
She was standing around me and it was close enough I could smell her. .