Your now her tutor well if your not you best be trying to be she is deffinantly interested man taking time out of her life to ensure she runs into you find a mutual interest and invest your time by the sound of it she is caring and sweet and you won't be wasting your time deep breathes bro and goodluck
Why does this sound familiar... Oh wait! I know! Because you have asked the same question another... uhm... 5 times? Well, the answer is the same... Why would she seem flirty after advice? ↗
We think our body language through. Everything we do is thought out. Her hovering on you and her staring into your eyes are good indicators that she probably likes you. I'd guess she's putting the ball in your court. Shoot her a text or acknowledge her existence some how. If you don't like her tell her. If you do like her let her know. Do something with the ball.
I bet she smelled good, too lol She's doing it on purpose. That was so you could smell her hair or whatever fragrance she used that day. Do something with the ball.
She likes you. Girls smile a lot at guys when they like a guy.
I don't think I can break it down any more. This girl is doing what she's doing cuz she likes you, it's normal for girls to do this. It's up to you to encourage it or shut it down.
Sounds like she likes you. But I’d have to know more about the girl... they can be complicated (as can guys) but with girls it’s always harder to read whether they like you or not as girls can be flirty and friendly without always having an agenda of actaully getting with you
You should hangout with her, spend more time not in an environment where you meet just because you have to. So ask her to go do something like help shopping, gym, coffe, movie. Somewhere where she would have to go just to meet with you.
Body language may be interpreted differently, but it looks like she is interested.
Thats how relationships are, you can't be 100% sure, its never white or black. Interested means that something may happen if you will give it a go. If you won't, you will never know what she was feeling in the first place.
I was late a few times big time in my life, so I kind of regret it. Better regret of doing than not doing it. (Unless its a crime - do not commit a crime lol)
Sounds like she is dropping hints but wants you to make a move. I suggest talking to her. My question is do u like her? Is this attention she is giving you wanted or weird? If your not interested I would still suggest talking to her so she doesn't embarrass herself.
Well she crushing on you, she trying to get you to notice her in that way and ask her out. Her flirting isn't subtle. Decide if you want to ask her out. If not than be kind to her and let her know if you want to be friends and you don't want that then in the middle of conversation , tell her she remind you a lot like your sister or a cousin (if you don't have a sister)
Jumping in on one on one conversation, sitting right next to you when possible the long eye contact with smiles. Laugh at everything you say even when its not that funny. Tell me what do you consider girl does when she flirts with someone she likes?
You can pick apart the situation, but there are never any guarantees. You have to step up and take a chance, like everyone else. One tip already have a date planned out. It's better to take a swing and miss than not at all. Because i rather swing for a chance to be happy then never do and complain about it
Yeah i think she likes you if it was just the other stuff maybe but the fact that she wants to pop up when u r talking to other women is a major signal. It really looks like she will only wait until you make the first step so if yoi are interested you should shoot your shot, if not don't lead her on because she might be thinking something is going on
It was just awkward just because it almost get awkward when there is a long hold of eye contact or maybe because there was someome else in her head it was maybe something like can we be left alone or something I don't know, depends on the topic of conversation too sometimes if a woman thinks you are friends or like tight she thinks you will get all her signals if she is trying to say something to you using her body language
Firstly... R u interested in her? If yes then ask her out directly.. if no, then tell her to msintain distance. There r two things here, either she got interested in u at first sight or she is playing some game.
In my opinion... just ask her what she thinks about u. Just as friends or more than that? (I feel it's more than just friends n she is definitely giving u a lot of hints.)
games means: Maybe she just wanna add one more person to increase her rejected people list. Or maybe she got some dare to make u fall for her. N maybe she is just doing everything for fun.
When she smiled and held the long eye contact and just looked into my eyes she was sitting close to me and she was leaning over and scratching her head while doing it and her smile seemed so forced it felt like she was posing for a pic and the eye contact felt so forced it wasn't natural
I think u r interested in her. If that's d case, y don't u try to make her fall for u. So like if she is playing d game, then it's tit for tat. N if she actually likes u, then u r still not losing anything.
Dude , she is into you. I know I wouldn’t spend time and get very close with boys that I don’t like and I’m not interested in. I wouldn’t stare at someone if I wasn’t attracted to them. Just ask her if you are not sure. What’s the worst thing that can happen? She says she isn’t attracted to you and then you laugh it off.
You are reading into things tooooo deeply. She might of been in a bad mood or she might of been tired or upset , but hey , she smiled back at you. If I didn’t like someone I wouldn’t smile back, trust me. And plus eye contact is a physical way to tell if someone’s into you. And you said you held eye contact. Question : Are you a shy person?
So basically you have to become her friend first so that’s she is very comfortable around you. So , you have to talk to her more. Ask her how is she and tell her good morning/goodnight (this is always a turn on) , listen to what she has to say , DO NOT only talk about yourself. If you see she’s upset try to be there for her. If you see she’s struggling with something (books... etc.) offer to help and hold the door opened for her if possible. Try to touch her in a joking/ friendly way (not in a creepy way) like high five her 🙌🏻or fist bump her 🤜🏻🤛🏻. Try to compliment her from time to time (not always) (( “I like what you’ve done with your hair, it looks nice” “Your outfit is popping” “You have a very pretty smile” )). Always keep the eye contact , let her be the one who looks away first. Basically become her friend and you will see if you actually like like her or if it was just a “silly” crush. Because when you are friends friends with someone you aren’t that shy around them , you can actually ask her on a date if you still want to after getting to know her. I hope this helps. If you have anymore questions just ask.
Sometimessss. But don’t read into things so deeply. She might of just been wearing some perfume and she happend to be close to you. However, I think she likes you.
Sounds like it to me , if you like her then go for it ask her out , she is showing all signs that she likes you but i am Sure she is nervous also , so best thing you should do is just be like hey what are you doing. this weekend , would you like to go out with me? You're best to pick a place before hand like dinner and movies or what not
You need to firstly like her enough if your wanting a girlfriend and the second thing is easy if you want to move forward. She is shy but in her way she is showing/hinting for you to ask her out. Look at things from her side, she knows she is shy but she is really putting herself out there for you, don't leave her hanging. Compliment her smile, let your hands touch etc. Say to her something in regards to a movie, a band, a something that you'd like to go and would she like to come with you. Done
I crossed paths with her yesterday and she said hey but she was not making good eye contact and we got close enough I could smell her. It's like she talks softer closer to me and it didn't seem very assertive. Not very confident.
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 empty Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
She has been dropping hints to you for ages, YES. If you keep making up stuff to delay well, she may get asked out by another guy and she says yes because you took to long and she thought you were not interested in her
She was so marking her territory and if she is cute and you like here she could have been the love of his life do a best friend and loves perfect relationship but maybe to late now but you should be feeling that stuff inside to know what to do next leave it lay or go to her and repair the friendship and make her your focus for the rest of your life or as long as toucan hold oxn you can't hold onto her...
Actually it was a lot more then ask her out... but that is were you start it sound like she has it Bad for you but if your feelings not strong enough to do the long haul get out before you mess with her heart but I would got at her pace and start studying psychology of body language!!! Cause the body language will speak louder than any spoken word... and body language has a harder time lying to you!!!
Stare right back and lose yourself in there with her...,. or at least fake it she it pulling some classics of the laws of attraction question is did it work... i am thinking yes cause your here asking advice on what to do next... but you will need to have a sit down and talk to each other about what your feeling the more you open up and let her in the harder she will fall... but you need to take the risk of outing yourself out there and hope she will catch you... if you know what I mean!
Nerves some anxiety which now but you need to stop questioning it to death and act on the information she is putting out you really don't even have to do anything drastic for a while just spend more time with her and let the connection do the work for... you do that right won't be to long before she said something but you would be a fool to let that happen but spend as much time with her as you can for the next 2-3 week's while you work out hot to go about making you move if you can wait that long but in that 2-3weeks you will have to allow yourself to be vulnerable and open to her... now take your ads to bed and stop overanalyzing it and get some sleep... the work start in the morning good night, and good luck... lol... get yourself in trouble someone will advise you throw...
Is very possible this girl likes you, what you need to check is her behavior with other people (most importantly guys). This will be the last part of the puzzle that you need, if you like her keep having conversations with her. Don't lead her on if you don't like her that way, this will end up badly.
If you like her then ask her out, from the looks of this (she will say yes). just take it slow and get to know her better. Good luck
Then from the information that you've given, there's no shadow of a doubt that she likes you. Now the choice is yours, if you feel the same towards her then ask her, if not then don't play with her emotions. Its the worst thing anyone can do.
It depends on the type of questions you ask, however, if you ask her any type of question just to have a conversation with you then its possible that she's shy (its part of the attraction process). Basically you can make open questions to see her behavior and the type of answer she can give.
When you see her talking with other guys, does she flirt with them (even if its a little bit)?
You need to keep in mind, she's talking with other guys because she knows them (as friends), thus making conversations with them looks effortless. if she talks to others and when you enter the area she immediately becomes quiet (when you did nothing to cause that) is very possible that she's the shy type. Another giveaway is if you try to talk to her and (for some reason) she runs away without you actually doing something wrong.
There's a high possibility that she's trying to know how you behave before she makes a bigger move on you. Its also possible that she's shy with you, take your time and be patient as these type of girls flirt weird sometimes (little to no experience on dating, anxiety, etc.). Just keep observing her behavior and don't rush things, everything will fall into place in time.
Just be patient with her, she transfer to the school (I don't know how much time she's been on your school). She's from another country, therefore she might be having some culture conflict (try your best to make her feel like she never left her country) and she's trying to make new friends, she might be having a hard time too trying to socialize.
Definitely, but its a little bit, its part of the attraction phases. The fact that she's using her body language (the signs of interest that you've mentioned) to let you know she likes you is the clear sign despite the face that she doesn't talk much with you (for now). With in time (probably months) she will eventually open up and start having a conversation with you. Try asking how was her day, its a good start. Keep asking some personal questions (what she likes, dislikes, favorite sports, etc), it will help.
Awkward flirting with guys its fine for her (for us may be weird), the only way that you can truly know if her parents didn't allowed her to date is if she tells you. If that's true then its something that you should have in mind, remember, when people haven't dated for some time it seems awkward (but its because of the skills).
This is another indication that she likes you, she does this to sound more nice (and sometimes feminine) and in some cases its a sign of comfort. The less confidence is another indication of shyness (part of the attraction) from her.
She'll speak lower when close to you so that it won't hurt your ears because of the voice (for example: you wouldn't like to be next to a megaphone because of the loud noise as this would hurt the people's ears that are around the person with the megaphone. Its more approachable if the person talks in a low voice, it won't hurt anyone's ears).
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
There isn't enough information to know, next time you see her try to wave at her, if she waves back it meas she noticed you (because looking at your direction is a little difficult to know if she's looking at something else or not).
When she was talking to the other girl, was she laughing out loud for no reason and do you know if she was looking at you every once in a while?
So for this day it seems that nothing unusual happened. Sitting from that distance could mean that she's testing her proximity with you. She might've not looked at you from when you know, this is when you need to be very observant, some girls would make a quick glance at you and/or look away when you look at her (this way it seems like she's looking at something else (at the very least pretending).
Just because nothing happened today it doesn't mean tomorrow will be the same. This is something that will take weeks and/or months (more than 2).
Why can't she really talk to me or answer my questions.
She talked to other people including guys and she can just fine and she'll have a straight face. She has a big smile a lot and doesn't answer my questions
Remember, girls have their shy moments and are more susceptible to be more anxious than guys. It seems that you're dealing with an shy/anxious girl. Some girls have this condition because of past experiences while other girls may develop this on a early stage (2 years of age, depending on the environment).
Girls with anxiety are more worried on what does her crush does (you), she'll become very self-aware up to the point that she'll rather avoid/ignore you just to be normal and not acting weirder. She can told to other guys because their opinion doesn't really matter to her (since she's focused about you) thus making her feel more relaxed.
The best way to get her to approach and initiate a conversation is to be funny and make jokes, this way she'll forget about her anxiety and will try to approach you in time. Again, this will take more than a month as shy girls take a lot of caution whenever the'll make a move (dues to her past experience).
Be patient, be funny and within time you'll see the change.
Now that was a sign of attraction, to get close and saying it on a soft tone is without a doubt. That was proof of the difference that can only happen to someone she's attracted (you), its a good sign.
You can start noticing the voice tone to see if it changes only with you, if it does changes then its a great sign.
Then you its very possible have a shy girl there, its rare that non shy girls would react like this. Many say that if she would've looked at your eyes you could've noticed her attraction for you.
By her looking down and with the soft tone indicates that she likes you and she's shy, what made it more clear it was the narrow path as she didn't expected to see you so close to her.
Yes it is, that behavior she's making is classic shyness. Its because she's so nervous and/or anxious that she won't dare to look straight in your eyes (people say that its because you could find out that she likes you by just looking in her eyes), that's what a lot of girls mention and/or fear.
By saying "hey" in a softly tone, its a clear indication of attraction (because she changed her tone of voice), therefore a clear sign of interest. In short, both of them mean something (they're both good signs).
Why is it the longest conversation she had with me and biggest reaction I got out of her me talking about another girl that likes me and I was asking how to not lead her on. That's the most of a response I got from her and she was into it lol
Despite the fact that she's shy, it won't chance the fact that she can get jealous. To confirm this try it again with a different scenario with a different girl (just to see her response), if she reacts and jumps into the conversation to help you again then she likes you (but she doesn't want to make it noticeable).
Great way to know if she likes you is if you ask for help (any type of help) and she'll quickly comes to help you with little to no hesitation whatsoever. The conversation from is a good example, over time, she'll talk to you more, she'll be very into it then lol.
It sounds like both of you are not honest or truthful about your feelings, you should be straightforward and ask where do you stand what would you like what are your dislikes, sounds like you're in high school better yet grammar School still playing those childish games if you're in college it's time to grow up that includes using your brain tell them how you feel straight off and you know where you stand,
Hard to say. Some people are just very friendly with someone because of trust or attraction. I look at it like this. You like her. And obviously it's on your mind if she likes you.
Asking her out is the easiest way to figure that out.
SO much story... just skip all that. If you like her ask her to meet for coffee so you can talk. You'll find out real quick if she's really interested.
Or ask her for an actual date, like "I have tickets to [name concert] can you join me?" If she says she can't on that day but wants to reschedule something else then she's interested. If she just shuts you down she's not.
I have to agree with this. If she is playing games she will say she’s busy, maybe after exams, or keep blowing you off. The coffee thing is the best way. Then she won’t use you as a free dinner ticket.
It doesn’t matter. Are YOU into HER? Also, why? Is it because she’s sending you signals?
If you truly like her just show her that you do. Don’t reciprocate just because she’s doing it, especially if you don’t really like her back.
Also, I see a lot of guys do this: don’t reciprocate just became she happens to be a female with good looks. Seriously, stop doing that (Saying this to all men out there) because you somehow end up getting your heart broken repeatedly when y’all do that shit.
Its not uncommon for men or women of all ages to be shy around someone they like. at least she tries to talk and she remembers stuff. break the ice with her that might help her to talk to you or even ask her out. what harm will it do if you break the ice or ask her out i dont see any harm in it.
Flirty. not everyone is the same. seems like to me she was trying to get your attention and she is to scared to talk to and she might think she's not your type so she is waiting for you to make the next move
You will never know until you tired. whats the worse thing that could happen she just wants to be friends? if she smiles and remembers the dumb things about a class you had then be the big boy you are and start talking to her never know she might me your one no one knows what the future holds and you dont know what could happen if you break the ice and start talking to her
She likes you and you like her but it sounds like neither of you habe a lot of self confidence. Don't let that get you down. It is normal. You are just going to have to ask her out. Make it something simple and easy. The two of you can learn from each other how to be comfortable with each other. Good luck!
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Your now her tutor well if your not you best be trying to be she is deffinantly interested man taking time out of her life to ensure she runs into you find a mutual interest and invest your time by the sound of it she is caring and sweet and you won't be wasting your time deep breathes bro and goodluck
She didn't cut class or take time to talk to Me
Why does this sound familiar...
Oh wait! I know! Because you have asked the same question another... uhm... 5 times? Well, the answer is the same...
Why would she seem flirty after advice? ↗
We think our body language through. Everything we do is thought out. Her hovering on you and her staring into your eyes are good indicators that she probably likes you. I'd guess she's putting the ball in your court. Shoot her a text or acknowledge her existence some how. If you don't like her tell her. If you do like her let her know. Do something with the ball.
When she was standing close to me and was the closest she's ever been standing on top of me in an empty room and hovering around me
Do girls do that on purpose
Yes. Women are strong believers in personal space so if they like a guy they will invade personal space.
She is doing all of this on purpose.
Well she had her back to me but was standing a little closer lol
I could smell her and I noticed it was close
I bet she smelled good, too lol She's doing it on purpose. That was so you could smell her hair or whatever fragrance she used that day. Do something with the ball.
She did
What was she trying to do show me her ass it's the best view I had of it
Probably 😂 If you like her do something about it. If you don't like her tell her. The ball is in your court buddy.
What was she doing when she smiled and held long eye contact
She's passively flirting with you. All of this is passive flirting. Do 👏 something 👏
She is passively flirting with you in the most obvious way.
What do you mean passively flirting like being coy about it?
What was I supposed to do when she was making that eye contact with me
Yes.
You could have complimented her eyes or her smile.
Why does she have a big smile on her face when I talk why do girls do that
She likes you. Girls smile a lot at guys when they like a guy.
I don't think I can break it down any more. This girl is doing what she's doing cuz she likes you, it's normal for girls to do this. It's up to you to encourage it or shut it down.
Why am I told she's just being polite
Who says she's being polite
Some people on here
You can always just ask her if she likes you but my opinion is that she likes you.
Sounds like she likes you. But I’d have to know more about the girl... they can be complicated (as can guys) but with girls it’s always harder to read whether they like you or not as girls can be flirty and friendly without always having an agenda of actaully getting with you
What was she doing when she smiled and held long eye contact
To me personally, I’d do that to a guy I either liked found funny, was attracted to or all three
Was it a cue it felt very forced and she was waiting for something
I think they only way you’ll find out more is reciprocating and flirting back a bit to see if it goes further
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You should hangout with her, spend more time not in an environment where you meet just because you have to. So ask her to go do something like help shopping, gym, coffe, movie. Somewhere where she would have to go just to meet with you.
Body language may be interpreted differently, but it looks like she is interested.
Did you answer yes or no
Thats how relationships are, you can't be 100% sure, its never white or black. Interested means that something may happen if you will give it a go. If you won't, you will never know what she was feeling in the first place.
I was late a few times big time in my life, so I kind of regret it. Better regret of doing than not doing it. (Unless its a crime - do not commit a crime lol)
Sounds like she is dropping hints but wants you to make a move. I suggest talking to her. My question is do u like her? Is this attention she is giving you wanted or weird? If your not interested I would still suggest talking to her so she doesn't embarrass herself.
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
Well she crushing on you, she trying to get you to notice her in that way and ask her out. Her flirting isn't subtle. Decide if you want to ask her out. If not than be kind to her and let her know if you want to be friends and you don't want that then in the middle of conversation , tell her she remind you a lot like your sister or a cousin (if you don't have a sister)
Does it sound like she's just being nice
Jumping in on one on one conversation, sitting right next to you when possible the long eye contact with smiles. Laugh at everything you say even when its not that funny. Tell me what do you consider girl does when she flirts with someone she likes?
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
Trying to be obvious, to make sure you read the signs
What was I supposed to do
Follow my advice i mentioned in last paragraph
Ask her out when she dud that
Ask her out the next time you're able to see her
Asap
Only if you are attracted to her as well
When she was making that eye contact did it sound intentional
? How does eye contact SOUND intentional
When she was making long eye contact
Rephrase your question
When she was making long eye contact and forcing a smile was it intentional
Why are you having problems with this. Do you like this girl? Yes or No Pick one
Yes
I'm asking if girls make long eye contact like she did intentionally
You can pick apart the situation, but there are never any guarantees. You have to step up and take a chance, like everyone else. One tip already have a date planned out. It's better to take a swing and miss than not at all. Because i rather swing for a chance to be happy then never do and complain about it
Yeah i think she likes you if it was just the other stuff maybe but the fact that she wants to pop up when u r talking to other women is a major signal.
It really looks like she will only wait until you make the first step so if yoi are interested you should shoot your shot, if not don't lead her on because she might be thinking something is going on
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
It was just awkward just because it almost get awkward when there is a long hold of eye contact or maybe because there was someome else in her head it was maybe something like can we be left alone or something I don't know, depends on the topic of conversation too sometimes if a woman thinks you are friends or like tight she thinks you will get all her signals if she is trying to say something to you using her body language
Was she flirting with me
From what you said she is flirting all the time
No with the weird forced eye contact
No i already said what o tought that was
She wanted to be alone with me
Firstly... R u interested in her?
If yes then ask her out directly.. if no, then tell her to msintain distance.
There r two things here, either she got interested in u at first sight or she is playing some game.
In my opinion... just ask her what she thinks about u. Just as friends or more than that? (I feel it's more than just friends n she is definitely giving u a lot of hints.)
What do you mean playing some game
games means:
Maybe she just wanna add one more person to increase her rejected people list.
Or maybe she got some dare to make u fall for her.
N maybe she is just doing everything for fun.
When she smiled and held the long eye contact and just looked into my eyes she was sitting close to me and she was leaning over and scratching her head while doing it and her smile seemed so forced it felt like she was posing for a pic and the eye contact felt so forced it wasn't natural
U don't need to do anything.
Let the chips fall where they may.
Just wait for her to confess.
What are girls doing when they do that
I think u r interested in her.
If that's d case, y don't u try to make her fall for u.
So like if she is playing d game, then it's tit for tat. N if she actually likes u, then u r still not losing anything.
Yes I am
Why do they make that eye contact
Dude , she is into you. I know I wouldn’t spend time and get very close with boys that I don’t like and I’m not interested in. I wouldn’t stare at someone if I wasn’t attracted to them. Just ask her if you are not sure. What’s the worst thing that can happen? She says she isn’t attracted to you and then you laugh it off.
I don't think she's stared at me
I’m pretty sure she does but you haven’t noticed yet. Just look out for it.
What are you girls doing when you hold long ish eye contact and smile she did that and the smile seemed forced and like she was posing for a pic
You are reading into things tooooo deeply. She might of been in a bad mood or she might of been tired or upset , but hey , she smiled back at you. If I didn’t like someone I wouldn’t smile back, trust me. And plus eye contact is a physical way to tell if someone’s into you. And you said you held eye contact. Question : Are you a shy person?
Yes very
Do you want her to know you are interested in her without actually like telling her that?
Yeah I guess
So basically you have to become her friend first so that’s she is very comfortable around you. So , you have to talk to her more. Ask her how is she and tell her good morning/goodnight (this is always a turn on) , listen to what she has to say , DO NOT only talk about yourself. If you see she’s upset try to be there for her. If you see she’s struggling with something (books... etc.) offer to help and hold the door opened for her if possible. Try to touch her in a joking/ friendly way (not in a creepy way) like high five her 🙌🏻or fist bump her 🤜🏻🤛🏻. Try to compliment her from time to time (not always) (( “I like what you’ve done with your hair, it looks nice” “Your outfit is popping” “You have a very pretty smile” )). Always keep the eye contact , let her be the one who looks away first. Basically become her friend and you will see if you actually like like her or if it was just a “silly” crush. Because when you are friends friends with someone you aren’t that shy around them , you can actually ask her on a date if you still want to after getting to know her. I hope this helps. If you have anymore questions just ask.
Has she given me signals to ask her out?
Yes but take things slow , you don’t wanna freak her out.
So when she stood really close to me had her back to me and I could smell her
Do you girls do that stuff on purpose
Sometimessss. But don’t read into things so deeply. She might of just been wearing some perfume and she happend to be close to you. However, I think she likes you.
No she walked like right in front of me and stood noticably close
Just do what I said and thank me later :)
Sounds like it to me , if you like her then go for it ask her out , she is showing all signs that she likes you but i am Sure she is nervous also , so best thing you should do is just be like hey what are you doing. this weekend , would you like to go out with me? You're best to pick a place before hand like dinner and movies or what not
When she was standing close to me and was the closest she's ever been standing on top of me in an empty room and hovering around me
Do girls do that on purpose
If they like u Yes, she wants your cock , go for it
You need to firstly like her enough if your wanting a girlfriend and the second thing is easy if you want to move forward. She is shy but in her way she is showing/hinting for you to ask her out. Look at things from her side, she knows she is shy but she is really putting herself out there for you, don't leave her hanging. Compliment her smile, let your hands touch etc. Say to her something in regards to a movie, a band, a something that you'd like to go and would she like to come with you. Done
I crossed paths with her yesterday and she said hey but she was not making good eye contact and we got close enough I could smell her. It's like she talks softer closer to me and it didn't seem very assertive. Not very confident.
Re read my message.
Is she shy with me
Stop analyzing. Do you like her?
Yes I do I want to hangout with her.
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 empty Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
Is that something
Your making every reason why not to ask her out. Forget it
We didn't talk much
Should I go up to he and ask her for her number
Yes, do it, also chat to her. Ask what is a good time tonight to call her.
When she made long eye contact was it an ask me out cue?
She has been dropping hints to you for ages, YES. If you keep making up stuff to delay well, she may get asked out by another guy and she says yes because you took to long and she thought you were not interested in her
Hey I have autism I used to be dumb about if a girl likes me and I really have to have things in black and white
Am I noticing actual signals and things or overthinking and reading into things
She was so marking her territory and if she is cute and you like here she could have been the love of his life do a best friend and loves perfect relationship but maybe to late now but you should be feeling that stuff inside to know what to do next leave it lay or go to her and repair the friendship and make her your focus for the rest of your life or as long as toucan hold oxn you can't hold onto her...
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
She was trying to establish a spiritual connection with or maybe she read it in a psychology book it is a collage... lol
Was it an ask me out signal it got awkward real quick
Actually it was a lot more then ask her out... but that is were you start it sound like she has it Bad for you but if your feelings not strong enough to do the long haul get out before you mess with her heart but I would got at her pace and start studying psychology of body language!!! Cause the body language will speak louder than any spoken word... and body language has a harder time lying to you!!!
Also no matter how beautiful a woman is she is never out of your league the heart is a funny thing... it wants what it wants!!!
What was I supposed to do when she made long eye contact and smiled in silence
What was I supposed to kiss her lol.
Stare right back and lose yourself in there with her...,. or at least fake it she it pulling some classics of the laws of attraction question is did it work... i am thinking yes cause your here asking advice on what to do next... but you will need to have a sit down and talk to each other about what your feeling the more you open up and let her in the harder she will fall... but you need to take the risk of outing yourself out there and hope she will catch you... if you know what I mean!
How's it a sign that they're in love when they do that
I've had 3 girls make long eye contact with me and most smile
She kind of forced it like she was smiling for a picture.
Nerves some anxiety which now but you need to stop questioning it to death and act on the information she is putting out you really don't even have to do anything drastic for a while just spend more time with her and let the connection do the work for... you do that right won't be to long before she said something but you would be a fool to let that happen but spend as much time with her as you can for the next 2-3 week's while you work out hot to go about making you move if you can wait that long but in that 2-3weeks you will have to allow yourself to be vulnerable and open to her... now take your ads to bed and stop overanalyzing it and get some sleep... the work start in the morning good night, and good luck... lol... get yourself in trouble someone will advise you throw...
Yeah she did it when I was in class
So does it sound like she stopped to flirt with me in the hall the other day?
She had the biggest smile seeing me and it's like she can't say much. She didn't even say my name.
Is very possible this girl likes you, what you need to check is her behavior with other people (most importantly guys). This will be the last part of the puzzle that you need, if you like her keep having conversations with her. Don't lead her on if you don't like her that way, this will end up badly.
If you like her then ask her out, from the looks of this (she will say yes). just take it slow and get to know her better. Good luck
She doesn't smile with other guys really
Then from the information that you've given, there's no shadow of a doubt that she likes you. Now the choice is yours, if you feel the same towards her then ask her, if not then don't play with her emotions. Its the worst thing anyone can do.
No but it seems like she doesn't respond to things and can't answer somethings
Is that a bad thing or shyness
I've seen her sit with another guy and talk to him she had a straight face and it looked fine.
I've seen her talk to other people most she'll do is smile really didn't look like she had a hard time
It depends on the type of questions you ask, however, if you ask her any type of question just to have a conversation with you then its possible that she's shy (its part of the attraction process). Basically you can make open questions to see her behavior and the type of answer she can give.
When you see her talking with other guys, does she flirt with them (even if its a little bit)?
You need to keep in mind, she's talking with other guys because she knows them (as friends), thus making conversations with them looks effortless. if she talks to others and when you enter the area she immediately becomes quiet (when you did nothing to cause that) is very possible that she's the shy type. Another giveaway is if you try to talk to her and (for some reason) she runs away without you actually doing something wrong.
it gets a little tricky sometimes.
Just asking how her classes are she didn't answer
I'd ask her to send me something over email but I didn't follow through and ask again.
So why do people think she's being more than just nice
There's a high possibility that she's trying to know how you behave before she makes a bigger move on you. Its also possible that she's shy with you, take your time and be patient as these type of girls flirt weird sometimes (little to no experience on dating, anxiety, etc.). Just keep observing her behavior and don't rush things, everything will fall into place in time.
Yeah she doesn't seem like she's dated at all
Her family is from another country and she does goof in school
Just be patient with her, she transfer to the school (I don't know how much time she's been on your school). She's from another country, therefore she might be having some culture conflict (try your best to make her feel like she never left her country) and she's trying to make new friends, she might be having a hard time too trying to socialize.
No she is from another school and around here but her family is from a different country.
She really doesn't seem like she flirts with guys much or date them
So dies it sound like she's shy with me
Definitely, but its a little bit, its part of the attraction phases. The fact that she's using her body language (the signs of interest that you've mentioned) to let you know she likes you is the clear sign despite the face that she doesn't talk much with you (for now). With in time (probably months) she will eventually open up and start having a conversation with you. Try asking how was her day, its a good start. Keep asking some personal questions (what she likes, dislikes, favorite sports, etc), it will help.
Is and awkward flirting with guys?
She seems like the type that had parents that wouldn't let her date
Awkward flirting with guys its fine for her (for us may be weird), the only way that you can truly know if her parents didn't allowed her to date is if she tells you. If that's true then its something that you should have in mind, remember, when people haven't dated for some time it seems awkward (but its because of the skills).
How come she is softer spoken and speaks less confidently and weaker closer
This is another indication that she likes you, she does this to sound more nice (and sometimes feminine) and in some cases its a sign of comfort. The less confidence is another indication of shyness (part of the attraction) from her.
She'll speak lower when close to you so that it won't hurt your ears because of the voice (for example: you wouldn't like to be next to a megaphone because of the loud noise as this would hurt the people's ears that are around the person with the megaphone. Its more approachable if the person talks in a low voice, it won't hurt anyone's ears).
Hey today we had to all go into this lecture hall. Well I was already sitting down she came in and signed in and saw me I think. Well she came sat in my region but 2 Desks away next to this woman I've seen her talk to once.
Is that something
There isn't enough information to know, next time you see her try to wave at her, if she waves back it meas she noticed you (because looking at your direction is a little difficult to know if she's looking at something else or not).
When she was talking to the other girl, was she laughing out loud for no reason and do you know if she was looking at you every once in a while?
It was a big lecture hall she didn't talk to her she sat in my vicinity very close..
She sat 2 Desks away from me there were 2 empty desks. She didn't look
So for this day it seems that nothing unusual happened. Sitting from that distance could mean that she's testing her proximity with you. She might've not looked at you from when you know, this is when you need to be very observant, some girls would make a quick glance at you and/or look away when you look at her (this way it seems like she's looking at something else (at the very least pretending).
Just because nothing happened today it doesn't mean tomorrow will be the same. This is something that will take weeks and/or months (more than 2).
Is it a sign or no
Ik she wouldn't sit right next to me it'd be too obvious
For now it isn't. It could be possible that she would sit next to you next time just so you could bet the hint (make it obvious).
Why can't she really talk to me or answer my questions.
She talked to other people including guys and she can just fine and she'll have a straight face. She has a big smile a lot and doesn't answer my questions
Remember, girls have their shy moments and are more susceptible to be more anxious than guys. It seems that you're dealing with an shy/anxious girl. Some girls have this condition because of past experiences while other girls may develop this on a early stage (2 years of age, depending on the environment).
Girls with anxiety are more worried on what does her crush does (you), she'll become very self-aware up to the point that she'll rather avoid/ignore you just to be normal and not acting weirder. She can told to other guys because their opinion doesn't really matter to her (since she's focused about you) thus making her feel more relaxed.
The best way to get her to approach and initiate a conversation is to be funny and make jokes, this way she'll forget about her anxiety and will try to approach you in time. Again, this will take more than a month as shy girls take a lot of caution whenever the'll make a move (dues to her past experience).
Be patient, be funny and within time you'll see the change.
She said hey so softly up and close
Almost like she couldn't handle being that close, skittish,
Is that good
I notice things like tone.
Now that was a sign of attraction, to get close and saying it on a soft tone is without a doubt. That was proof of the difference that can only happen to someone she's attracted (you), its a good sign.
You can start noticing the voice tone to see if it changes only with you, if it does changes then its a great sign.
No she didn't get up close
We crossed paths and saw each other and she said it but the path was narrow and we were up close and she was looking down and said hi.
Then you its very possible have a shy girl there, its rare that non shy girls would react like this. Many say that if she would've looked at your eyes you could've noticed her attraction for you.
By her looking down and with the soft tone indicates that she likes you and she's shy, what made it more clear it was the narrow path as she didn't expected to see you so close to her.
She didn't like look straight down but didn't look at me but said hey softly.
Is that still something or no
Yes it is, that behavior she's making is classic shyness. Its because she's so nervous and/or anxious that she won't dare to look straight in your eyes (people say that its because you could find out that she likes you by just looking in her eyes), that's what a lot of girls mention and/or fear.
By saying "hey" in a softly tone, its a clear indication of attraction (because she changed her tone of voice), therefore a clear sign of interest. In short, both of them mean something (they're both good signs).
Why is it the longest conversation she had with me and biggest reaction I got out of her me talking about another girl that likes me and I was asking how to not lead her on. That's the most of a response I got from her and she was into it lol
Despite the fact that she's shy, it won't chance the fact that she can get jealous. To confirm this try it again with a different scenario with a different girl (just to see her response), if she reacts and jumps into the conversation to help you again then she likes you (but she doesn't want to make it noticeable).
Great way to know if she likes you is if you ask for help (any type of help) and she'll quickly comes to help you with little to no hesitation whatsoever. The conversation from is a good example, over time, she'll talk to you more, she'll be very into it then lol.
It sounds like both of you are not honest or truthful about your feelings, you should be straightforward and ask where do you stand what would you like what are your dislikes, sounds like you're in high school better yet grammar School still playing those childish games if you're in college it's time to grow up that includes using your brain tell them how you feel straight off and you know where you stand,
Hard to say. Some people are just very friendly with someone because of trust or attraction.
I look at it like this. You like her.
And obviously it's on your mind if she likes you.
Asking her out is the easiest way to figure that out.
The worse that will happen is she will say no.
Just remember to respect her decision.
SO much story... just skip all that. If you like her ask her to meet for coffee so you can talk. You'll find out real quick if she's really interested.
Or ask her for an actual date, like "I have tickets to [name concert] can you join me?"
If she says she can't on that day but wants to reschedule something else then she's interested. If she just shuts you down she's not.
I have to agree with this. If she is playing games she will say she’s busy, maybe after exams, or keep blowing you off. The coffee thing is the best way. Then she won’t use you as a free dinner ticket.
It doesn’t matter.
Are YOU into HER? Also, why? Is it because she’s sending you signals?
If you truly like her just show her that you do. Don’t reciprocate just because she’s doing it, especially if you don’t really like her back.
Also, I see a lot of guys do this: don’t reciprocate just became she happens to be a female with good looks. Seriously, stop doing that (Saying this to all men out there) because you somehow end up getting your heart broken repeatedly when y’all do that shit.
I'd like to hangout with her at least
What did her body language read when she was smiling and holding long eye contact
It felt so forced the eye contact and smile
Its not uncommon for men or women of all ages to be shy around someone they like. at least she tries to talk and she remembers stuff. break the ice with her that might help her to talk to you or even ask her out. what harm will it do if you break the ice or ask her out i dont see any harm in it.
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe
Flirty is good. ever heard the saying? "actions speak louder then words"
For some its hard for them to say what they are thinking for them actions are easier.
What are girls doing when they do that
Flirty. not everyone is the same. seems like to me she was trying to get your attention and she is to scared to talk to and she might think she's not your type so she is waiting for you to make the next move
Yeah she did it when I was in class
So does it sound like she stopped to flirt with me in the hall the other day?
She had the biggest smile seeing me and it's like she can't say much. She didn't even say my name.
She likes you. smiles are good. so is she your type in the looks department?
Yes but I don't know if I am hers.
Everyone would say she's out of my league
I'm a 6'2 300 pound heavy set big man. I'm a big man.
She's a 5'4" average sized beauty and weighs less than half my weight.
I don't get how she could be shy with me and why she would flirt with me
You will never know until you tired. whats the worse thing that could happen she just wants to be friends? if she smiles and remembers the dumb things about a class you had then be the big boy you are and start talking to her never know she might me your one no one knows what the future holds and you dont know what could happen if you break the ice and start talking to her
So does it sound like she stopped to flirt with me in the hall the other day?
She had the biggest smile seeing me and it's like she can't say much. She didn't even say my name.
She likes you and you like her but it sounds like neither of you habe a lot of self confidence. Don't let that get you down. It is normal. You are just going to have to ask her out. Make it something simple and easy. The two of you can learn from each other how to be comfortable with each other. Good luck!
What was she doing when she forced a smile and making long eye contact that's forced
Didn't feel natural and she was leaning over and scratching her head
I got a flirty vibe