He’s gone from meeting up for lunch to squeezing me in for drinks during weekdays that suit him, while he goes out for dinners with random women he’s picked up online. Also, he said that he might be too busy to meet up with me on the only days I’m free for my two weeks of work placement. The message generally being that he’d rather spend all his money on taking random online women out for dinner than carve out one day for lunch or dinner with a friend who’s always been there for him.
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I mean if he’s dating trying to look for a serious relationship or trying to find wifey, then yeah… it should be understandable that he prioritizes his dating life. If he’s just looking for hookups, then I can understand why you feel that way.
He’s just looking for hook ups
Unfortunately yes it is fair , because he is clearly looking for a relationship with someone, so that’s why he is going on all these dates with random girls’ , so by you just being his friend , you should be supportive of him and happy for him hoping he finds someone. Just because he isn’t spending a lot of time on you like he was before , it doesn’t mean he isn’t your friend , and that he doesn’t like
You anymore , it just means he is looking for a partner someone that loves him the same way he loves her, and my advice to you , is you should do the same. So you won’t get lonely and frustrated when your friends’ don’t have time for you like you want them to. Find yourself a partner and you won’t be lonely anymore
It is fair to end a friendship for any reason or for no reason at all.
That said, the behaviour you describe is normal. People often prioritise romantic interests.
It’s not normal when they do it all the time. Where they won’t even have lunch with you anymore, but they insist on staying friends. What kind of a friendship is that?
It is, but I get the feeling you like him as a friend and you’re jealous of these random online women
I’m pissed from not feeling valued enough, mostly. The way he said he’d see me basically if there were no better offers.
You should be prepared that if he does happen to find a woman and ends up in a serious, committed relationship, he might spend all of his time with her.
I believe that the two of you need to sit down together and have a conversation and go over exactly what the ground rules are for your relationship, because they seem to have changed.
You deserve friends who value your presence and respect your time, not people who treat your loyalty as a given while chasing shiny new distractions. This is common behavior among men.
Actually it's common behaviour among humans.
Sounds like this is where he is in his life now. If his friendship is important, give him some leeway and leave him alone. If his friendship isn't that important, you can call it off and seek companionship/friendship elsewhere.
No, he has a right to his love lfe. But if his friendship isn't important to you by all means end it.
no, that's how all friendships go. you just don't like that your back up is moving on and you don't have your "good Man" to fall back on when you're done "finding yourself". either commit to him or let him find his love.
Just talk to him about it but do you have a liking to him? Maybe he just wants to find somebody to date and just sees you as a friend.
If he's not getting sex from you then you have nothing to complain about.
You have to talk to him about it and see if he changes
Told you before you babe fuck him off
@MissSunshine2 Yes it’s fair, move on girl
Hahahaha... jump.
He's a boy. That's how most of us operate.