Once you're comfortable with a person, you aren't as shy as stuffing your face around them. Lot of people get the mentality that they don't have to worry about looking good since they already have someone. In the case of my wife, her mother couldn't cook worth a damn and she simply started eating more when she moved in.
I think it's a thing for some people. You let your guards down and are in a comfortable place to not care as much about appearances. Other couples see it as an excuse to stay fit in fear of losing their s/o. Depends on the person.
I've seen it happen to others. I've only gained weight twice in my adult life- one was when I had knee problems and didn't run for four years and the other was due to living in very unhealthy San Antonio.
Yes because once they are with the person they wanted, they seem to neglect taking care of their body as much and become less motivated thinking the man or woman wouldn't care and if they love them, they'd accept them as they are. The point is that they should want to look good for their spouse.
I guess is when there is someone with u, eating became so blissful and u will feel happy, therefore u will eat more. But losing weight comes when u have self discipline and for health concerns. NO ONE SHOULD LOSE WEIGHT FOR THEIR PARTNER BY FORCE. That being said, happy relationships can lead to happy weight gain
Well at least not for me. I normally get skinnier or more muscular, a woman motivates me. I use women as muses But my last 3 girlfriends all gained 15lbs+ while dating me. So yes. Its real for some people.
I say yes, because I've seen it. Is not exactly love, but the sense of comfort people get that causes themselves to let go. It happens when you are happy at your work, with your family and friends, etc.
it's well know that wedding cake is the most fattening thing a woman can eat. Once she's tasted wedding cake, she will easily gained 7 to 10 pounds a year. Until she gets bored of being married and decides to cash out for the divorce prizes. Then she will lose weight so that she can attract her next wallet.
I lost weight when I dated my ex but it was abusive. Now with the guy I am seeing I think it would be hard for us to gain weight since he is very likely to have his tongue in my mouth so...
I have seen a lot of people start to get a bit chubby after they get married. I think it's a combination of apathy for ones appearance after getting hitched. The effects of age and the stressors of raising a family.
Lots of times when people get into long term relationships they don't feel the need to keep up their looks as much. I don't think people should be doing that because keeping the other attracted to you physically is always a good idea.
I think it can be depending on the lifestyle you live with your partner. This happens when people lose themselves in relationships and stop taking care of themselves. Happened to me.
I was 165 # when I got married, wore a Slim Medium shirt. Now 200 and in Regular XLs. Wife had similar weight gain, but she also had rough times delivering two babies so I cut her some slack for that ;- )
Yes I think so, I havnt been in many long term relationships but what I've found is that when not challenged you get comfortable or when faced with to much struggle so you get a mind set of fuck it. Do things that challenge you and your partner. But ultimately do what you want and what makes you happy. Partners will love you for you.
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Once you're comfortable with a person, you aren't as shy as stuffing your face around them. Lot of people get the mentality that they don't have to worry about looking good since they already have someone. In the case of my wife, her mother couldn't cook worth a damn and she simply started eating more when she moved in.
I think it's a thing for some people. You let your guards down and are in a comfortable place to not care as much about appearances. Other couples see it as an excuse to stay fit in fear of losing their s/o. Depends on the person.
I've seen it happen to others. I've only gained weight twice in my adult life- one was when I had knee problems and didn't run for four years and the other was due to living in very unhealthy San Antonio.
Why San Antonio is unhealthy?
People eat unhealthy diets there and don't get enough exercise.
Yes because once they are with the person they wanted, they seem to neglect taking care of their body as much and become less motivated thinking the man or woman wouldn't care and if they love them, they'd accept them as they are. The point is that they should want to look good for their spouse.
I guess is when there is someone with u, eating became so blissful and u will feel happy, therefore u will eat more. But losing weight comes when u have self discipline and for health concerns. NO ONE SHOULD LOSE WEIGHT FOR THEIR PARTNER BY FORCE. That being said, happy relationships can lead to happy weight gain
Well at least not for me. I normally get skinnier or more muscular, a woman motivates me. I use women as muses
But my last 3 girlfriends all gained 15lbs+ while dating me. So yes. Its real for some people.
I say yes, because I've seen it. Is not exactly love, but the sense of comfort people get that causes themselves to let go. It happens when you are happy at your work, with your family and friends, etc.
it's well know that wedding cake is the most fattening thing a woman can eat. Once she's tasted wedding cake, she will easily gained 7 to 10 pounds a year. Until she gets bored of being married and decides to cash out for the divorce prizes. Then she will lose weight so that she can attract her next wallet.
I lost weight when I dated my ex but it was abusive.
Now with the guy I am seeing I think it would be hard for us to gain weight since he is very likely to have his tongue in my mouth so...
I have seen a lot of people start to get a bit chubby after they get married. I think it's a combination of apathy for ones appearance after getting hitched. The effects of age and the stressors of raising a family.
Lots of times when people get into long term relationships they don't feel the need to keep up their looks as much. I don't think people should be doing that because keeping the other attracted to you physically is always a good idea.
I think it can be depending on the lifestyle you live with your partner. This happens when people lose themselves in relationships and stop taking care of themselves. Happened to me.
I was 165 # when I got married, wore a Slim Medium shirt.
Now 200 and in Regular XLs.
Wife had similar weight gain, but she also had rough times delivering two babies so I cut her some slack for that ;- )
Yes I think so, I havnt been in many long term relationships but what I've found is that when not challenged you get comfortable or when faced with to much struggle so you get a mind set of fuck it.
Do things that challenge you and your partner.
But ultimately do what you want and what makes you happy.
Partners will love you for you.
If the person lost weight just for the relationship and has no real self discipline or motivation beyond the wish to not be single then it can happen.
Don't tell me you've never witnessed people getting lazy in relationships and gaining weight because of it...
I think some people get complacent but like you, I can not feel personally happy if I am not in shape
When I fell in love, I can't sleep or eat well.. I tend to loose weight and people pick up on me that I am in love
It is for a lot of people. When you're really into each other, sometimes all you want to do is stay in all weekend eating and fucking.
Can I ask you a question
Most of the people settle in, stability kicks in. You do not have to look super attractive to attract a mate, you already have a mate.