Would you leave your partner if they became obese?

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LordSnuggles · Accepted Answer

Absolutely would. You have to consider the character and personality that would allow for such a thing to occur. It's not some acute condition. It has to happen over a long period of time and a lot of bad choices. I wouldn't let that happen to me. Not because I want to be attractive to my partner but because I hold myself to a standard and refuse to let myself get so big. I do it for me.

hellacray · Accepted Answer

If it was up to me I'd prevent her from going obese. I mean you can see signs of weight gain, so I wouldn't want her to become obese and then leave her.

If she chooses to continue an unhealthy diet and no exercise well then I'd have no choice but to leave.

MissKittyz · Accepted Answer

If he started gaining too much weight, I'd tell him right away so that it doesn't go to the point of obesity. If he didn't try to change or didn't care about it, then that would be a problem in our relationship for sure.

1Anon · Accepted Answer

No I wouldn’t but at the same time I’d always encourage him to be healthy and be in good shape (not that he needs encouraging as he does it anyway). He would do and does the same for me too.

Ripper_E · Answer

I would express my concerns to her, because it's just a matter of physical attraction, it's simply not healthy. If she refuses to do anything, then I'd leave her. But if she wants to change, I'd give her that chance and support her.

Anonymous · Answer

No, the woman in those photos is gorgeous. She looks still healthy enough to enjoy life. I'd be very attracted to a woman who blossomed to that size in a relationship. Plus, if she was a phenomenal cook with a care free and laid back personality that was contributing to her gain, I'm sure I'd be happily joining her.

JimboGB · Answer

I simply wouldn't allow my partner to become that unfit. What kinda partner would. There is countless measures you could put in place and many ways you could encourage them to improve their fitness.

blutwolfe · Answer

Yes ofc I leave, if I can remain in shape, why can't she/you? That's fucked up lol

Avicenna · Answer

If she got as obese as these two women and wasn't trying her hardest go lose weight, yes.

oncpl · Answer

If one loves his partner, he will not leave. A counter question: will a girl leave her partner if guy becomes obese?

sweet87 · Answer

Not at all! Would encourage exercise and a healthier lifestyle tho.

DWornock · Answer

Of course. It is for better or worse; not thick or thin.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I'd help her get back into shape.

Beastly66 · Answer

Never

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