Depends on how honest or genuine he or she seems about repenting, if they seem like they are truly sorry and regret what they did, then sure, but if they seem like they do not really mean it then probably not.
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Once bitten, twice shy. I never do second chances..
Be VERY careful about giving certain people a second chance
No, not everyone.
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Sometimes. Tread carefully with matters of the heart.
Sure. but also... if you throw a plate at wall and it breaks. my guess is teh 2nd one is going to break as well. ... unless something is changed somewhere in the process. So in other words, there has to be some discovery, revelation, willingness to revise and alter and fundamentally change. Else the formula is the same, and it's just a science experienemnt to repeat and prove the prior results.
The difference is the relationships is emotional rather than some fragile object. But we break even fall even harder it seems...If you just broke up because you wanted to see other people or because work or school got in the way, then absolutely. If it was something more serous then you need to be careful. People can change and can become better people, but you shouldn't put your self at risk of being hurt. Change can be hard and you need to be damn certain that a person has changed before you start another relationship with them.
The more we think about what a person does or doesn't deserve the more we'll be unwilling to forgive and show mercy to each other because, quite frankly, no one deserves a second chance. Second chances aren't something you give because a person deserves it but because they didn't deserve it. If they deserved it you wouldn't have to give it to them in the first place. It's a matter of forgiving and loving people when they are undeserving and showing kindness through that.
I think it depends on what happened in the relationship. For example, if my boyfriend cheated on me, I would have to say that I couldn’t give a second chance. If we were having miscommunication or both of us had grown apart, I’d be more obliged to try again.
Not in all circumstances. Some breaches of trust are unforgivable. They can start over with someone else.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oojVDRegR3oSometimes a second chance is welcome, as long as trust has not been breached. It's kinda hard to rebuild a belief in trust once broken. My experience, has not been favorable for giving them a second chance. Even as a friend. I'm no one's stand by because things don't go well. My true friends and I treat each other with dignity and respect. Third chance.. fact.
No, some people go way too far and deserve nothing from you.
Not everyone. Only those who work on changing themselves for the better.
I think so owly girlm especially if they are married cause they should stay together forever
Not if they cheated or acted abusive in some way, no.
It depends on the severity of whatever it is they've done. Usually no. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Everyone? No. If what was done was just horrible. But for the most part everyone is human and make mistakes. Of they truly seem sorry then yes.
Or what if they didn’t leave... maybe they were in jail... I mean people get pulled over all the time and a careless cops cigarette sets off some fireworks in their car... and these low rent trigger happy cops shoot over 100 rds into an empty car... happens alll the time where I’m from... he could have been sitting in jail missing the fuck out of his girl hoping this wasn’t what was running through her head
I believe everyone deserves a second chance but my thought
is how many times can one forgive somebody?No not everyone deserves a second chance. But it is a nice thing in human nature to understand that people make mistakes, however, this doesn’t mean someone owes you another chance, it all depends on what they want to do.
Not everyone.. Some people didn't even deserve the first one I gave them
I hope I do someday... I think I just got dumped.. but maybe it's for the best. Otherwise if me and her went for it from here on out shed always wonder if she fucked up by not going back... I've felt like that a few years back when I dumped a girl I was pussy fucking whipped on... I got together with a new girl right away who was cool as fuck but I could never stop wondering if I'd fucked up leaving the one I loved... turns out it was the best thing I could have done
Hell no they don't. Chances are based on merit and a case by case basis.
She cheated on you, took over half your assets, over half your retirement savings and alienated you from your children?
second chance?i have given 2nd and 3rd chances, but they usually don't work out..
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